Hi everyone!

So, my bf and I are planning to get married in 2015, God-willing, in April of 2015 or somewhere next year.

I am overwhelmed with a lot of things as I live and work in KL but we are both planning to have our wedding in JB because most of my family/friends are in SG. I can't do it in SG because, obviously, our budget is not in SGD but in RM. LOL!

Another issue is that my bf is also overseas right now, so it isn't easy to talk to him and set dates easily, therefore, we liaise through Whatsapp, Skype/Oovoo, Email and etc. LOL! Once his job approves of his leave, he will be visiting me and my family (in KL & SG) to plan out everything, go for our English Islamic Marriage Course in ABIM (Ampang, KL) and settle out some of wedding errands in JB (do bookings/put the deposit for Tok Kadi, look at Event Venue, Catering and Bridal houses)

My Wedding Details

No. of pax: 200-300

Tentative Date: April 11th, 2015 or somewhere in 2015

Event: Solemnization/'Nikah' from 12:30noon - 5pm. Then, the Reception/'Sanding' will be after 8pm onwards

Theme: Base color in 'Champagne' with little pop of colors of a 'Peacock' (dark navy blue, fushcia pink, dark purple and dark green turquoise) Bridesmaids/close friends will all be wearing 'Navy Blue' whereas the guests/family from both sides will be wearing 'Dark Green Turquoise'.

Bridalwear: Planning to rent (One couplewear for Solemnization (Champange/Ivory shade) and another one for Reception (Plum shade) or if making some is cheaper than the rate, will opt to make them then

Makeup Artist: I am still in search for the right one that has the makeup techniques for a bride that I like (can nego within my budget)

Henna Artist: I'd love it if she could come the night before my wedding day to do my henna, both on my hands and feet. Anyone knows who's the best in JB?

Hotel/Dewan: I need it closer to the Custom Checkpoint near Woodlands to JB. I would love it to be within my budget. Definitely not RM100 per head, the lower the better. Doesn't have to be a lavish ballroom- anything convenient from a simple air-conditioned hall to a nice Halal restaurant is fine too.

Catering: Needs to be authentic Johorean taste, but if hotel provide catering, I'd have to find a good one that provides excellent tastes (if not, the pakciks and makciks who will be attended from afar will start complaining about the food So, i'd rather that they are happy with the foods served during our wedding so everyone could be happy!)

Videography/Photography: I am wondering if Ministry of Moments would come down to JB to capture every sweet moment during our wedding. If they do, I'd need to find out how much is their fee

Wedding Planner: Anyone can recommend me someone in JB?

Wedding Deco/Lighting: Need help to know which company in JB is reliable and does proper job (meaning stick to their words type of crew)

Wedding Cake: Would love cream cheese frosting on plain vanilla cake/butter cake. Not a fan of buttercream or fondant. Anyone knows a bakery in JB that does amazing cakes?

Wedding Favors/Berkats: What's the latest thing to give to our guests in our time now? I'm thinking of the traditional bunga telur for Solemnization and then someone nice for everyone during the Reception.

Trying to know everything and plan it all out but being far away from the location of the wedding can be inconvenient.

What's your say about my concerns? Please don't be shy to drop your opinions here okay! \\()v

Thank you <3

This post has been edited by colormeprettyy: Aug 11 2014, 04:30 PM

set a budget and keep it firm

then reduce your targeted expenditure 20% below your budget. you will need the 20% headroom for all the unplanned, minor expenditures which do accumulates

it will be a stressful few months, so always try find time to chill out

the last thing you don't want is both of you quarelling over petty matters since both of you are worn out


final pc of advice: if u can afford it, get a reputable wedding planner.


congratulations!

Www.planyourwedding.my

I know wedding planner in KL/selangor only sorry

This post has been edited by whyseej00: Aug 11 2014, 02:38 PM

Yes! These are good advices, will take these into action.

Contemplating on the wedding planner cos I'm not in JB so he could run errands for me while I'm working here in KL.

And Thank You!

This post has been edited by colormeprettyy: Aug 11 2014, 04:26 PM

Okay, no worries! Hope to get more feedback from those who know of any.

are you ready to become a mum?

congrats, btw i believe u r muslim?, so i'm letting u know some information........ u can get incentives from gov, not sure which one u can qualify....

http://mes.selangor.gov.my/modules/news/ar...93#.U-h_G_mSyls

http://www.maiwp.gov.my/i/index.php/perkhi...mi/agihan-zakat
(14. Bantuan Perkahwinan section)

http://www.mais.net.my/index.php?option=co...nsan&Itemid=187
(10. Saguhati Perkahwinan section)

i believe she is not qualified for those assistance

Yes, we are both very ready for children.

This post has been edited by colormeprettyy: Aug 11 2014, 05:15 PM

Yes, I am a Malaysian Muslim but born in Singapore. I'll take a look! Terima Kasih.

Aw! Really? =( Why not?

One big advice for wedding preparations, stay calm. There are bound to be conflicts and I have seen a fair share amongst family and friends, and sadly some did not make it pass this stage.

I wish you good luck and congratulations

i believe you are quite well off

Are you based in JB?

Definitely good advice here! Thank you!

If I could, I would just want to get solemnized in a mosque to simply seal the deal but my family doesnt want it to be a talk amongst relatives and other friends. Plus, being the only daughter and sister in the family, they really want a proper wedding. Doesn't have to be lavish but enough to be called a wedding- to see me walk down the aisle and be on the dias with my husband to be.

Thankfully, my bf is very understanding and I definitely will help him by not going over board. Simply try to make my parents understand to not waste money when I can use that for our future property/children.

Lots to consider and follow within budget, thus, why I only invite 200 very close loved ones.

Just a hard worker. Slave every all day, gotta keep hustlin and grindin as they say!

Please pm me if you want to have some special door gifts or favors for your guest. I am able to help you with it. Design and budget negotiable.

What kind of doorgifts do you offer?

Is there a thread or a website to see what you have?

You can visit my blog at eventdoorgift.blogspot.com. This are some of the sample but if you need some favor box with candy or chocolate then let me know so that I can show you some of the sample

I'll take a peep! Thank you.