girls,

dunno whether this is the right place to talk about it, but just want to ask,

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas...
3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...

let's talk, ok...

This post has been edited by magnum: Aug 20 2006, 07:39 PM

u come talk to me i will be very appreciate it

what if the girl tell you that she likes you.. what do you think of her?

guys.. if you are single, then a girl tell you that she likes you, will you take her as your gf?

u tell me u like me then ill tell u wat i think of u.

friends or stranger? if sunddenly some stranger pop up say she likes u, sure will get shock lo...

will get paiseh..... and shocks too..... if dont like u... then say bye bye... and never talk to ya again.......

of course friend lah.. someone you know already.. maybe collegue or just any friends lah...

wah... u are friend oh, suddenly because she said she likes u, but u dun like, then straight away bye bye liao ah.. cannot be freind anymore???

Why i cannot meet a girl who will fall in love with me . I so damn sui in live everything cannot get haizz. cryyy

maybe tomorrow a girl around u will approach u..hhaha

Interesting thread. If a girl comes to me and tell me that, I will consider her larr... I kinda like girls who speaks their mind instead of keeping everything to themselves. Whether to accept or not, it will depend on what I feel. I will not just blindly accept even if I do not like the girl just on the basis that she approached me first.

Nah... I believe friendship can still continue even if a relationship failed.

It'll be raather awkward though, eh? Especially if it ended on a sour note.

For me ah, relationships aren't top of my case now. Maybe in a few years, so the answer is no. I turn bright red around guys I like. C'MON BE MYSELF!!! Very embarassing haha.

do you think that the girl is too "open".. dun u guys like to chase girl instead of being chase by the girls?

u can go and say 'i like u' to man u like.
man actually appreciate that but, plz dont make desperate face 1.
maybe he will think u joking. incase if ur serious,he will consider for that.

Actually it depends on the guy who you are telling to if he has feelings and care for you he will accept you and feel so happy unless you meet lah the type of playboy one and will make use of you wohh becareful . I think not many girls will pour out their feeling to guys .

friend ah? see lo, if i also got feeling bout her then ma happy ending lo....
if don hav wan ma tell her friendship forever..

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
nope..coz jual mahal..hahahaha... no la, i probably wont coz i got no guts and too shy..

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas...
gosh~ its really hard for me..

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...
never think of that...

dun ever do tat...

coz if u r unlucky ....the guy will accept u ....but not ur love.
then will play u only

She said "You got the character to be my bf". I just smile and "ORLY"

Totally freaked out. When go out dinner. She hold my arm too. That memory i wont forget de. Kinda nice.

so is she your gf now?

is that guys always not serious on this stuff??

Not really. Depends on how she said it la. If just to tell me, it's okay I think.

No for me. If that happens to me, I do consider it seriouly like what I've mentioned previously. But of course, it may differ on some people.

1. Most girls dont dare but they should because they will be appreciated, that's definite! Unless of course you meet a freak, bad taste, lady.

2. You shouldnt tell him you like him directly unless you've been eyeing him for a while. Just say something nice and ask for his phone number, MSN or Friendster.

3. Never think that you're not suitable for anybody. Always think you are a level above the rest, that will give you a confident boost to make your move. If you look down on yourself, everyone else will look down at you. If he look down at you, look down at him too!


A girl added me in Friendster on random, so I have no idea who she is but she came from my hometown so I message her and say Hi, wanna be friends? Then she start telling me grandfather story about how she use Friendster to keep existing friends and not make new ones cause she has met perverts and that she had added me by mistake.

To be honest, she is quite pretty but then when she spoke of it that way, I start to think "You bloody moron, you meeting pervs is your problem! What has it gotta do with me? Who added who first?" Despite that, I told her off telling her to delete me off a list but a week has passed, so she is either too stupid to do it or she dont plan to.

Finally, she said I am insincere because my Friendster dont have my pict. Only got 2 lenglui pict - sister and girlfriend. I was like WTF?! A bit shallow dont you think? Then she kept on rubbing the fact bout how she bump into pervs. I wanted to tell her off by saying being cyber-friends, why must she bring it to real life? If she maintain a cyber-friendship, I dont see any harm to that. So finally, I told her off saying one of those pict are my gf and I'm done deal with psychotic girls like her.

I say the same thing to guys:

Don't be too quick to say "I love you, be my BF/GF".

