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TSPrincess D
post Dec 18 2014, 10:49 AM, updated 9y ago

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I am married 8 months ago.. im trying to conceive past 9 months .. but usually its doesn't stick im super worried on this matter .

My periods always delay and sometimes i don't get period like two month .. i have consulted gyne he said fine should have no problem ..

whenever i skip period i thought im pregnant but when i check its really disappointing sometimes i cried though , im 24 years old .

does anyone experience this before and now got baby already . any one can five some comment


appreciated it

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post Dec 18 2014, 10:52 AM

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take it slow
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enjoy the process ... do not stress ... else get nothing

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post Dec 18 2014, 11:01 AM

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FInd a fertility specialist
Example is TMC fertility centre, they can help you
ANd please don't try any traditional medicine

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post Dec 18 2014, 11:16 AM

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Change your lifestyle.
Skip rubbish food, chemical coffees, do regular (s)exercise.
Looking for specialist may help, but not always the case.
You must first ensure your period come every month, it will be much more easier to get pregnant.
If not, you and your husband have to work harder at night regularly.

TSPrincess D
post Dec 18 2014, 11:20 AM

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QUOTE(supersound @ Dec 18 2014, 11:16 AM)
Change your lifestyle.
Skip rubbish food, chemical coffees, do regular (s)exercise.
Looking for specialist may help, but not always the case.
You must first ensure your period come every month, it will be much more easier to get pregnant.
If not, you and your husband have to work harder at night regularly.
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Hi rubbish food like?
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post Dec 18 2014, 11:37 AM

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QUOTE(Princess D @ Dec 18 2014, 11:20 AM)
Hi rubbish food like?
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Any food and rinks sell by fast food restaurants and franchise coffee shops are classified as rubbish food.
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post Dec 18 2014, 05:09 PM

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i tried for 6 months before conceiving. me too cried every month when the period come. so i feel for you. what's up with us woman.

the funny thing is i tried this weird advise that i heard from someone random. i ask my hubby to stop wearing his tight fitting underwear and switch to boxer. and 'bam', i got pregnant the next month.

in serious note though, i heard many woman wash after sex, which i never do. i worry the sperm will be wash out.

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post Dec 18 2014, 09:06 PM

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QUOTE(Amanda85 @ Dec 18 2014, 05:09 PM)
i tried for 6 months before conceiving. me too cried every month when the period come. so i feel for you. what's up with us woman.

the funny thing is i tried this weird advise that i heard from someone random. i ask my hubby to stop wearing his tight fitting underwear and switch to boxer. and 'bam', i got pregnant the next month.

in serious note though, i heard many woman wash after sex, which i never do. i worry the sperm will be wash out.
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Actually when we are sleeping, is good to sleep "naked".
Not really full naked, but without underwear and loose cloths.
Letting the john move freely at night do help keeping him healthy:thumbs:
Still, avoiding rubbish food are still the best way.
And beside woman's own issue, sperm count and quality also equally important.

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post Dec 19 2014, 09:25 AM

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QUOTE(Amanda85 @ Dec 18 2014, 05:09 PM)
i tried for 6 months before conceiving. me too cried every month when the period come. so i feel for you. what's up with us woman.

the funny thing is i tried this weird advise that i heard from someone random. i ask my hubby to stop wearing his tight fitting underwear and switch to boxer. and 'bam', i got pregnant the next month.

in serious note though, i heard many woman wash after sex, which i never do. i worry the sperm will be wash out.
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but then my period is the problem sometimes come sometime dont!
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post Dec 19 2014, 09:26 AM

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QUOTE(supersound @ Dec 18 2014, 09:06 PM)
Actually when we are sleeping, is good to sleep "naked".
Not really full naked, but without underwear and loose cloths.
Letting the john move freely at night do help keeping him healthy:thumbs:
Still, avoiding rubbish food are still the best way.
And beside woman's own issue, sperm count and quality also equally important.
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but then my period is the problem sometimes come sometime dont!
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post Dec 19 2014, 09:40 AM

