QUOTE(leonhart88 @ Jan 19 2015, 12:03 AM)
can you look at yourself first? maybe you are the 'problem'. continue to add value yourself and think women is not important to you.
MINDSET OF A REAL MAN :
1. Woman is Number Two, My Passion is Number ONE…
2. I Am Honest and Being My Self… I Don’t care if Woman likes it or not…
3. I Don’t apologize for the things I Desire… I Know what I Want and I Know
How to Get it!
4. I am CONFIDENT, ATTRACTIVE, CHARMING, and Yes, Woman Knows it…
5. I WANT Woman, but I don’t DESPERATELY NEEDING them…
6. I Don’t Allow Woman to Control my Life and Emotions, I Control Theirs
instead…
7. I am The MOST important Person in my RELATIONSHIP with Woman…
8. Even though I LEAD Woman, I LEAD with LOVE…
9. I Care and Love Woman… but once they’re out of Line, I Punish them…
10. I Give Woman TWO Chances to make mistakes… the FIRST and the
LAST…
11. I am NOT afraid to Walk Away from any Woman no matter how
beautiful they are…
12. Woman Lives under My RULES, and under my RULES, I will LOVE them
with all my HEART!…
Not much of a REAL Man, but more toward REAL EGO - in chinese we called it 'Tai Lam Yam' (BIG MAN EGO)
For me, besides liking each other, I think if things can a little more easier to work out when:
1. both put God first - Some both put God first, they will change to develop Christ-like characters (all those fruits of the Spirit in Gal 5: 22-23 - But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control).
2. communication - Communication is a skill which need to be learn esp both man and women are different species. Maybe for men, they need to be a better listener and try not to quick to offer solution when you don't need to.
3. willing to accept each other strength and weaknesses - Both has their strength and weakness. Some weaknesses are not so easy to change because of background and nature. So should expect his/her partner to change over the night. So don't just nag or complain his/her weaknesses, because each person has his/her own weaknesses too. Instead, build up each other up, praise each other strength and accept who he/she is a whole package.
Actually, I only how to talk theoretically here only. In real life, I also struggling ..