Getting married isn't easy. Staying married isn't easy either.

I'll share my own story.

I've been married for 11 years now and have 3 kids, 2 girls and 1 boy.

When I got married, my salary was only about RM1,300 after deduction of EPF.

At that time I was 29. I'm 40 this year. Both my wife and myself have been through 1 relationship with another person each
and both didn't work out respectively before we met each other.

When I got married I was working in the government sector and now I'm in the private sector with a higher salary after
changing jobs 3 times within 10 years. I was given Forced Separation Scheme back to back in my last 2 jobs.

Forced not Voluntary. Both the companies closed down after not making a profit, in 2008 and 2012.

You get to know your spouse and appreciate their sincerity when you go through a hard time in your life.
For me, my wife stood by me when I lost 2 jobs back to back.

Don't have the image in your head that you see in movies or tv about couples living happily ever after every single day
once they are married.

There will be good times and there will be hard times.

As a husband I would say, you have to give and take and yet at the same time be firm.

For those getting married or about to get married, marriage is a work in progress.
You work on it everyday.

For those not yet married, stay positive. Insya Allah there is someone for you.

     

insyallah you`ll get brother , cepat2 la bernikah  , rupa paras bukan segalanya.
seriously cariklah yg beragama , bahagia dunia dan akhirat.
ramai yg nak carik no1 cun , no 2 baru agama.
tapi akhirnya no1 dah suka no 2 niatnya nanti dah kahwin boleh ajar kononnn.....
then bila dah kahwin kalau kita tegur dia tak terima , kita nasihat dia marah , macam mana ?

nasihat saya byk2 belajar macam mana nak jadik ketua , byk saya lihat the lack of leadership qualities sebenarnya
yang menjahanamkan rumah tangga , org pompuan nie pulak mmg sgt perlu kepada seorang leader
yang boleh tunjuk dan ajar dan motivate dan berlemah lembut dan supportive dan tegas bila perlu
walaupun dia nampak tak suka , tapi jiwa sgt suka dan dia mmg perlukan seorang ketua untuk guide dia.
malah the lack of leadership qualities jugak la yg  byk menjahanamkan anak2 remaja kita sekarang
diorg mmg perlu role model / father figure untuk tetapkan role and boundries + objective dalam diri anak2.
kalau benda2 kita tak boleh nak terapkan dalam anak2 mmg anak kita akan ended macam this current generation la.

isteri ini adalah pakaian bagi suami , baik isteri baikllah suami .
perempuan yang baik untuk lelaki yang baik .......kalau nak perempuan baik kita kena jadi orang baik

gudluck bro
kad jemputan jngn lupa bg

Carik yg beragama. Insya Allah, hantaran pun takde byk mana. Bkn takat kenal anak dara org tu, tp wat geng la dgn famili dia.