busted lol.

What's the hurry? unless you want kids.. but then there are many unwanted children in the world, you can always adopt.

Just do what you can afford. After married life need more money. Think for the future. Do not waste a lot of money at the weding day.

I think kids are on the way, that's why they can't wait too long.

Will true love give them the courage to battle all things evil that comes their way?

Basically you need to change your lifestyle. If you can't change, you will go to no where.

yes, definately correct.
against all odds, hopefully we can get marry by this year.
our family going to set a date soon.

Good luck to you

I think to be more practical you need to think ahead of the finances... new house needs renovation, that will have cost too.

My best advice, you need to be honest with your future wife about the finance and what to do moving forward : the house, furnitures, wedding preps, so that both of you will make the most and happy about the process. If not done well, it's not gonna be smooth post day 1 of marriage.

I just recently got married after being with her 7 years. Things shouldnt be in a rush especially if you are cash tight. You should think carefully what's best. Delaying another 12 months to get finances in order is not a bad thing to do either.

so getting married soon? yeah!! congrats

Hi friend, i will be getting married next month, let me share some of my experience.
I'm also 27 this year.
Before this as a normal income guy i knew that marriage is not easy but , it is much more tougher than expected. I'm a chinese. So before even talking of marriage we need to prepare 3 things, house, car and cash for wedding.
I invest in 1 2nd hand small house when i was 22( just graduated) and i sold it then i bought a new bigger house. Its was all good.
Until I start paying the loan for car and new house which decrease my savings, i face so much stress, house renovation cost me so much that i even need to borrow from my family.
We talk bout wedding dinner, u want live band..add money..you want flowers..add money..that add..this add...and the best thing they will tell you is...its once in a life time, dont you want your bride to have a beautiful wedding? ok...they win....

So what i advice is please please be prepared financially, even if you dont have, make sure you have some alternative way for emergency. Marriage is not easy for our generation. Once you step into a marriage life, you need to take big responsibilities for your wife and kids future because you are the man of the family.

Congrats to you and may you have a great marriage