Hi all, it's been sometimes I never comment anything here. Today I come to ask about below abit.

Stress & self control.
Its all about myself, I will try to shorten the questionissue.

Everytime when I had some stress on my working issue, I feel so stress because I feel unsatisfied with someone at work and I can't do anything to make it better but only option is endure else quit the job once and for all.

Lucky me, I still have third option which is pray, ask and have faith. Every time I pray after stressed or before, holy spirit always remind me not to worry, endure and I'm not alone.

Worst part happened, I not able to control myself calmly when the stressed hit on me. Sometimes I might slap my dog, little chicks when they don't behave, ok on this part truly not their problems because they are animals and problems belongs to me. I might raise my voice with other and the way I talked was harsh.

Today happened again, I started to feel some fear feelings inside me. Just because I had some new instructions from company and some worker did not attend the work, here come my stress again.

Reason sharing this, wants to let anyone that having same problems like me. Please do not hesitate to ask for help from God, friends or family before u done anything bad and hard to come back when decision made at the wrong timing. I CAN CONFIRM, doing the same things like me are wrong and making decisions at stress time are NOT the good time and always wil fall into something u do not wants it.

Any advice so I can handle it better?

This post has been edited by skydrake: Dec 2 2014, 10:02 AM

Hi UW, long time no see.

I'm the Great General Manager aka "one leg kick" of this company. For ur info, this is some china man company (related to family members), so everything trying so hard to follow system but in this end no one will follow because they think the company don't have them will not survive which is "partially" true.

I can't mention the nature of business but surely it's not illegal work. Those work man are Islander aka solomon islander, company had use their work force because they are local and they have tribe power to control area so company can run businesses within it.

I do believe someday might have other to replace them and it's my only hope now. It's quite challenging at this time and I can't give them harsh word else they will do something I do not wants.

That's why endure is my only choice at the moment. Unless u guys got something better, at least a little better and I do appreciate it. haha..

Even u think I knows it but it did not appears in my mind or my to do list these days. Must be missing somewhere in my brain. Lucky u remind me, ur advice are simple and effective. Only needs to do it. Looks simple and always hardest to complete the simplest things when we think it's simple. I will put ur replies in my notes and auto reminder every morning wake up to do.

I must do it else I will end up the same problem appears and same old solution yet not effective enough. At least the advice u shared to me is good and I agree to it.

thr siggie business passed to sister in law to handle, helping het advertise 😁