Firstly, it scares your potential target. Some here might say "oh but I'll give you a chance", but you don't know what your friend might think. Secondly, you are committing yourself to a relationship with someone you only know as a friend. I would consider this as "you barely know this person".

Always, ALWAYS begin your courtship with a non-commital phrase like

"I like you, I'd like to get to know you better"

This leaves room for things to grow. It also leaves you room to leave.

And it's rare for friends who date to remain friends, but it can happen. It depends how you handle the courtship phase. You need to be tactful and tread lightly.

Go out with the guy. Spend time with him. It usually takes more than several weeks for a person's true nature to show. And remember, if the person pressures you to commit before you feel you are ready, then it's time to move on. You should never commit to something until you feel you are 110% ready.

Good luck.

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Nice story, Casanova. I think you did the right thing. She is really immature. There's so many ways she can handle perverts, but she seems to be using that as "a story" to get something. What that is.. is a mystery.

Psychotic women are scary. No one knows how their minds work.

This post has been edited by altie: Aug 16 2006, 08:19 AM

does anyone of u encounter this situation? how u handle it?

though guys always encourage their gal friends to be brave, but i think most girls don't have the courage to do so.. afraid that the guy will look differently on her after she confess to him...

wat if already have all those things? wat to do next?

Sien trying to chase gals already. I'd be delighted and will feel good if gal tries to approach me . As longs as not a fanatic gal that will "DO ANYTHING" to get u.. that 1 scarry lo..

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?

not dare..... shy and scared ma... usually i will look at him only..... but recently the guy i like he approach me....

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas...

not dare to approach sure not dare to ask lo....

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...

yes i always fall for the wrong person... why i say so?? cos i always think he is not suitable for me..... reason: i m taller than him, i think i m bigger size than him (maybe cos i m taller den it makes me feels like i m bigger size than him??) poor thing.....he know alot of girls, prettier, sexier than me so i think he wont like me cos i m too ordinary.... but the way he treat and talk to me make me feel like there is "something".... mayb i think too much...... just knew him personally for few months only..... but notice him for about ayear gosh....

so he;s ur bf now??? congratulation

I wish that can happen to me

ermm... for your questions,.,...actually i more like gals tell me she like me then i need to guess lo...if you really like just tell la...nothing to be shy about or anything...in my life, i have 3 really nice ladies who confessed to me....1 is my best friend, 1 is my fren's fren....and 1 is my gf's best friend's ....

i nv accepted any of them though....my best friend is because when she confessed to me, i like another girl that time, and even after i rejected her, we still remain as best friend and till now (she's married already...married early) we're still very good frens ^^ so nothing to worry about

My fren's fren....i just know her for not long...and she confessed and said that i treat her very good and no one in her life have treat her so good b4(i treat girls very good de normally but to me, those are already daily routines and i dont find actually that i treat any girl very good...just normal) but to me, maybe she is juz too (chong dong) impulsive and didn't think long enough....and that time i also have gf although we not like bf-gf also....but end up, the news spread and my gf took my phone and scolded her b****.....i called to apologize and told her its better for us not to meet in this short period, but now, we're still friends ^^

and lastly, this girl said that i treat my gf so good and she treat me like slave...(in chinese there's a saying saying i treat my gf like treasure but she treat me like grass) and said its not worth it for me to treat her like that....and confessed to me...i didn't accept her also....cause....my gf's best friend ma....and i'm a kinda loyal guy....so T_T

its good to confess to the guy though...cause i believe its hard to meet 2 way love in an early relationship...it often starts with 1 party who likes another party...then slowly, the opposite party will love another also ...^^

it needs a lot of courage for a girl to confess to a guy... as you agree that gals can approach to the guy she likes.. but according to your answer.. you rejected them all...

nope.... v just knew each other for few months only where got so fast.... but looks like he is not interested in me he just want to be my friend only i think cos he did not do anything obvious that he want me to be his gf also... he just being friendly only i guess.....

but if he were to ask me to be his gf, i will think twice cos he sound not honest...
1. he knew a lot of gals - pretty and sexy
2. he likes to talk, and i notice he like to talk sweet words (dont u think this is very dangeruous???)

duno lei dun1 think so much dun1 be so perasan lo later heart broke not good...

