I did not read the other 49 pages. Maybe someone already mentioned before or maybe mentioned in other similar thread as this issue has already been brought up tons before.

But this is the 21st century. Sex before marriage is so old. It was created in the first place during the ancient period to stop people from making mistakes and creating tons of bastards.

For now, it was concluded in studies that sex is a part of human needs. It is no more the 3 basic things that you study in school. So, I think sex before marriage is fine as long as both are adult and they are aware of what they are doing. Enough with all the religious rules. They were created few thousand years ago and I don't think it should apply anymore. Human have evolved a lot since then.

Those who are practicing abstinence, don't tell me you don't even does some self indulgence or is it also against the religion? If you don't "dis-charge" yourself, I am sure you will have lots of wet dreams.

Haha...I apologize for being so straight forward or crude but this is a primal instinct and eventhough we asians don't talk openly about it. It still is a major part of our society where this word "sex" is causing a lot of issues whether in politic or movies or marriage and so on.