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QUOTE(Princess D @ Dec 19 2014, 09:26 AM)
but then my period is the problem sometimes come sometime dont!
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So, to make your life easier, you need to make your period accurate. Else your husband will shoot blindly only sweat.gif
Just to ask more, is your period accurate last time?
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post Dec 19 2014, 10:49 AM

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QUOTE(supersound @ Dec 19 2014, 09:40 AM)
So, to make your life easier, you need to make your period accurate. Else your husband will shoot blindly only sweat.gif
Just to ask more, is your period accurate last time?
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Not at alll .. 2 months come one month misssing one month come two month missing
tested Negative
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QUOTE(Princess D @ Dec 19 2014, 10:49 AM)
Not at alll .. 2 months come one month misssing one month come two month missing
tested Negative
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If following such routine, it should be easier.
I have a friend that only has period once every 6 months.
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QUOTE(Princess D @ Dec 18 2014, 10:49 AM)
 

I am married 8 months ago.. im trying to conceive past 9 months .. but usually its doesn't stick im super worried on this matter .

My periods always delay and sometimes i don't get period like two month .. i have consulted gyne he said fine should have no problem ..

whenever i skip period i thought im pregnant but when i check its really disappointing sometimes i cried though  , im 24 years old .

does anyone experience this before and now got baby already . any one can five some comment
appreciated it

thanks 

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Could be a diet problem but why not consult another gynae for 2nd opinion ?
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post Dec 21 2014, 11:58 PM

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QUOTE(Princess D @ Dec 18 2014, 10:49 AM)
 

I am married 8 months ago.. im trying to conceive past 9 months .. but usually its doesn't stick im super worried on this matter .

My periods always delay and sometimes i don't get period like two month .. i have consulted gyne he said fine should have no problem ..

whenever i skip period i thought im pregnant but when i check its really disappointing sometimes i cried though  , im 24 years old .

does anyone experience this before and now got baby already . any one can five some comment
appreciated it

thanks 

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Periods : Late / Irregular Periods

Remedies for Irregularity

When you are looking to find a solution for an irregular menstrual cycle the first thing to consider is how serious your irregularity is.

Any cycle that has a long history of being irregular - over a year and more or is very irregular - that is, no bleeding for months at a time, too much bleeding, breakthough bleeding that has gone on for a number of cycles, very painful periods and any other medical disorder generally needs professional care.

Get checked out properly by a doctor or gynocologist.

Then depending on what they recommend or how you feel, you may want to consider seeing a professional natural therapist, eg a fertility counsellor (find one in your area through the contacts page at this website fertility.com.au) or other natural therapist (herbalist, naturopath, acupuncturist) who has experience with menstrual irregularity so they can prescribe medicines for you to help your body regain its natural rhythm. This is often the quickest way to get regular again and is often the most successful in the long term.

Going on the contraceptive Pill is a poor choice when it comes to regulating cycles.

The Pill or any other hormonal contraception will give you a regular cycle but it is a FAKE menstrual cycle as the hormones in it override your body's natural hormonal balance. The bleeding you experience whilst using the pill is not a true period.

Using the Pill does not solve your bodies irregularity and when you come off the pill, the irregularity will return and sometimes it is worse. more on the pill here

Most irregularity stems from an imbalance in the hormonal system, and the hormonal system is very sensitive to all sorts of stimuli. This can work for as well as against us.

The following tips can be helpful in treating minor irregularity.

Diet - is very important. If you eat lots of fast foods you are not giving your body the nourishment it needs. If you eat sporadically, miss meals and diet constantly - you essentially send your body into survival mode. Your body thinks it is starving and shuts down unnecessary systems. A body that thinks it is starving will not cycle regularly - having a cycle that is healthy enough to support new life is secondary.Watch your diet, eat as healthily as you can, this page has some guidelines on health menstrual eating.

Of course, most women are very busy, so just do the best you can - take the time to make the healthiest choice available to you. For example, pick yoghurt or fruit instead of potato chips or chocolate.

Consider taking a quality womens multi with menstrual herbs in it eg chasetree and dong gui. This will help with missed nutrients and the herbs will help balance your hormones. Take this regularly.

