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 Havin sex b4 married?, wat is ur opinion?

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jimmy79
post Sep 26 2006, 01:14 PM

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Wow, this threat still alive.

Premature sex is not absolute answer right or wrong. May be in Religion but not in science.

Everyone has their own opinion about it.
Just have something to share:

1) IF have sex before married is SIN, the ppl dumb a gf just bcos she is not virgin is create a bigger SIN. Making someone who love you sad is the greatest SIN

2) If you really love your another half, do you care what he/she has done in past? IF You can forgive their even bigger mistake why not just for the useless virginess?

3) Dun call ppl prostitute just because they have sex marriage b4 marriage. You have to remember, making love with someone you love, one night stand, casual sex cannot be mix together at all. Please differentiate it correctly

4) Marriage is a licence to have sex? Then you are wrong, marriage is a promise so that you willing spend you second part life with your partner. Sex is nothing come to do marriage, perhaps a gift for marriage? What if the gal/guy cant have sex? You divorce ?

5) If you so care about girl virginess, ask yourself do you so CLEAN that well? Do you masturbate b4? If yes, you are no longer virgin in some aspect and when urself cant even practice it, dun blame others as well.

And Last, I din support sex b4 marriage and also never disagree with it.
Just think twice everytime for everything before you do it. You have to bare the results yourself for every move you have done, this apply to everything and not only SEX.

Cheers


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post Sep 26 2006, 01:45 PM

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QUOTE(myxzspzlx @ Sep 26 2006, 01:23 PM)
yeah... when we talk based on mind logic... then we will come to your conclusion...

it still go back to whether you believe what your religion has set or not...

if u want to find reason in science... then you will end up saying homosexual is ok... sex with siblings is ok... and all sorts of misbehaviour is ok...
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So, what does your religion teach you about the guy heart in girl body( lesbian), girl heart in man body( gay). Is their own fault? Parents fault? or God fault?
There is no absolute answer come to this kind of question.


QUOTE(aichiban @ Sep 26 2006, 01:25 PM)
u're still watching 80's drama?
if touch considered mine, then its like a dream come true.
or a nightmare
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There is not such thing even in last time.
Taking drama as ppl culture, religion is the funniest example i have even seen.
jimmy79
post Sep 28 2006, 01:34 PM

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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Sep 28 2006, 10:53 AM)
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My interpretation :-
"most of the grls are not virgins, most f my frens are not, so becoz most of my frens are not, that means its normal and i can follow trend too..."

Do u watch chinese movies? Ever heard of "jam zhu long" (rendam pig basket) ??
Why in older days, those ppl caught having pre-marital sex will be punished like that?
Why Islam NOW still prohibiting pre-marital sex?

God's rules are old and not usable for 21st century? Human's rules changes to adapt to new environment?
Lolz
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hahaha, another movie as examples rclxms.gif rclxms.gif
Jam zhu long is a law? or god rules?
If it is god rules why it is not implemented now?It is just a outdated cultural
(PS: It also apply to girl who curi makan after married)

It is just a cultural on previous ages due to the concept guy > gal.
There is alot more culture rules for guy >gal
1) Guys can marry alot wife, why our laws banned it now( except Islam law still alow 4 wife for 1 man )
2) girls need tide their leg so it looks small( anyone care this now?)
3) girls must follow their parents for their marriage
4) girls that work outside is having cheap life, only those girl stay at home all day is "good gal"
5) girls who not educated is good.( try say this to our educaiton minister)

Culture always change from time to time, it is no absolute answer for its true or false.

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QUOTE(le3na @ Sep 28 2006, 01:58 AM)
ehh plz la... dun mix it up ok... having sex b4 marridge is nto illegal ok... if tats illegal go find police catch them la... those who have sex b4 marridge... funny....

<-- This one is absolute correct in the law terms in all worldwide. If not our police will be very busy. laugh.gif


jimmy79
post Oct 2 2006, 04:44 PM

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since so many guy here is look so important about the girls virginity.
I have 1 question to ask.
Lets say
You and your gf is in love for many year and planning marry soon.
one day due to criminal case your gf lose her virginity, what will you do?
Leave her or accept her?

One think i cant figure myself. Hope can get some idea from here.
For Muslim,If you guys so look important to a girl virginity, how about the 4 wife system? Do you expect all your wife also virgin even though urself is no longer virgin after you marry ur first wife? Does this call fair in current moden system when girl and guy is equal ?

thanks first
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post Dec 7 2006, 04:27 PM

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QUOTE(Edi8888 @ Dec 6 2006, 10:22 AM)
for guy is ok...for gal is not ok...
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Sorry but have to say
Girls, beware of this kind of guy. His thinking is still in the Stone age which guy > gal. Pity to his gf if he has any.

I respect if you din agree with pre-marital sex but if u think guy is ok and gal is not ok. Then it is totally bullshit and i feel shame to you why in modern society still have this kind of thinking. Whats wrong with our education?




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