First year cloud 9 everything is new and fresh where you learn about each other is a lot of oooo and ahhhh....second year onwards is a more realistic time where u see how compatible and all the 'i told u so' and getting upset over every little things....if u pass the second yr and still happy to see the other and can still talk to each other with respect then maybe she is the right one...imagine spending say another 50 years together with the same person same way she talk same way she do things and still think you will love it i think u can go ahead and propose. Dont hope to change or she will change for better then u will be happy.

Hope this help...being able to communicate and not having to yell at each other all the time is half the battle.

date 2 months, then marry? lol u forgot to thiink?

stable relationship?

2 months.. dude 2 months.. lol u making joke?

Please follow the thread and not only pick out parts and criticize to feed your ego.

lol, good luck in your marriage.. let's see how many months it last kay

Good luck in life. I wish you all the luck in the world because you will need it.

After all, its you and your woman going to live the life. The power of decision are all yours and your partner's. So why worry. Its your life, make decision and face it like a man

http://third-dotter.blogspot.com/2014/07/d...marry-well.html

For the first two months of a relationship, nobody is who they really are. There will be imperfections, bad personalities or habits that are concealed. Give it time..What's the rush..

All wisdom is lost when you are married.

'Christian' relationship?

I get complaints from my friends who did it like this. Someone shared this on a blog, do read it:

http://www.xojane.com/sex/true-love-waits-pledge

Please test drive first... all those 'sex until married' bull S, is really rubbish...

Wan marry ma maryr lor.. why need think so hard?

GOt rule say must date 7 years before marry?

try create an argument and see if the relationship can recover or not... if can, that mean can last.

Even if we can describe how we know when we are ready, u wont understand.
Maybe it is hard to explain or describe also.

It is just a feeling.

You will know urself when you r there.

Anyway, its 2 months. Get to know her more.
Her flaws. nobody is perfect.
and you too. she has to know about u and ur imperfections.

relationship must be mutual.
both sides.
to me, the most important recipe in relationship is COMPATIBILITY.
KESERASIAN.

you will only know compatibility when the sparks are gone.
of course the next important ingredient in relationship is TRUST.

all the best yeah.
if u get hurt, cry, but then get up and move on.

you answer your own question man....want to marry her in few years.
that shows ur partly ready to commit...jus let it flow man
then by years come u'll know for definite....

I've married for one year plus and now just become Daddy~
We've been in relationship for 2 years plus.

My advice to you is don't think about marriage as you just have 2 months of relationship.
Everything is still way too far for you to think about married.

Think about this after 2 years, if you manage to go along with her happily and joyful after 2 years.

Marriage is not as suffering as anyone say about, but still not as smoothly as you think.
Everything need your wisdom as a adult to deal with, learn with, cope with and grow with.

Hey thanks Jason!

I dun understand why "Test Drive(Sex)" is so important?

Love are so different than Lust. If you are having lust for that girl who is going to be your wife, how long that lust can last? After your didi canot oledi, so does it means you can throw her away into the river?

TS, It's very early for you to rush into things. There's so many things to learn about each other still and that's not on surface things. So much things that can takes life long to know. I'm not telling you to marry her until you are 70years old. Haha.

It's a simple thing like habits can turn a relation sour. Let's say, in your eye your gf is such a very decent girl. So sexy, and like a charm with very lady manner that will melt your heart. But when you live together, she suddenly farted so loud and smelly that you could not take it that this is "her" at home. "That" high perception of you may crush down.

You may say, it's normal la for people to be more relax at home to put aside manner and you will able to accept it. But this is just an example and something talking is more hard when it comes to real life. Who know's you may get divorce just of a reason of "Farting"

OHKAHH!!! TEST DRIVE. I saw in news paper before that the wife want to divorce with his husband just because of his pen*s is too thick and long which make her feel hurt. If that's the case. I think it make sense also. Hahaha.
If you both after sometime and get to sleep together or something in future, consider to stay together which is good. You find out your differences and accept each other hidden habit. Then consider marrying her lah.

Dun rush my friend.

Since you are a Christian, this is a very simple conundrum to resolve. Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, But a woman who fears God, must be praised. If she is THE one, you will know after you witness what her changes in her belief. Just dont hard sell her.

I got married at the age of 30. My friend got married at 40. Another one at 27. All not divorced after 10+ years. If you were to run a statistical analysis, age has not correlation to the stability of a marriage.

Having said all that, 25 is a little too young...regardless of whether you are rich or poor..

once u sign for ur registration marriage , by law u need at least 2 years to divorce ...

I been dating for five years only settle down. 2months is too short to really know is she the only one... You will eventually get to know when you are really ready for it... She will hint you also... Take it easy..