Getting married now these days very hard. me also want to get married but financial not stable yet.

want to get new home to married also cant as bank only give out 70% loan that i need fork out other 200K. How in the world KL people can fork out RM200k cash as down payment.

Me and my GF dating for 10 years already. very sad.

Getting married now these days very hard. me also want to get married but financial not stable yet.

want to get new home to married also cant as bank only give out 70% loan that i need fork out other 200K. How in the world KL people can fork out RM200k cash as down payment.

Me and my GF dating for 10 years already. very sad.

Hi guys,

I don't know if someone already posted about this, but I think I really need many opinions regarding this issue of mine.

I have dated my GF for more than 4 years already and decided to marry her next year. The main issue is money. I think that by June/July 2015, my saving can only reach RM5k. Actually I started to work since I was 23 years and now I am 27. I can say that I should actually able to save more than that. However, because life in Klang Valley is like an "ecstasy" to me, um, I mean the entertainment and other "money wasting" activities are hard to resist, so that is the reason I cannot save money. And one year ago, the fact that my mother is just 50-50 about accepting her, had also weakened my moral to marry my GF. Now still not 100% but I am confident that I can "pujuk" my mother.

When I think about my future, I am sure and definite that I want to marry my GF. All of my friends, which some of them just met his other half maybe less than 1 year but married earlier than me. I admit that I feel ashamed a bit but I know marriage is not about what people say, it is about we are ready or not.

So, with humble, I would like to ask your opinion should I marry next year? If I want to, then how about money? I have calculated that my new salary (I just got a new job) can only cover for less than RM200 if I want to borrow money. For my siblings and parents, I don't really want to borrow from them. Side income? Now is nothing. Still planning, but not started anything yet. Others, I have a car and my condo will be completed by May 2015.

Please help!     

I believe it's possible ! Who says wedding you need a real gold or diamond ring? Who says you need to make wedding such an extravagant expensive thing? Who says you need to buy or rent expensive gowns or hold a crazy big party of celebration ? It's the market and society nowadays that label and make wedding such an expensive thing. Well, if you have a women that really loves you and wouldn't mind a light budget wedding, it would be possible ! Marriage is about love and commitment. Not about money. Think about those olden days how they get married. You don't need to follow the society's trend, you create your own as long you both are happy. =)

Hi guys,

I don't know if someone already posted about this, but I think I really need many opinions regarding this issue of mine.

I have dated my GF for more than 4 years already and decided to marry her next year. The main issue is money. I think that by June/July 2015, my saving can only reach RM5k. Actually I started to work since I was 23 years and now I am 27. I can say that I should actually able to save more than that. However, because life in Klang Valley is like an "ecstasy" to me, um, I mean the entertainment and other "money wasting" activities are hard to resist, so that is the reason I cannot save money. And one year ago, the fact that my mother is just 50-50 about accepting her, had also weakened my moral to marry my GF. Now still not 100% but I am confident that I can "pujuk" my mother.

When I think about my future, I am sure and definite that I want to marry my GF. All of my friends, which some of them just met his other half maybe less than 1 year but married earlier than me. I admit that I feel ashamed a bit but I know marriage is not about what people say, it is about we are ready or not.

So, with humble, I would like to ask your opinion should I marry next year? If I want to, then how about money? I have calculated that my new salary (I just got a new job) can only cover for less than RM200 if I want to borrow money. For my siblings and parents, I don't really want to borrow from them. Side income? Now is nothing. Still planning, but not started anything yet. Others, I have a car and my condo will be completed by May 2015.

Please help!     

Exactly.....

I know a couple who just did their ROM with Swaroski Chrystal Ring, and have a nice lunch after that with both parents, family and friends. Tea ceremony on the spot and be happy with it. Total cost. almost RM0 not including the dowry. But with proper understanding and discussion, everything is discuss able. They are not selling their daughter for God's sake.

Most of the friends and family knowing that this couple is not that wealthy but have a heart to commit to each other, the friends and family are simply to generous on their ang pow and gifts.

The key is BUDGETING BUDGETING BUDGETING......... A Grand Gring Grong wedding will not promise you a good and healthy marriage.

You think a wedding will nuke your wallet. Wait till you have babies.......

But that is just the nature of life.... Life goes on...... 

That simple?

Woah so nice..

ur gf how old? 27 consider young marry, wait 3 more years, when you prepare enough money then marry lar, ask her wait lar...

Nice for man. But the ladies might not like it.