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vanpersie91
post Aug 8 2015, 08:22 PM

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QUOTE(EarendurFefalas @ Aug 7 2015, 02:34 PM)
salam
nak tanya, boleh ke tak pakai kondom? gugel kata harom, ada mubah, now ayam sudah pening
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Kenapa haram?
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QUOTE(EarendurFefalas @ Aug 8 2015, 11:10 PM)
pernah dengar dari mulut orang harom, dalam /k pon racing harom, at same time pernah jumpa pendapat kata boleh. anyway nak follow fatwa dari jakim tapi dia tak bagitau pulak rasanya
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Kalau pakai dengan isteri x harom kot...

Kalau pakai nak piap piap luar nikah jd harom liao
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post Sep 4 2015, 12:07 PM

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QUOTE(EarendurFefalas @ Sep 3 2015, 09:57 AM)
aku baca, kalau bebetul islamik endorse ada "i-" dekat depan, so jangan tertipu dengan nama islamik je  laugh.gif
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Baca kat mana?
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post Sep 8 2015, 06:59 AM

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QUOTE(nestlebliss @ Sep 7 2015, 05:09 PM)
i go to a mosque in nilai

khutbah is nice very rare do i hear the typical bashing type... even donations they share total amount collected which makes it very transparent so kudos to them  icon_rolleyes.gif

kau pg masjid mana?  hmm.gif
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Alhamdulillah dah insaf
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post Sep 8 2015, 08:38 AM

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QUOTE(nestlebliss @ Sep 8 2015, 08:26 AM)
Aku dual identity crisis... bipolar wkwkwkwk
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Kita manusia kena sentiasa bertaubat dan beristighfar, walaupun banyak melakukan salah dan silap.

Kadang2 tutur kata dalam forum, bersembunyi disebalik akaun yang anonymous, buat kita mudah terbabas nak maki hamun, mengata, mencerca, mengata yang bukan2, mengadu domba..

Dosa dengan tuhan, kita boleh bertaubat, bermunajat, beristighfar semahu mahunya. Tp dosa dengan manusia kita kena mintak maaf sendiri dgn orang yang kita dh buat salah silap. selagi orang tu tak maaf kan, selagi tu dosa kita tak hilang.
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QUOTE(nestlebliss @ Sep 8 2015, 08:43 AM)
maaf akhi sad.gif
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QUOTE(seiferalmercy @ Sep 8 2015, 09:01 AM)
dengar tu nestlebliss, insaplah ko dry.gif
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Siot je pinpoint orang laugh.gif
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post Sep 8 2015, 09:32 AM

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QUOTE(nestlebliss @ Sep 8 2015, 08:43 AM)
maaf akhi sad.gif
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QUOTE(seiferalmercy @ Sep 8 2015, 09:01 AM)
dengar tu nestlebliss, insaplah ko dry.gif
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Siot je pinpoint orang laugh.gif
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post Oct 23 2015, 09:11 AM

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Tak poce sunat hari ni..
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post Nov 19 2015, 06:34 AM

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QUOTE(hambaallah @ Nov 14 2015, 11:55 PM)
apa kata kita buat grup whatsapp utk member2 thread ni?
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Takde hal.

Ko nak start dulu pun boleh. Haha
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post Nov 23 2015, 08:29 AM

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Isu poligami lagi

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post Jan 24 2016, 01:07 PM

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QUOTE(hambaallah @ Jan 23 2016, 02:42 AM)
berapa minit korang mandi wajib?
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Sebolehnya x terlalu lama, asalkan air rata cukup seluruh badan dengan yakin
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post Sep 10 2016, 08:48 AM

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QUOTE(aliesterfiend @ Sep 9 2016, 07:51 PM)
Sapa raya kat KL tak balik kampung?
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Saye..
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post Dec 21 2016, 11:25 PM

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QUOTE(EarendurFefalas @ Dec 21 2016, 12:27 PM)
1. tak silap, aku tanya dekat masjid negara