At least the gals can feel how the guys feel when get turned away ,rejected mar. Then only understand the processes that guys have to take in.

wah... how come u let this thing happend to girls.. i mean u want them to try the feeling guys have when turned down. u know the girls will feel sad n ashame if rejected.. that;s y not much girls dare to confess to the guy.... n because of this.. they loose out lots of "opportunity"...

try saying sumthing like `i like u..u shud be my bf'
then when his face turn curious smile n say 'i`m jus kidding' n left him to think

no, now is my fren gf. I think she is just playing with me because how come she can so quickly become my friend gf. yawn. dowan remember my past.

This post has been edited by 6650: Aug 17 2006, 02:53 PM

maybe u din tell her that u like her too. she tot u dun like her, so go to ur friend lo...

hm... i did dis once.... when i was back in uni.... i approached dis guy by calling him... i asked his number from my fren, n i called him later dat nite....

at 1st we started out as frens, later we became lovers....hahahaha....

now, the r/ship is over with him.....

sum guys are too shy to make the 1st moves, so its up to us, gals, to make it....

This post has been edited by aida^146: Aug 18 2006, 01:50 AM

if 4 years ago i will apreaciate it n consider even i got a bit like her

now i will say:" thanks, i like u too, but we can remain as fren or even good fren, coz i love her, my gf "

is hard to make me approaching to a guy tat i like to cos i m afraid rejected by him!!
is hurt~~

Guys.. if you ask a girl to be your gf.. are u serious with it? will u just joke with her by saying this?

if he single, of coz not..

wat do u mean by "of coz not"? not serious? or not joking? yes, he's single.

ya...girls r more hurt than boys, i wonder why... so girls better dont approach guys but tip off them, wat i mean is give them tips

nowadays guys r serious with it coz guys n girls have equal rights today...guess wat i mean

well about being frens with ex,....i managed to be friends (we try not to be that close anymore incase an "accident" occurs but we are still aight) but yeah, it does change a lot once u two have broken up

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
Yes,be friends msn?frenster?sms?go for drinks? yeah~

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls NO i wont heheh.. if i hints him by some contacts..calls.. he still no further action or replies on call..then give up

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...
NO la.. confidence mah..

hey.. u like the person oh.. so easy u give up.. what if he did not get your hint leh... u just give up.. then no chance lor

I try not to because it will ruin everything

so u are willing to just be freind with him? what will u feel if you c him suddenly got a gf?

Yeah right... No courage ??? ahahaha
I'm sure a lot of guys will agree that girls can be very brave...when it comes to "I want this and I want that, DO this and DO tat" SOmetimes before solve one thing ady ask another 2 more and must finish on time before u get the nag session
I think the shy part is only in the beginning...after tat...the TERMS AND CONDITIONS & REQUIREMENTS page will scroll down...seems automatic after tat. Not being brave is easy coz u got one slave to do the stuff for u...

Erm...why so desperate wor ???
If u 2 are not meant to be, watever u can try, u'll never b...so dun keep ur hopes and dreams up to high...coz the way down can be very painful...keep a free gear, if it works then let it run, but if sprockets dun match the chains, dun make it fit...coz ur bicycle will look damn funny

my 2 sen...check the swimming pool first before u jump in...otherwise in mid air u found out tat the got water...but only 1 ft deep in a 9ft pool... I give 10/10 points for the landing...

I think need to find a right time, right place and right timing. If a girl saying that to me at wrong timing, wrong place sure will shock me first la, because never think of develop untill lover level (normal friend mah). Then will think about it seriously, if got feeling, can chat then will be slowly develop the relationship.

Experiance b4 la, she really shock me when listen the word come out from her mouth, and after that i keep escape la, hard to face her also, suddenly like....eee......dont know what to talk to her. but at that time i m very happy la^^ got girl like me le....she also good looking. no feel is no feel la, that depend on person..just my feel^^'

and what makes you think that it doesn't need alot of courage for a guy to confess? it works the same vice versa but malaysians just like to think, no its boy's job to go for a gal instead.....i mean we shud be responsible for our own happiness ma...not wait for it to come...how often do you see a guy and a girl in love with each other??? and how often you see them end up together...and how often you see it juz happen like that?? it always start with someone going for someone ma....but i really respect those girls who asked the guy if he would marry her... (watch princess diaries 2 where the queen proposed for the security head) and i was just like, wow that is so brave and respectfull.....you see, if she hadn't asked the guy for marriage, how would he know that she is ready to marry now?? same goes for couple la....if you like that guy, just tell him...or at least see how is that guy attitude 1st...

me rejecting them not because they confessed to me and i reject them....its simply because i was with my gf and would not want to cheat on her.....or i'm still in love with my ex-gf and dont want to be unfair to that girl who confessed to me....

