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Heart superb pain., Please help :(
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:32 PM, updated 12y ago
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Story is like this. I want make it simple because my heart very pain now.
I argued with my gf. Then cool down 1-2 weeks. In between the time she blocked my FB and Call. I suspected something weird actually but didnt bother much. Then today i used another FB account to login and check her FB to found out that she is having another bf now. My heart suddenly pain till F die.
Few weeks ago we just having intimacy sweetly and good, then argued abit and within few weeks she found another bf secretly. You know how pain is my heart now? What should i do? My heart too pain and geram! How can she like that?
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:36 PM
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QUOTE(archilles89 @ Sep 8 2014, 04:35 PM) Don't provoke la pitty the ayam. I have no good advice for you bro since I am also dealing with sort of similar problem. We've been together 5 years liao suddenly break up. At least u break up sure direct talk properly ok we break. But i really cannot imagine she can be so cruel and evil already together with another dude. Expected hug and kiss.
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:38 PM
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QUOTE(BeastB @ Sep 8 2014, 04:35 PM) Congratulations...you just found out you were dating a cheap whore. This is the time to enjoy dumbass....imagine if you ended up marrying her. Dodged a bullet son. I know but the heart pain like F up. How should i revenge? I guess only by revenge my heart can feel better. She studying in a college now. Should i post something to let all people know this cheap bitc just slept with me few weeks ago and then now she is hugging another guy? My heart too pain till cannot tahan and i am not joking bro
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:39 PM
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QUOTE(RiddleMeThat @ Sep 8 2014, 04:36 PM) Your biggest mistake in life is to expect that women would give a proper explaination for any sort of breakup. *lol*... You will sleep with your bf and then argue abit then few weeks later u hugging another dude?
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:41 PM
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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Sep 8 2014, 04:37 PM) Gone case already, my advice is for you to dump her before she does that to you. It's a soon to happen case. People like to do this to their partner when they don't have the balls to speak and ask for a breakup with their partner, they pretend that you did wrong and argue with you. In the end they go hiding/blocking/trash talk about you behind another dude and surprisingly that dude turns out to be her next bf. You will understand my feeling if u imagine you suddenly found out ur GF is having another bf secretly before proper break up.
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:44 PM
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QUOTE(falzehope @ Sep 8 2014, 04:42 PM) play her game tell the whole world what a slut she is I am thinking of this only now. Not sure should go ahead anot. Later all people know i sleep with her before. But my heart too pain now imagine she is hugging another guy now
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(BeastB @ Sep 8 2014, 04:41 PM) Ok reality is most probably she was two timing you already with that guy...and made an argument just to have an excuse to take a 'break'. She's just not that into you brah. I'm not joking either...go watch "Forgetting Sarah Marshall", you can relate to it 100% right now. But seriously. You gotta move on brah. Any girl who did that ain't worth it. If you want revenge, go ahead if it makes you feel better and does not affect your friendship circle. The only revenge i can think of is tell the whole school about this slut only. But that everyone will be knowing me as well as the many people know that we were together before.
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:46 PM
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QUOTE(Jasonist @ Sep 8 2014, 04:45 PM) u piap her u already win... at least that dude now is 2nd hand dy... Piap many times. I really want marry with her. and she seemed a good girl as well. Cannot imagine she can be so cruel and bad at the end.
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:48 PM
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QUOTE(doodleman @ Sep 8 2014, 04:46 PM) Ur one small case. My fren almost gonna marry the girl. Wedding dinner package already bought, wedding ring bought, house already bought under her name. Then last last say dowan to get married, want to break up. Shortly after, she wants to marry another guy who works in the same company as her. Mind u the guy is 5 yrs younger than her, and works as her junior. What's worse? She refuse to give back the wedding dinner package and ring to my fren and plans to use it for her own wedding with the younger guy. The house also same. Dunno wether he could persuade her to sell it and refund her or not. Wait, is the younger guy u ts? ni a meh, I think normal guy also cannot than such girl. I know that girl more worst than my ex. I worry i will chop her and that guy. But my heart superb pain now when thinking she hugging and kissing with that guy. Needle no cucuk inside your skin you duno the pain bro
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 04:50 PM
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QUOTE(jinkinz @ Sep 8 2014, 04:48 PM) Here's a list of things u can do 1. find another gf. 2. ask your "ex gf" for threesome. 3. suck it up and life go on. 4. go out and have a walk. 5. talk to you friend if u have any. 6. if u don't expect to be with her like forever ever, u somehow know this will happen, so again suck it up and life go on. 7. find something else to do, there's tons of things u can do as a single, you are a freeman. But my heart superb pain now. The moment i saw their pic with a new guy, my heart immediately bleeds
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 05:00 PM
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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Sep 8 2014, 04:56 PM) I've been there before. I saw it with my own eyes, confronted her and I just can't believe the ugly words that were hurled at me, it literally felt like she spat on my face. Just forget it bro, not worth it any more. Even if she accept you back, it is just wasting your time. You are better off with someone else. How you went through that sad moment? My heart very pain. She even message told me that guy treat her so good ,caring her ,sayang her, i assume they just together 2 weeks and in front me told me how good is that guy. I heart pain till like wanted to die. But i cant die or else derhaka to my parents.
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 05:59 PM
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 8 2014, 06:15 PM
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QUOTE(ray123 @ Sep 8 2014, 06:10 PM) Plenty of other fish in the sea. » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « uncle ray
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TSRaymond Lam
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Sep 9 2014, 12:07 AM
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QUOTE(ymc2303 @ Sep 8 2014, 11:38 PM) from this point, he already piap with her while you naively thinking she will coming bek..  Not sure got piap anot both of them. I feel her so dirty and yet she acts like nothing together happily with that guy. I know if i still heart paining because of her, i am the most stupid one.
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