many of my friends said they will have sex only if they married to someone..
but after that, 80% lose their virginity to their bf before get married...
For me, i didn't think about having sex after or before married.. if you date with a guy, and think that u love him so much, is worth to give "it" to him...is better than have sex with those guys who only want your body..
haha... like me, my current bf, i willing to give my 1st time to him, because i think it is worth to and i love him so much... i'm not expect that he must married me after i have sex with him...
especially nowadays...not many girls are virgin whose age above 19

the important thing is the guy u be with is worth to give ur virginity to him and doesn't care whether will be together in the future anot..
as long as have sex in the legal age, each of other ready to have it with protection on, n willing to give to that guy..
so it is doesn't matter having sex before married or after.. is better that give ur virginity to ur loves 1 than loose ur virginity to some bad guy who just want your body or the guy that you don't like

Somemore i believe tat sex can build up strong relationship each other, life will be much colorful, n guy will be appreciate u very much..

This post has been edited by @nN: Jun 5 2008, 06:05 PM