Being a girl sucks, next life I want to be a man.

Everything can be fine and dandy and all flowers and rainbows and unicorns.
All that can change within MINUTES and you will feel all down and depressed and bored and everything seems to be going against you.

Having exactly that right now


Was so happy over the weekend with but once it's over am feeling all so emo and down!
It's not helping when you're constantly disappointed when your expectations is a little too high
Always told myself do not have such a high expectations so you will not feel too disappointed but I always failed to follow my own advice, particularly this one.

LIFE SUCKS AT THIS MOMENT!
I NEED CHOCOLATE AND FLUFFY PILLOW AND HUGS AND LOVE
T__________T

*whiny mode on*

Just CooL

I'm a man and its not totally rainbow and sunshine also

I think being an ugly girl sucks ... if u r hot, u prolly dont even need to work and things come to you automatically .

Everyone also has ups and down... Just be strong and get over it...

Thats true. You will have doormats everywhere you go.

all u need now is a *HUG

cheer... life suck

But I am not emo because I couldn't get the things that I want T.T not materialistic things anyway.

Another problem with being a girl, we don't know what we emo about HAHAHA.

Sucks.

Its all about the hormone....

Actually be girl is easy, just find a man that love you more than you love him. Then he will always listen to you and hear you out. DON'T find the man you love more than he love you. You will suffer a lot.

to be exact, being a guy is much tougher than being a gal. so cheers!

come let me cheer u up

IT'S THE STUPID HORMONEEE!!!

But I always feel that I love more then being loved.

Try ice cream. Its second from money that might makes you happy

Then you have to pay more attention lo, haha

But eat some sweets or exercise will help you to be more confident and relax, of course help you stay happy. Try it.

But ice cream make me fat too. LOL! T.T

But I want to love equally. Not he loves me more or I love him more.

This post has been edited by LaineyBeez: Sep 29 2014, 03:35 PM

Being a guy isn't that good either.

By that definition, being human sucks, be a dog or a cat in your next life and hope you are taken care of by a good owner.

That aside, both gender has its own pros and cons. You think being a guy doesn't suck? Learn to find your own happiness. Be contended with life and what you have. Don't expect others to make your life all rainbow and sunshine. You have food on your table everyday, you are able to live comfortably with electricity and water, you have internet access, you have a car to drive, you have a loving boyfriend by your side, you have friends to hang out with. Hormones will always control us, but learn how it affects you and learn how to take control of the situation instead of making it worse.

I know I know..
What you said make sense and I know all that.
It's just that sometimes hard to control this emotions mahhh T^T

How old are you?

That's quite a sensitive question no? HAHAHA Late 20's
I know I know, I should grow up and get a grip
Okay my whiny mode is over.

Ehh, age also sensitive meh? I understand if I'm asking for your weight or vital stats that its sensitive la. Lol.

You should start living your life for yourself instead of worrying over what others are thinking about you.

Isn't age, weight and vital stats the big 3 no-no questions to ask girls? HAHAHAHA

Yea I know, most of the time I am able to think like that but sometimes just succumbs to the negative thoughts ya know?
But yea I will get back on my feet again soon, just need some TLC in the mean time! Chocolate works too.

This post has been edited by LaineyBeez: Sep 29 2014, 04:27 PM

Probably to some girls, yes. Couldn't care less what others think about my age and weight lol.

Yeaaah it's none of their businesssss!
Sorry just noticed your "I'm no bro" tagline in your signature HAHA

Sorry to say that but in this world nothing is equal, neither you love him more or he love you more.
But better is the other love you more lo..

But it'll be unfair for him! Cannot be so selfish!
I think it's best both side love the other the best they could

the best teacher is failure.....clear out ur mind and do a thing u like to do? =D

u r late 20's ? how would u like to date a 30 yrs old guy, ayam available

Lol. Yea, I'm no bro.

Anyway, cheer up. Go manja your bf or something. Playing with my dog always keep my mood up. If I have PMS, I'll just ignore everyone and everything as much as I can.

HAHAHAHA.
Boyfie not around for me to manja T.T I would have get a dog! But my condo don't allowed it, dang it.
I should just ignored everyone and just blast my music and read my book.
PMS sucks.
Thanks anyway! Cheers!

ice cream makes you fat thats why fat people always happy but just dont read beauty magazine...

