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Serious ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 13:::..., The LDR Fellowship and Advice Thread
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 Dec 2 2020, 09:32 AM
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Getting Started
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If I've got a choice I would never go into an LDR early on. They usually just die a slow but steady death. Relationship cancer.
I've got a Taiwanese ex, we were together for 3 years until I left. Even though she came over for visits maybe once every month, we couldn't do it because she's busy and I'm also really busy. At some point you truly how much you both love each other, but towards the end...you'll realise that it's because of that love that you should just let each other go.
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Dec 2 2020, 10:17 AM
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QUOTE(snommie @ Dec 2 2020, 09:47 AM) If you've really found the One in your life, sometimes it's worth it. I've seen LDR couples that been through all these hurdles together are truly the strongest and their relationship more precious. Its definitely not for everyone...only the strongest mentally. Did you two not plan your future? that's the most important part even before getting really deep into the relationship. Like who is going to move, migrate etc...if no one can compromise then its doomed to fail. Oh yes, we did plan. Quite extensively too, with short term goals and all. Problem is plans also change... We wanted to go to UK to continue our studies together, but we eventually felt that our respective jobs were more lucrative than what we'd get even after getting more education done. She didn't like Malaysia cuz she couldn't do Malay; I didn't like Taipei because there's limited opportunities there, and I don't quite appreciate Mandarin. Anyways. How about you? What's your story |
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