I just realized that LYN create this sub-topic to discuss on marriage. But generally, not much discussion on malay wedding.

So i think this should be a good start for the thread.

Let start with me, im going to get married next year, a kelantanese. So the culture is different on the mas kahwin, wang hantaran n hadiah hantaran.

For other state like selangor, we will separate this wang hantaran and mas kahwin. Means that when the time in akad, we will announce the mas kahwin only, which usually costs lesser. But in kelantan, you need to combine together. Which usually, mas kahwin n wang hantaran will reach around rm 10k, then we need to announce the rm10k when the time in akad.

The other is on hadiah hantaran. Usually in other state, the bride side will give an extra dulang than the groom side. But in my case, the is an kelantanese adat which is called as "Sali" which the bride will give the same dulang number as the groom.

I have more to say. But i will take this as a start. So what yours?