QUOTE(nachtsider @ Aug 18 2016, 06:24 PM)
I don't believe in euphemisms.
Call a mass or offering ceremony a mass or an offering ceremony, not a 'party'.
Refer to ghosts as ghosts, not 'brothers'.
Being afraid and avoidant to the point of using euphemisms puts you under the power of that which you fear.
As long as the food offerings to the gods or your own departed loved ones are not contaminated by flies, cockroaches, rats, incense ash or other pollutants/pests, feel free to take them home and consume them.
Food offerings meant for random ghosts should go straight into the trash once the ghosts are done with them.
By far the biggest no-nos are to not disturb the offerings until the time is right for clearing them, and to not ask the ghosts for blessings/favours.
The ghosts are prisoners serving sentences, and are in no position to grant requests of any kind.
Thanks for the "euphemisms " advice. I will avoid this in the future.
As for the offering, what i've seen mostly people will consume it esp the roasted pork. Be frank, i eat that as well.. and for my case, we do it in a construction site so there is lot of foreign workers that line up and wait to take the offering back to their quarter. All is gone in a short time....
Anyway i'm glad to get your advise and next time i will not consume any of this offering anymore...