ya lor i dun tink can control lah. the main concern is the male rili love u or not.
Havin sex b4 married?, wat is ur opinion?
Havin sex b4 married?, wat is ur opinion?
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Jul 27 2008, 10:13 AM
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ya lor i dun tink can control lah. the main concern is the male rili love u or not.
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Jul 27 2008, 11:05 PM
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polis kata jangan marh
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Jul 28 2008, 12:26 AM
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i agree with pre-marital sex. not because we like it, is for security reason, who knows after marriage u get a "agua" instead of a pure girl.
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Jul 28 2008, 01:05 AM
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For me, it's depend on urself.
If someone said they are not going to have pre-marital sex.I understand. BUT try to think this way, if u r divorced with ur husband then how? U had lost ur viginity to him, and then u become single again. In other view, it is almost the same with pre-marital sex. HOWEVER, dun simply get sex with anyone. Coz nobody wan others to say they are cheap rite?unless those who really dun mind(this kind of ppl we can juz ignore because they dun like themselves already for wat we nid to care) |
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Jul 28 2008, 09:23 PM
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know what u are doing, knowing the consequences,
take the responsibility towards each other, taking responsibility IF anything happened (diseases or pregnant) both party are willing and mature enough then, yea, why not? |
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Jul 28 2008, 09:43 PM
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i believe that it depends on that individual's choice..there's no right or wrong in it..but must be responsible of the actions and also the consequences..
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Jul 29 2008, 10:23 AM
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QUOTE(JTxj @ Jul 25 2008, 09:19 PM) A huge percentage of our generation disagrees with you (I only agree cause of religion, otherwise I'd be sayin YES) I know. If this keeps on continue, then the real concept of "love" will slowly turn into sex. Ppl nowadays just think about fun..... Many guys give love for sex....... But to those who don't, congratz ! Some guys won't accept the "bocor" ones...... So don't u feel bad for that eh ? Just bcuz of u she have lower chance to get a new bf if u break up with her. Many of the girls regret havin sex with their bf b4 married...... I know cuz i've done several surveys b4...... Well i don't really stick to my religion FYI. The phrase "A huge percentage of our generation disagrees with you" should be "A huge percentage of man disagrees with you" Just my 2 cents. |
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Jul 30 2008, 10:49 PM
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Having premarital sex may somehow create doubt in the future in marriage. Say let ssay u have sex before marriage n after marriage n after a while, when there is conflict, one of u may raise doubt, saying, "hmm...if he can have sex me, i dont see any problem he might have sex with other woman..." i hope u get my point
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Jul 31 2008, 05:19 PM
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not very good.
because u still duno what will happen in future. esp the guy's heart! |
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Aug 2 2008, 07:29 PM
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hi all, im new here
seem like alot female here dont like sex b4 marry? im still student for now my room mate just doesnt care she and her sister living same house with me. they both dont have bf when we live togather, both of em working but after they got a they got bf... and they sleep with em after few weeks later lols..... and her sister already changed 2x bf... both bfs same, just sleep with her everyday... i think most of the working female just doesnt care? or OL? |
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Aug 2 2008, 10:56 PM
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I Am PrOuD To Be A ViRgIn
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Aug 3 2008, 11:01 AM
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Aug 3 2008, 11:13 AM
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a question to guys, guys would like to have sex with the gf, but then when they wanna get marry, they wanna find a pure clean virgin. izit tru?...except for the case where the guy married the gf whom he hav sex with. thats not included in this question.
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Aug 3 2008, 11:16 AM
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QUOTE(geminimei @ Aug 3 2008, 11:13 AM) a question to guys, guys would like to have sex with the gf, but then when they wanna get marry, they wanna find a pure clean virgin. izit tru?...except for the case where the guy married the gf whom he hav sex with. thats not included in this question. for me, V or not V is not important. As long as can perform. |
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Aug 3 2008, 11:21 AM
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QUOTE(geminimei @ Aug 3 2008, 11:13 AM) a question to guys, guys would like to have sex with the gf, but then when they wanna get marry, they wanna find a pure clean virgin. izit tru?...except for the case where the guy married the gf whom he hav sex with. thats not included in this question. It DoEsNt MaTtEr ImPoRaNtAnT U CaN FiNd A LoYaL GuY. |
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Aug 3 2008, 11:37 AM
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Aug 3 2008, 11:41 AM
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It MeAnS
a question to guys, guys would like to have sex with the gf, but then when they wanna get marry" ThIs DoEsNt MaTTeR. WhAt ReAlLy MaTtEr Is YoU CaN FiNd A LoYaL Bf Or HuSbAnD |
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Aug 3 2008, 11:52 AM
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Do it for love.... not lust.....
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Aug 3 2008, 12:00 PM
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QUOTE(CarmenYap @ Aug 3 2008, 11:41 AM) It MeAnS ok...got wat u meant....so, a word to the guys, dun simply go n screw ppl's daughter...wait till marry 1st...a question to guys, guys would like to have sex with the gf, but then when they wanna get marry" ThIs DoEsNt MaTTeR. WhAt ReAlLy MaTtEr Is YoU CaN FiNd A LoYaL Bf Or HuSbAnD |
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Aug 3 2008, 12:02 PM
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To PrOtEcT YoUrSeLf YeS MaRry FiRsT, WheN YoU ArE In LoVe EvErYtHiNg BlInDs YoUr JuDgEmEnT
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