My most valuable advice to you is:-

DON'T TRY TO PLAN A PERFECT DREAM LEGENDARY WEDDING.

The whole purpose of the wedding is to bond 2 families together. What is the point when everyone fights to get things their way? You are killing the bond before you start it. Focus on what you and your spouse wants. Tolerate in between you both. Unless your in laws or your parents are paying, as far as I know they can STFO. If the father is payng for the whole thing, he can bring in dragon dance lion dance into the hall with 50 parrots I don't care.

This post has been edited by lingleeyen: Jan 7 2016, 10:19 AM