i did follow, for wedding i still go becoz me and my fren dont really care ( my pregant fren did attend as well )
but as for funeral we didnt go ( not that close also) we just give "pak kam"

this is very base on u and the bride ( if wedding)

u might not care but what if the bride family care.. normally i will tell them ahead " hey, i getting marry to.. u scare clash?, no? ok i attend your "

This post has been edited by yahiko: Aug 12 2014, 10:58 AM