QUOTE(Mavericka @ Dec 25 2014, 10:26 PM)
1) I feel prejudice every time I change jobs, people always ask me whether i single or married, then i say i am single, they give me funny look. After that I feel really like kena prejudice, people like make fun of me because I am foreveralone. Some time hard to get cooperation at work, because some woman there don't like me because they think I single hamsap failure uncle. But after work some years, they get use to me and realise I am not a threat because I am not interested in relationships
It's a hint that you have commitment problem. Although, a lousy one.
It could be an evidence of your commitment to your career. That's why you are single.
QUOTE(Mavericka @ Dec 25 2014, 10:26 PM)
2) I done all I can in Malaysia, I gone scuba diving, I rode on dirt bikes, mod my car for racing, jungle trekking, go on overseas tours and did charity work. Now I feel bored after achieving all i can.
Keep going for more until you break your knees and back. I don't see why you have to stop doing what you enjoy doing.
Don't tell me you like babysitting these days huh?
QUOTE(Mavericka @ Dec 25 2014, 10:26 PM)
3) I earn so much money , don't know who to pass down to.
There are alot in need.
QUOTE(Mavericka @ Dec 25 2014, 10:26 PM)
4) I wish I can share my life with somebody. When I go on overseas tour, my group always got couple. While I always sit alone in the tour bus. Sometime stay alone have to do everything alone. Like pay my electricity bills or upgrade my water bill, I have to take leave to do it myself.
Do you specifically have someone in mind?
Else, go backpackers lounge and you will find lotsa single traveler there.
QUOTE(Mavericka @ Dec 25 2014, 10:26 PM)
5) Hard to find friends. I got a gang of divorcee guy friends, but they all seem to be too bitter in their stupor to hang around with me. Then at my new work place, the young guys in their 20s seem to prejudice towards single uncle like me. Don;t know why they don't want to hang out with me. Everytime I go eat lunch with them, they will ask me "so ah, you uncle you still single, I am 25 years old while you are 42 years old still dinosaur". So yes, maybe its the generation gap.
I hang out with alot of uncles. I find their life experience interesting on how they get around a situation.
However, I don't like bitter single uncle tho. They share nothing but their biased view towards people without acknowledging their own fallacy and become extremely defensive and unreasonable.
Don't worry. You don't sound like one.
QUOTE(Mavericka @ Dec 25 2014, 10:26 PM)
6) What to start new life in another country but how? I am 42, how to migrate to Australia? way above the age limit. Then who want to stress out to go live in Singapore? Europe now very anti immigration. Our exchange rate so bad now 3.5 to USD, how to go traveling? I want to enjoy the freedom of western country whereby they don't look down on single people not like here in Asia, where we are pressured to get married
If I were you and loving bachelors life with loads of spare $$$ to toss around. I will get myself a yacht parked by marina with by condo just right beside it.
I throw a party alternate weekend and ALL HOTTIES are invited. Everyone feel free to come and go. Only those not gonna make me 50% poorer gets to stay.
QUOTE(Mavericka @ Dec 25 2014, 10:26 PM)
7) I hate to go to relative gatherings, they always ask me when I am getting married. They will single me out and announce what a foreveralone failure I am for being single
8) I so far have not found any girl I like. Or any girl who like me. So hard to find relationships.
So yes that basically sums up. So sifus, any advice?Ultimately, f*ck'em...You hear me right, F*CK'EM ALL!