There are also other natural remedies and superfoods which can help nutritionally support your body to function optimally - Maca Powder is one. For more info on Maca Powder and its beneficial effects go here

Start doing some simple charting preferably on a calendar that has moon phases in it. Sometimes, the simple intention of tuning into your cycle gives it a gentle kick start in the right direction.

Take note of the moon - natures perfect menstrual regulator. Take a minute to look out the window at night and see the moon. This will also help regulate you even if your cycle is very imbalanced. Find out what lunar phase it is by getting a lunar phase calendar, checking our website for moon phase information or invest in Personal Lunar Fertility Guide. By showing some intention, you are telling your body this is important to you.

Take note of your lifestyle - do you get enough quality time for yourself. Again a chronically exhausted and stressed body will not be regular. See Female Energy System for the emotional and spiritual aspects of your cycle.

Smoking is bad news for fertility and menstrual health. Studies have shown that smokers take longer to conceive than non-smokers, and this includes passive smoking (more at http://www.nietrokers.nl/e/n02100.html ). If you smoke - you should give it up.

I received the following information from Kate Adams who is studying environmental epidemiology - She found the information whilst researching chemicals and ovarian cancer.

"PAH, a component of cigarette smoke and fossil fuel combustion, binds to what is called an Aromatic Hydrocarbon Receptor (AhR) on cells in ovary structures. When PAH attaches itself, it stimulates the ovaries to shut down the maturation process of eggs, resulting in an egg trapped in a non-ovulatory follicle. In other words, smoking can interfere with and even shut down ovulation, with obvious consequences for normal functioning of the menstrual cycle. Some scientists believe this evidence explains why women who smoke experience premature menopause. ... Dioxins and PCB's and other double and multi-ring structures can also bind to this receptor and wreak havoc on reproductive systems, but they do it in a less-known and different way than PAH. "

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post Dec 22 2014, 12:05 AM

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I Saw a Few Product Which is basically Your Issue , But Always Consult Doctor or expert

Just a sharing info


Dong Quai


http://www.gnclivewell.com.my/popup_image.php/pID/107

GNC Herbal Plus® Fingerprinted™ Dong Quai 500mg 90 Vegetarian Capsules Helps to regulate and normalize hormonal balance RM75.90

Helps to regulate and normalize hormonal balance Nourishes the blood and has a mild stimulating and cleansing action on the liver It helps to calm and relaxes the system Especially beneficial for menstrual irregularities, for dysmenorrhea, and for delayed or absent menstrual cycles An excellent herb to ease women during premenopausal syndrome and is highly recommended for use during menopause A good tonic herb to use for young women just entering their menstrual cycles May stimulate bleeding and is not recommended for use during menstruation or for the duration of pregnancy. It is suggested that you use it until one week before the menstrual cycle. Discontinue its use during the bleeding time, and resume it at the end of the cycle The botanical species of Fingerprinted herbs are positively identified by the sophisticated Thin Layer Chromatography (TLC) technology TLC verification method is as accurate and reliable for identifying true herbal species as human fingerprinting Whole ground herb is minimally processed; dried and pulverized Each capsule contains 500 mg of Dong quai root powder

http://shop.herbal.my/index.php?main_page=...bace07239a2c3da

Dong Quai is a traditional Chinese herbal remedy that is growing more popular here in the Western world. Why it's gaining popularity has much to do with the tremendous benefits for both men and women. In fact, dong quai has been touted as a cure for infertility, hot flashes and maybe even cancer. Nicknamed the "female ginseng" because of its benefits for women, dong quai is also effective for men's fertility.



Whether you are a man or a woman, here's what you need to know about dong quai and to improve your health now:



1) Balances estrogen levels. Dong quai is the premier "gynecological regulator." It has the ability to reduce your estrogen levels if they are too high and can increase them if they are too low.

2) Excellent blood tonic. Master herbalist, Ron Teeguarden, attributes the blood toning and nourishing effects of dong quai to its amazing vitamin and mineral content. Dong quai contains vitamin B 12, folic acid, folinic acid, nicotinic acid, and biotin.

