both my gf and me are 25 but she keeps pushing me for marriage
Please advise. Thanks
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Dec 25 2014, 08:32 PM, updated 11y ago
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different age have different level of thinking or mindset, just like kids like soft drink adults like coffee.
both my gf and me are 25 but she keeps pushing me for marriage Please advise. Thanks |
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Dec 26 2014, 08:54 PM
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QUOTE(teeyao888 @ Dec 26 2014, 03:23 PM) Hey there! I think I probably know how you feel. I'm 24 and my wife is 25 and we just got registered at Putrajaya last Friday on the 19th Dec 2014. Maybe i'm not thinking of getting married so I don't really have any future family plan. But 1 thing freak me out is when thinking about having my own kids, and by looking at other kids, some of them are soooo naughty. I don't think I will have good patience with kids like how to teach them, clean their shit and all,etc. My gf future plan is basically simple, rather than saying plans, its her dream, of having her own family. I've been dating her for 4 years now and I love her, so there goes the reason to start this topic You might ask why get marry at such a young age? Well to answer your questions, first off me and my gf has been dating for 6 years, and we felt that is time to bring our relationship to the next level, as we've already purchased a place of our own. As both of us are still working, therefore we took things step by step, we registered this year, and next year December is the big chinese wedding ceremony, all expenses are purely from me and my wife only. I think to answer your question best is what is the future plan of you and your current gf? As our plan to have kids before 30, after 30 there will be no more kids, and that is one of the reasons why we got married now, as we got a few years of honeymoon together before we start a family together. |
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Dec 29 2014, 08:17 PM
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QUOTE(teeyao888 @ Dec 29 2014, 03:34 PM) Hey there, as for me and my wife, both of us LOVE kids, as sometimes we would volunteer to help take care of my cousin's kids who is 1 to 2 years old. That's why one of our plan is to stop having kids after 30, as having kids after 30 may have a risk. good to hear that....congratulation once again...which area ur wedding gonna be held? mind to share how much each of u save up for the cost of the wedding? how long did u guys save for? i dunno maybe its not saving, maybe its ur investment return or u r rich enuf Also, for future plan, everybody is different, for me and my wife, one of our plans is to have our own place and start our own family, which is what is happening now, we just bought our own condo, where it will be done in a few years time, therefore in the mean time we are just planning for the chinese wedding ceremony and all. |
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