Hope the best for you lo.

are you sure u got next life?

pm phone mumber, show you good time.

lol as in guys won't emo and depress ? Actually been a guy are equally as tough as been a girl. Nowadays, with all the high expectation like what you have mentioned, we have to work hard not only to ensure there are foods on the table for you, but also have to ensure able to afford fine dining and also to sustain the expected lifestyle. These things don't come in easily man...

I don't need fine dining I am happy enough with zap fan I just want more TLC and attention HAHAHAHA.

CC - Emo King of the Chat group => ( @Insert Forum ID )

more specifically is a man whom you deemed handsome that pay you lots of love, care and attention right? But then are you sure you are happy to eat Zap Fan everyday? staying in a not so erm.. moderate size and beautiful house?

I am sure sooner or later you will be emo and depressed again that your bf everyday bring you go eat zap fan when your colleagues are enjoying a rather fine dining, then your colleague went oversea but you stay in Malaysia.

Oh ya, not to forget, your colleague purchased new branded bags or some other accessories where you could not afford.. and many more

Lastly, be grateful you are a girl Only girl able to get such privilege as in the thread below.
https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3363763

LOl.. forgot his full name

Fine dining? Checked.

Beautiful houses? Checked.

Travel Overseas? Checked.

Branded bags? Checked.

Then I must be a super unfortunate person

lol 1 more thing.. the length

Not ALL girls wanted expensive stuffs like that but not my problem anyway that others think all girls are like that.

This post has been edited by LaineyBeez: Sep 29 2014, 05:56 PM

Then good for you Wish you all the best in your life.

their are no ugly girl exist
only lazy girl exist

Mixed rice daily. Sounds good. Healthy too, can pick more veges than oily fried food. Fine dining? Meh. Dunno how to appreciate it also.
Moderate sized beautiful house. Sounds like a dream come true lol. Moderate size no need spend too much time cleaning. Beautiful, what more can I ask for?
Branded bags? Spend so much money to buy the bag, I wouldn't dare to dirty it, so end up keep in cupboard no use also lol. It's a materialistic world out there, but not everyone is chasing materialistic goods. It's a never ending chase anyway, why bother?

I like you, Munkeyflo, I like you. HAHAHHAHA
Can I get a high five? LOL!

Hahaha!

I am implying that the boy although provides TS with tender, care and so on but stayed in a small apartment only. Of course a moderate size landed house and also beautifully renovated is ideal.

Oh ya, i also mentioned about go oversea, what if don't have extra money for oversea?

And i hope to see both of you walk the talk.

This post has been edited by MasBoleh!: Sep 29 2014, 07:18 PM

Its the time of the month again ?

26" Pythons like how Arnold flashed em during Mr. Olympia

Can always save money and travel overseas together when we are able to. Most importantly is to spend within our means. Traveling overseas doesn't always have to be expensive.

lol

Sometime i wonder, such a mindset will be exist in those girls in early twenties or not.

Let me ask you 1 question, is appearance important? Will it more be more important than internal beauty?

People call me "old soul" for a reason, lol.

If you want a yes or no answer, for me, it's a yes. I have my shallow requirements for a guy. But no, it will not be more important than internal. A handsome guy with a jerk personality is nothing more than eye candy.

People like you extinct d, sadly.

I'm quite sure there are females out there like me or even better than me. You just have to search hard enough and pray to your lucky stars you'll meet one soon.

I see. However, in my opinion:'
Unfortunately, those with average or below average looks will not even able to get into your attention list in order to get filter out eventually.'

What do you think of such opinion? Sometime i have seen so many girls that i find it rather hard to believe.

I am sure there are but 1 out of a thousand i perhaps. Such girl is almost non-exist in girls whom in their early twenties. Do you concur with my statement?

Honestly speaking, a charismatic personality attracts better than a pretty boy face. I know guys who are fat and cheerful, and they are fun to be around with, got high achiever leng lui amoi girlfriend also. They might not be the best looking guy around, but their character is attractive.

If there are, it's a very slim margin of odds that its possible to find already.