Dong quai is helpful after any injury or surgery to replenish your red blood cells and increase blood volume. It's included in nearly all Chinese herbal blood-building formulas.

3) Treats iron deficiency and anemia. The cobalt in dong quai is thought to increase the hemoglobin content of your blood. (Hemoglobin is the protein in your blood that contains iron and carries oxygen to cells and carbon dioxide from them.)

4) Boosts male fertility. Ferulic acid, an antioxidant found in dong quai, has been shown to improve sperm quality.

5) Essential during and after menstruation. Dong quai is an antispasmodic that eases cramps and other symptoms of PMS. It dilates your blood vessels to increase flow during your monthly cleansing and helps replenish blood after your period has ended. Women who stop taking birth control pills may also find dong quai useful to encourage a regular cycle.

6) Helps you feel happier! Dong quai is effective at reducing anxiety and could be useful to help you combat stress and reduce the severity of mood swings. It has a calming effect on your nervous system and promotes relaxation.

7) Enhances female fertility. Only a generation ago, infertility was rare, but now it takes the average woman up to18 months to conceive. Women often seek the help of expensive fertility specialists and undergo painful procedures when an antifungal diet and an herb like dong quai may be all that are needed.

8) Keeps you beautiful and youthful. Chinese women are known for their age-defying youthfulness, and dong quai may be a big part of it. Dong Quai preserves your natural beauty by encouraging health from the inside out. Ron Teeguarden notes that Dong Quai increases circulation, improves your complexion, and aids detoxification to clear blemishes.

9) Treats alopecia, eczema and rosacea. Dong Quai's effect on the blood and circulation also prompts healing for common skin conditions like eczema and rosacea, neurodermatitis, pruritis, hives and vitiligo.



When NOT to Use Dong Quai



While Dong Quai is considered safe for most people, there are some specific populations who should not use this herbal remedy.

* Women with breast cancer

* During pregnancy or while nursing

* Women with endometriosis, uterine fibroids, or cancers of the breast, ovaries or uterus

* Men with prostate cancer

This post has been edited by daranzone: Dec 22 2014, 12:11 AM
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post Dec 22 2014, 05:14 AM

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QUOTE(Princess D @ Dec 18 2014, 10:49 AM)
 

I am married 8 months ago.. im trying to conceive past 9 months .. but usually its doesn't stick im super worried on this matter .

My periods always delay and sometimes i don't get period like two month .. i have consulted gyne he said fine should have no problem ..

whenever i skip period i thought im pregnant but when i check its really disappointing sometimes i cried though  , im 24 years old .

does anyone experience this before and now got baby already . any one can five some comment
appreciated it

thanks 

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Hello there smile.gif

My TTC journey started since Oct 2011 with countless of gynae visits, multiple blood taking process and even unpleasant HSG scan.

my period also irregular. To add it, hubs sperm count test turned out low. All of these required expert opinions and help. Together hubs n i change our diet; rarely eat outside, cook meals ourselves. Complied to dr advices. Spend money on tablets prescibed.

and above all ---TRY VERY HARD to keep positive attitude and mindset towards it. I CAN BE A MOTHER.

Hurmm.. i do crying over -ve UPT results ( sad truth) but hubs be the pillar of my strength. sometimes i felt sad to hear the 'good news' from friends or relatives. But i will quickly put it aside and try my best to be happy for them. It helped a lot to my emotional and psychological state. U know the positive aura thingy biggrin.gif

in our 3rd year of trying, the odd finally favor us. The most awaiting double lines unexpectedly appeared 2 weeks before i was scheduled to do IUI! :')

the good news is growing inside me.

just don't quit my dear. And keep trying. I know someone who struggle more than 5 years to get pregnant and still trying. Somehow the journey really teach us to appreciate things more than anyone.

baby dust to you~

TSPrincess D
post Dec 22 2014, 09:31 AM

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QUOTE(daranzone @ Dec 21 2014, 11:58 PM)
Periods : Late / Irregular Periods
 
Remedies for Irregularity

When you are looking to find a solution for an irregular menstrual cycle the first thing to consider is how serious your irregularity is.

