1. Most girls dont dare but they should because they will be appreciated, that's definite! Unless of course you meet a freak, bad taste, lady.

2. You shouldnt tell him you like him directly unless you've been eyeing him for a while. Just say something nice and ask for his phone number, MSN or Friendster.

3. Never think that you're not suitable for anybody. Always think you are a level above the rest, that will give you a confident boost to make your move. If you look down on yourself, everyone else will look down at you. If he look down at you, look down at him too!


A girl added me in Friendster on random, so I have no idea who she is but she came from my hometown so I message her and say Hi, wanna be friends? Then she start telling me grandfather story about how she use Friendster to keep existing friends and not make new ones cause she has met perverts and that she had added me by mistake.

To be honest, she is quite pretty but then when she spoke of it that way, I start to think "You bloody moron, you meeting pervs is your problem! What has it gotta do with me? Who added who first?" Despite that, I told her off telling her to delete me off a list but a week has passed, so she is either too stupid to do it or she dont plan to.

Finally, she said I am insincere because my Friendster dont have my pict. Only got 2 lenglui pict - sister and girlfriend. I was like WTF?! A bit shallow dont you think? Then she kept on rubbing the fact bout how she bump into pervs. I wanted to tell her off by saying being cyber-friends, why must she bring it to real life? If she maintain a cyber-friendship, I dont see any harm to that. So finally, I told her off saying one of those pict are my gf and I'm done deal with psychotic girls like her.