Not that I'm whining la, it's okay for people to be materialistic at times. Just know where to toe the line, and it's actually pretty normal for human beings to behave that way.

Got 1 girl me and you know that is not materialistic, but very emo only

Well answered.

lol, she said she macam sudah enlightened.

Well, i already told her from the very beginning that her emo will be back, but then she assured me that she can control it I know i am right all along

Women are allowed to use hormones and emo as an excuse to behave badly.

Men are called weak and useless when they succumb to hormones and emo.

Being a man sucks.

Pro counsellor here

Why does being a girl sucks? Can get free breakfast, lunch and dinner, shoes, bags, clothes, handphones, accessories, bling2, car, etc....The list is never ending..

What sucks is when you cannot upload picture on a forum. That sucks!

This post has been edited by tinarhian: Oct 2 2014, 12:01 AM

why cannot upload picture on forum?

and yes, all the benefits of being a girl...

So true!!

You find that hard being a girl?
You should see how the guys are in cupid corner... geez whining over the smallest issue.

Don't be a guy cause if you behave like that as a guy you'll be labelled a wuss. At least as a girl people will comfort you, if you're a guy sorry man you're on your own.

im a man, im feeling freaking sad right now, yet i dont whine.

idk. when I upload, the picture didn't appear at all. this sucks.

some guy can convert to girl and be more pretties then most girl..aww..aww..

Just do not overuse your other half ya...

This is what i fears the most when debate and discuss with the females.

Quote :

Man only got 1 purpose in life. To make sense in an argument.

wahhhh ehh.. so wats the problem?

dont be greedy, once u greed you lost all..

Ya meh?
Every Human got own emotion...
even man oso will feeling down, and bored...
not only girls la Ok?

hmm seems like ure the kind that wanna be on top ...

hugsss

The ugly truth but true story bro

At least girls feel happy for no reason and then emo for no reason

When guys get emo, they need to try their best to find abosulute and reasonable reasons to get them out from emo, wich is usually super hard

Being pretty girl also not so easy
1. Always must be pretty
2. Always feel insecure for the slightest scar
3. Always thinking how to look prettier
4. Go up on weighing scale everyday 0.2kg increment scream alrd
5. Must ward off all the guys who want to giv u their number

We guy hope there were a gal willing give her phone number to us without asking them at 1st .... Unfortunately there were not going to happen to guys

This post has been edited by 12oY: Oct 9 2014, 10:58 AM

try a different pc.

being a man is more worst...

have to take good care of gals bad mood, n think 1000 of ways to make gals happy
or else , man will be blame~~~~~

it's only someone's ranting thread. i am sure LaineyBeez is better now.

You are right!! xD Well, all fine now until the next wave of emo-ness hits me LOL!

Meanwhile, I'll just let my thread be the battle ground for some people here as you can see =P

Dang.. Just talked about it this morning now really kena hit by another wave of emo-ness LOL.. FML

Already did. I tried on my laptop, desktop, macbook, office pc. I give up.

I think its the code. Maybe I didn't put in the correct codes?

what code did you put? if you upload attachments then just click add attachments...
otherwise you can upload to another image hosting site like imgur and you the IMG button..
here got example also https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/157118

Let me try then.

testing...

hahaha...it worked baby..

being a girl doesnt suck...and being a guy dun mean its all fine n dandy as well.

depending on how u see things...both male and female has their pros and cons...

-anatomy related
-social related
-mentality related

so yeah, female has period swings, but its worth it. why? coz u can bring a new life to this world...and men cannot. but females has "assets" which can be used to "drive men nuts"...

socially men are expected to be leader of family, they hv to endure a lot stress to provide enough for the gf or family, then if they lazy at home, they get scolded by wife....and when single, their worse fear is finding a golddigger as gf or fear gf will leave them with another guy...haha

women have the mentality to do multitasking and can do things faster than men....men tends to take things slowly, and often ends up late for everything!!

if u are sick with ur current lifestyle, why not YOU make the change? dun expect ppl make the change for u...if u wanted a miracle, u be the miracle urself.

quite old thread but

theres pros and cons of being a man and a woman

no gender is better than the other and most of the times , a girl wants to be a boy and a boy wants to be a girl..

due to curiosity..