Any cycle that has a long history of being irregular - over a year and more or is very irregular - that is, no bleeding for months at a time, too much bleeding, breakthough bleeding that has gone on for a number of cycles, very painful periods and any other medical disorder generally needs professional care.

Get checked out properly by a doctor or gynocologist.

Then depending on what they recommend or how you feel, you may want to consider seeing a professional natural therapist, eg a fertility counsellor (find one in your area through the contacts page at this website fertility.com.au) or other natural therapist (herbalist, naturopath, acupuncturist) who has experience with menstrual irregularity so they can prescribe medicines for you to help your body regain its natural rhythm. This is often the quickest way to get regular again and is often the most successful in the long term.

Going on the contraceptive Pill is a poor choice when it comes to regulating cycles.

The Pill or any other hormonal contraception will give you a regular cycle but it is a FAKE menstrual cycle as the hormones in it override your body's natural hormonal balance. The bleeding you experience whilst using the pill is not a true period.

Using the Pill does not solve your bodies irregularity and when you come off the pill, the irregularity will return and sometimes it is worse. more on the pill here

Most irregularity stems from an imbalance in the hormonal system, and the hormonal system is very sensitive to all sorts of stimuli. This can work for as well as against us.

The following tips can be helpful in treating minor irregularity.

Diet - is very important. If you eat lots of fast foods you are not giving your body the nourishment it needs. If you eat sporadically, miss meals and diet constantly - you essentially send your body into survival mode. Your body thinks it is starving and shuts down unnecessary systems. A body that thinks it is starving will not cycle regularly - having a cycle that is healthy enough to support new life is secondary.Watch your diet, eat as healthily as you can, this page has some guidelines on health menstrual eating.

Of course, most women are very busy, so just do the best you can - take the time to make the healthiest choice available to you. For example, pick yoghurt or fruit instead of potato chips or chocolate.

Consider taking a quality womens multi with menstrual herbs in it eg chasetree and dong gui. This will help with missed nutrients and the herbs will help balance your hormones. Take this regularly.

There are also other natural remedies and superfoods which can help nutritionally support your body to function optimally - Maca Powder is one. For more info on Maca Powder and its beneficial effects go here

Start doing some simple charting preferably on a calendar that has moon phases in it. Sometimes, the simple intention of tuning into your cycle gives it a gentle kick start in the right direction.

Take note of the moon - natures perfect menstrual regulator. Take a minute to look out the window at night and see the moon. This will also help regulate you even if your cycle is very imbalanced. Find out what lunar phase it is by getting a lunar phase calendar, checking our website for moon phase information or invest in Personal Lunar Fertility Guide. By showing some intention, you are telling your body this is important to you.

Take note of your lifestyle - do you get enough quality time for yourself. Again a chronically exhausted and stressed body will not be regular. See Female Energy System for the emotional and spiritual aspects of your cycle.

Smoking is bad news for fertility and menstrual health. Studies have shown that smokers take longer to conceive than non-smokers, and this includes passive smoking (more at http://www.nietrokers.nl/e/n02100.html ). If you smoke - you should give it up.

I received the following information from Kate Adams who is studying environmental epidemiology - She found the information whilst researching chemicals and ovarian cancer.

"PAH, a component of cigarette smoke and fossil fuel combustion, binds to what is called an Aromatic Hydrocarbon Receptor (AhR) on cells in ovary structures. When PAH attaches itself, it stimulates the ovaries to shut down the maturation process of eggs, resulting in an egg trapped in a non-ovulatory follicle. In other words, smoking can interfere with and even shut down ovulation, with obvious consequences for normal functioning of the menstrual cycle. Some scientists believe this evidence explains why women who smoke experience premature menopause. ... Dioxins and PCB's and other double and multi-ring structures can also bind to this receptor and wreak havoc on reproductive systems, but they do it in a less-known and different way than PAH. "
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post Dec 28 2014, 10:59 AM

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