Havin sex b4 married?, wat is ur opinion?
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 Sep 21 2006, 04:29 PM
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Sep 21 2006, 10:43 AM) Christians are not allowed to divorce... christians are allowed to divorce if .....their partner is having an affair..and not if they fall out of love..But then again.....Quoting from that guy.....its old story old rules....  |
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Sep 21 2006, 04:33 PM
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to me guy have nothing to loose...its better safe then sorry...don't get married just because got pregnant.. and then force to love each other just for the child...get what I meant? So try to restrain sex before marriage. And about protection forget about it...it doesn't work 100%
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Sep 26 2006, 02:38 PM
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QUOTE(slumberus @ Sep 26 2006, 02:30 PM) looks like u enjoy the flaming and carnage incurred here? i wonder is she interested on the content or just want her forum to be popularize?  This post has been edited by kimmie: Sep 26 2006, 02:39 PM |
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Sep 27 2006, 10:34 AM
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QUOTE(myxzspzlx @ Sep 27 2006, 07:54 AM) yup... i agree with you... All i can say we are seeing ppl who are guilty and try to rationalise their doing with masses of ppl who jumped into the pond too late. there is still hope; we r in era most ppl don't really care if virgin or not. but if u say so to your future partner they still love u but deep down they feel hurt and will say to themselves, "sigh...I wish I could shared it with you; my one and only" as i said b4... everybody must have made mistakes b4... its a nature of human... regret it... and try your best not to do it again... if you are to weak to control your own desire for sex but you dont wan't to get married... then be it... and please contained it to yourself... by going around and telling ppl that what you do is not wrong (maybe to get approval from others so that you dont feel guilty)... you are infecting other ppl with your morale disease... and that is wrong...  ppl who haven't do it; keep it up. .ppl who have done it. try to sustain yourself till the right one comes along; you don't want to be the unlucky one die early from such a terrible disease.. |
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Sep 27 2006, 10:36 AM
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QUOTE(Pix @ Sep 27 2006, 10:33 AM) morale disease ?!? so you're the one who knows what is sane and what is diseased in this world.. good, we (humanity) were looking for you true...God say go foward and multiply to adam and eve whom God had choosen.sex is good but only with your wife or husband...not with ur bf and gf; ur pet bro and all the animals in the barnyard. (speaking to those you are Christian/Catholic/Jew/Muslim here) i personally consider ultra-conservative people and people who rely entirely on guilt to manage their lives to be morally diseased... Sex should be considered with respect and maturity, but it shouldn't represent DEVIL and HELL and WEAKNESS and GUILT. That's absurd to want to force this image down in people's guts. This post has been edited by kimmie: Sep 27 2006, 10:38 AM |
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Sep 27 2006, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(Pix @ Sep 27 2006, 01:39 PM) matrix, entirely agreeing with you ! and "nuff said" for me too. ahah shhh...shh.. later mod noticed...lolhitler, i'm amazed mods let you use this nickname... hitler, wtf ?!? and your remarks about religions are slightly weird.. anwayz its sad to see nowadays ppl treat their God as religion...like something mundane to do..brushing teeth.there is no more relationship between god and them unless when they are in deep trouble only seek god.so sad... |
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Sep 27 2006, 03:00 PM
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QUOTE(myxzspzlx @ Sep 27 2006, 02:56 PM) matured enuff... and already has a good relationship... but wonder why they don't want to get married... not enough money ? lol driving a modified kancil...still thinking of finding someone else? cannot effort to get married? not confident to take responsibility? |
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Sep 27 2006, 03:02 PM
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QUOTE(myxzspzlx @ Sep 27 2006, 02:52 PM) are u sure there is none in other religion?... or maybe they just don't care... when the society care... known misbehave activity will be known in public... but in a society that morale problem is no longer a problem to them... they just ignore it... as for them... its not a big issue... its already a part of their life dont want to name race or religion;however most crime of passion between siblings and parents comes mostly from a religion which forces their young to be that religion and to come out of the religion is very hard..u know what i meant...so its not from their heart to be that religion..i rather these ppl to be free thinker in malaysia...because if they force themself on someone to prove them wrong...in their court is hard.must have at least 4 ppl? to justify the rape did happen  This post has been edited by kimmie: Sep 27 2006, 03:07 PM |
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Sep 27 2006, 03:09 PM
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where is vious?any comments on what we have said?
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Sep 27 2006, 03:40 PM
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QUOTE(myxzspzlx @ Sep 27 2006, 03:32 PM) just to correct you on this... the 4 mens requirement is to punish someone under Hudud law... if theres not enuff witness... u think they will be free??? nope... another punishment will be executed... its under takzir... thanks for the info...pls elobrate what is the punishment under takzir law?what is takzir law???... takzir law is simply the law that was decided by ppl who incharge of the country... in a simple word... its the same as the civil law we are practicing now... |
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Sep 28 2006, 01:18 PM
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QUOTE(stefanong @ Sep 28 2006, 11:10 AM) sexual relationships should be reserved for marriage because of the attachment and intimacy involved in my opinion. Besides, you really need something concrete like marriage commitment when a child is born and you have to wake up at 3 freaking am in the morning to change its "stinky-to high-heaven" diaper. Bet you whatever spark and romance will fizzle out pretty soon. edited for typo whoever disagree should read this |
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Sep 28 2006, 01:45 PM
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QUOTE(jeff_sin @ Sep 28 2006, 01:28 PM) as long is safe and love each other y not? nothing is safe...even high school they inform that condom and all can break...This post has been edited by kimmie: Sep 28 2006, 02:09 PM |
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