If you have been with her for 4 years and find her suitable then marry her quickly.


I have friends who drag too long and the girl run away with another boyfriend ! Do you want this to happen?


I have friends who waited until 40 yo because they don't have money like you to marry. Now no young girls want to marry him. Do you want this to happen to you ?


Financial problem can be controlled by cooking at home. Husband and wife work together sure no problem.

Just make the wedding simple , don't have to invite so many people.

You're getting married and not your mother.

This post has been edited by jalsrix: Oct 31 2014, 11:19 AM

Marry someone doesn't mean you need to buy house. I've many friends who bought their first house only after 35 years old.

If you can buy a house, you're not considered poor.

Worse come to worse, sell off the house and stay with parents.

I think TS expects a rich man life, just like that Singaporean movie 'money not enough'

We're much older than you so we've lots of experience and mistakes.

A lot of my friends regret delaying marriage, now they are more than 50 years old and still single.


Marry her !