I hardly come on LYN anyway. I used to be very active in CC, but now I just maintain information threads and check in every so often.

I used to have you on Skype. Do you use any sort of chat program? Discord maybe? It'd be nice to keep in touch

Discord has a phone app and there is an LYN server on it
Whatsapp is a bit personal, don't you think? exchanging phone numbers?

omg now that you put it that way, we HAVE known each other for 10 years lol. I have ken_zie on FB, are you on FB?

https://discord.gg/ph7hTsN

It's weird that we virtually known each other for so many years but never meet or speak to each other. The power of technology.

yeah I didn't realize it myself lol

On ldr for 4 months already. She's from sg and im from MY. Never met before, but going to next week...

Up till yesterday only i realized im probably just a spare tyre, we were supposed to meet tmr for the first time. But she sent me "I have a boyfriend, i dont think we should talk anymore, don't ever reply or msg me again" last night.
It hurts so much, because of her, I've planned to throw everything i have here and go all the way to SG to work. I know its just a 4 months relationship, some ppl might say its just a v short time, no need get so sad over it, that might be true. But its still so hurt when you try to commit so much and it ends like this.

How often do you guys contact each others? Im having problem which i want to contact him every hour.. if not im feel alone.. except during sleeping.

i get you man. though having said that, is the option of not travelling to meet her for a weekend or two possible?
are you always the one doing the travelling?
i take it that both of you are aware of each other's financial status also.

i used to have the same thinking as you, as in like if my financial status is not good, then in some ways, i am not worthy of loving anyone or deserving love.
but over the years, i come to learn that if a girl really loves you for who you are, your financial status doesn't matter much. (as long as you have proper job and decent income, and in certain ways responsible with your finances eg, know how to save, not boros, not a gambling addict and with massive ah long debt.)

btw, you have fully recovered from your previous accident already?
are you still paying for your medical bill? (just making some assumptions here as it concerns about financial status.)

Wow... last post was nearly 4 months ago!

Anyway, just wanted to update anyone who knows me regarding my current LDR status. I had decided to end this 10 years relationship of mine. After like 8.5 years of LDR, we're not really progressing to anywhere near to end it. He needed me to move to where he is but he couldn't commit to when to end the LDR which I'm getting tired of. There are a lots of other underlying problems (in my opinions) but he doesn't think so. Whenever I tried to calmly talk to him, he will always said I'm thinking too much and will tell me to find something to do. Then, we communicated less and less, no longer feel motivated to even plan to meet up and.... I also changed I guess. It's so difficult to really explain it out here but, I wanted to move on with my life instead of always wondering when will this end?

Anyway, best of luck to all who are still in LDR!!!

I got my very first girlfriend also in LDR recently,

2017,

Day 1 trip - i was solo trip visit tokyo, and she is also a bag packer solo travel we met in same airbus from KLIA to tokyo sitting next each other, i get to know her just helped pick up her stuff dropped in cabin when is landing, after that we split up.

Day 3 trip - we met again in fuji mount have a few minutes chat and exchange instagram, basically just hi and bye passby.

2018,

After a year this year on march, i started talk to her in instagram exchange idea where to go and after a while she decided request me exchange Line/whatsapp which is convenient for her to communicate.

And now i visit her place very frequent like once a month weekend short trip,

She is indonesia chinese from medan, we do speak same dialect hokkien penang; sometimes we do speak 4 different languages like english/bahasa/hokkien/mandarin.

still playing gunz?

Tarak, how is your sis, I remember she plays as well 

WOW long time no see dude!