oh macam tu.. okey.

just finish watching the video. now share with you all.

it story from revert women perspective about islam to answer why many women revert to islam compare to men.
-hijab and niqab issue
-freedom issue
-equality issue
-oppression issue
-and few other issue.

from ustaz story and what i understand. bertunang dalam islam hanyalah lafaz pasangan 'saya suka awak' dengan harapan akan berkahwin dengan orang tersebut. tak perlu saksi. cukup lafaz dua orang suka sama suka tersebut. dengan kata lain bila seseorang itu declare dia couple maka mereka dah bertunang kalau ikut islam. sesetengah orang couple biasa pakai cincin sama macam orang bertunang ikut adat melayu. jadi orang couple ke bertunang ke, tak boleh kacau la.

memang itu yang di galakkan kan?
tapi pada pemahaman aku, ada 3 peringkat. Tunang, Nikah dan Kahwin. Dan ada ulama berpendapat kalau dah bertunang tu sertakan sekali dengan nikah. Maka wujudlah konsep nikah gantung yang mengambil contoh kisah nabi dengan aisya yang tinggal bersama beberapa tahun kemudian selepas nikah. Nikah untuk halalkan hubungan untuk bercinta, keluar dating macam couple couple lain tapi tak tinggal serumah. Bila dah mampu dari segi kewangan dan lain lain barulah tinggal serumah.

boleh juga nak kata begitu. contoh macam pelajar kolej atau uni. Tapi tak semestinya masih bawah tanggungan ibubapa. Orang bujang ada tinggal sendiri dan ada tinggal dengan ibubapa walaupun dah bekerja.

betul betul. thanks sebab tambah.

islam bukan agama semata mata, ia adalah ketamadunan.

tetibe terpikir.. bila tiba imam mahdi perintah dunia.. mazhab apa yang dia akan guna?

maksud keras tu mungkin jugak boleh di ertikan dengan 'tetap hati'. mungkin jugak keras tu ditujukan kepada orang kafir yang menentang islam(kafir harbi). takpun, kita tengok dan hayati balik bagaimana nabi layan orang kafir pada zamannya dan bandingkan dengan cara muslim zaman sekarang.

Waalaikumsalam

Just keep beri salam to them until they reply. Kikiki..

Maybe she expect the guy have halal cert from jakim. Actually not religion problem. She can eat as long no non halal ingridient use.

C.mon. joking only about the halal cert. Kikiki. But non halal ingredient is true. And ask your girl friend, all cooking ingredient in her kitchen at home made by muslim kah?

Very good restaurant.

Not all vege food is halal. Because some might use alcohol as a ingredient like wine. That is why it impotant to know what ingredient used.

I made some quick google about hindu vegetarian and it said that they use cow urine as the ingredient. If this true. Than it not halal. Lol.

Muslim to me can be consider as a race. Malay baby come from malay parents.

Kesian you confuse.. No. Muslim ia not a religion.

So for a baby cannot choose you think it a kind of forcing... Interesting.

even the baby is call muslim baby, what is the different with non muslim baby? they call muslim baby becoz the baby belong to muslim parent. that is all. baby dont have religion. it is a normal thing for parent to teach what they know to the baby. even the parent teach what ever religion to the baby, as the baby grow up the baby still have responsibility to find the truth in every religion and choose which one they really want to embrace. i hope you look islam teaching in bigger view then malaysia islam.

anyway i hope you find the answer you looking for.

i dont see no way out. you said, religion is about you and god. why bother authorities and religion in your i/c? negative view? it is normal even when non muslim become muslim.

a true muslim know which one more important to do base on quran and sunnah. full sharia law is always on the list but might not be a priority.