Having sex b4 marriage is OK by me as long as couples take measures to protect each other....

As for virgin or not virgin IMHO I don't personally care... coz in this world virginity is fleeting and is not what marriage is all about! Marriage is a union of two people who love and care for each other not love virginity...

Example my best friend uncommon for a guy at this day and age he is a virgin and his GF is not, she had several prior relationships. Instead of pop cherries he got his rambutan's and banana plucked For him it doesn't matter the status of her virginity, he isn't in love with an intact hymen

Anyway he loves this girl so much he decided to marry her last month. It's safe to say pre-marital sex and virginity is mind over matter, if you don't mind is doesn't matter.

BTW I'm the same, it doesn't matter to me if my GF hymen intact or not. I'm still planning our future's together


edit: Not all guys are out to screw girls or ONS so don't generalize nor are girls that lost their virginity nymphomaniac's.

This post has been edited by aaronpang: Aug 29 2006, 05:57 PM