it actually depends on you can convince your family and your woman's family to accept who you are.

I'm married with debts around my neck and only have 4k in saving.

so only nearest family, no professional photographer, no pelamin and stuff. just straight come and eat kind of event.

5k I gave to my wife, and tighten the belt for around 800 for my own event. gotong-royong kind of stuff, old school style to backup catering for only 2 types of dishes.

total cost about 5800.

so you have to live moderate life, no showy stuff (fancy cars etc) that will rob more money from your pocket.

This post has been edited by malayo: Oct 30 2014, 07:51 AM