2. kalau betul kah wang simpanan/12 (ni tiori aku kalau salah betulkan, haha)
then selangor RM13k kena bayar dah
so gaji bulanan 20k, bayang bil etc, gaji bersih 2k
2k x 12 = ibarat ada 24k wang simpanan dalam bank

zakat berapa 4% ke? (tak ingat dah)
so 24*4% = 960 = kalau bayar tahunan
or RM80 kalau bayar bulanan

p/s: tahunan senang kira sebab semua dah berlaku, kalau bulanan belum tentu kita bersih setiap bulan 2k
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Bang zakat 2.5% je
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post Feb 14 2017, 05:00 PM

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QUOTE(UntilUComeBack @ Feb 13 2017, 12:38 PM)
Anyone can explain to me bout

Majlis Tahlil.

izzit sunnah or what?
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ada yang kata bidaah - sesuatu yang tak ada diamalkan ketika zaman Nabi..

ada yang kata dibolehkan - atas hujah hujah masing masing..

tapi personally aku dah start distancing from majlis tahlil, atas alasan takut takut termakan duit harta anak yatim kalau kalau diorang guna duit warisan si mati untuk adakan majlis..
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post Feb 15 2017, 08:48 AM

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QUOTE(seventwo @ Feb 15 2017, 08:31 AM)
Apa hubungan antara harta anak yatim dgn duit warisan si mati?
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in case si mati masih ada anak anak kecik..kan duit dan harta yang ditinggalkan tu untuk anak anak dia..

takut duit tu yang digunakan untuk bagi makan kat orang, buat kenduri..
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QUOTE(abu.shofwan @ Feb 15 2017, 09:51 AM)
so if the kenduri is prepared (and paid) by other people, i.e. not the family of the deceased, then it should be ok or not?

on a more serious note, and food for thought, I found many articles saying that Imam Syafi'i actually did not like this so called kenduri arwah. i'll link one of the articles here:

https://wahonot.wordpress.com/2008/11/19/fa...-dan-selamatan/

some fatwas from Saudi (english version) related to this gathering at the deceased's house - for further reference:

https://islamqa.info/en/170391
https://islamqa.info/en/14396
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QUOTE(seventwo @ Feb 15 2017, 10:08 AM)
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tak semua ada kemampuan utk buat majlis tahlil.
bergantung kepada keadaan ahli keluarga.

ada yg guna sumbangan duit dpd saudara mara, ada gunakan sumbangan dpd anak2 yg dah bekerja.

harta utk di faraid kan, kira lain. smile.gif
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To me, if we really knew the money used for gathering of the deceased, then I'm more inclined to say okay la.

but then again, kita boleh confirm kah or show black and white to say kenduri was prepared and paid without using any cents for the kids?

kena pulak si mati kita tak berapa kenal sangat. boleh jadi si mati ada anak yang sudah lepas dari tanggungan - jadi makan harta anak yatim tu aku rasa tak terpakai di sini.

tapi kalau si mati ada anak yang masih kecil, perlukan wang untuk sekolah, belajar, etc etc...dan pasangan pulak mungkin mengharapkan duit waris si mati untuk tanggung kehidupan, macam mana?

so at the end of the day bila dah banyak sangat soalan soalan macam ni, aku memang menjauhkan diri aje. unless jemputan tu memang aku kenal, atau ahli keluarga aku tahu orangnya, then aku follow la. kalau kenduri kendara yang jemput secara umum melalui group whatsapp jiran tetangga, atau white board surau..aku ambil pendekatan lebih berhati hati je la.

wallahualam
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post Feb 26 2017, 11:59 PM

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QUOTE(lalabeng @ Feb 21 2017, 01:24 PM)
Maybe it's urban poverty... can't deny that...
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bagi aku la,

kalau dah sampai tanggung komitmen astro, unifi, kereta mahal mahal lepas tu sampai jadi tahap miskin bandar..itu sendiri yang zalim sebenarnya

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