I agree,if it happens at a wrong time,i'll reject.Same thing if i dont really know that person.It's really scary that a person comes to you and say "i love you".

This kind of incident happen to me once.There was one girl in my class called her friend to confess to me,not she herself.I dont really know that whole group of girls at all.So,i got freak out and start to avoid that group of girls.It was really scary.Till know i still dont know who is that person who tried to confess but i would say she's damn brave to do that.Honestly,i dont have the guts to do that.

no i enjoy being chase by gal when i was young. Some just propose to me and some give direct hints, but most got rejected. feel really sorry for them. now abit old di, seems like all gal of my age r already got bf or got married di. Now no more fun n have to start chasing gal liau. Really regret now

Ganbate man

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas...

Dont direct tell him u like him, use some tactic like ask the guy hp no., go shopping or go pub (no disco-noisy). Call him frequentyly by a week, but next week dont call him. Let see what his re-action. I think u will more clear after this.

This is my present gf (obbbbbbbb wife already lah) used it, she use this tactic to me, after 2 or 3 weeks i can hold the icih mind then call her & tell her i hv a fell with her.

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...
No, never ever think that. U will find your value in future.

So, i can say dont stright away, hv to play some tactic 1st. Atleast u can fell whether his got fell with u or not.

lol... when i was form4, been approach by a form5 girl, she looks gd but i rejected coz i was chasing after a girl but didnt get her eventually & i feel regret for didnt accept the f5 girl... haha

ok....juz 2 say it 1st....dat im a super noob in dis relationship thingy...

erm...well theres alot of guys whu likes 2 play around....there r ppl whu r serious n wont toy wif other ppl's feelings(i belong 2 d latter:P) juz depends la...if it juz happen dat u fell for such guy....its hard la....so juz dun jump ship so fast.....take time 2 noe d person 1st la....if u get a playa...then u own self susah onli....

n i wanna shoot u TS wif a question back.....4 u gurls....does it make a difference if d guy is outgoin or introvert......does it matter when it comes to approaching him??? does their personality sorta makes it harder 2 approach?? or its all juz d approachee's guts???

does it make a difference 2 the gurl if d guy whus d approachee or its d gurl whu started it all 1st??

erm...i dun agree wif d idea of telling dat u like dat guy....it cant work i guess....makes things very very difficult....i did dat once....no turning back manz.....T.T...n drop hints is kinda nice n easy....but still sumtimes i think gurls r a lil 2 artistic n wat they consider obvious hints may not b noticed by d guy....(sum ppl got 6th sense / perasan sense.....but it sorta helps....better than being blurr)....

anyway its comforting 2 hear dat at least malaysian gurls (2 a certain extend will take d 1st move....) i tot those neva existed.....

and 1 more thing dear threadreaders.....i see afew ppl suggesting msn/ym/frenster/hp.....if these factors are taken out....n onli d human elements remain.....wat measures will u ppl take?? coz nowadays we sorta take d easy way around 4 granted....juz wanna ask ur fellow opinions.....

TQ

i do approach guys that i'm interested in, try to know them better.

but after some time, if the guy still doesn't make any move then i'd just let it be. cos a girl can only do THAT much

how to be brave....if tell a girl that you like her, what if she says no
i like this gilr for 2 years and i know maybe she likes me but until now i neva tell her that...
wish could tell her in an easier way..

1. I won't but maybe I will, it depends on situations.
2. Definitely no. If I don't know him, I won't care, just admire him, as simple as that; If I know him, I will tell him if I'm sure he has some feeling towards me too. Haha but, honestly, I'm not interested and will not fall for any guys. ( Eh, not because I'm a lesby! )
3. No, be confident!

haha even if i like someone i wont tell em, not a chance in hell... i'd rather just observe him. suitable? I feel superior to them...

if a guy always sms/call u, n he's hinting u, how will u react??



Wat's yr comment??

tht is just mean.. hehe i u wanted her becoz u didnt get the 1st girl.. cepcepcep.. honest but mean.. but girl do that too sometimes..

sometimes? ahaks

Here come my opinion. I believe a girl also a human girls also got feeling on boys unless u are lesbian. If u love someone just tell him ur feeling lor...y should u keep it in your heart, tell hin staright and bravely. Is is only boys only can confess? girls also got the right to do that.

If a girl told me like me... I will reply her that I will consider and see be a friend first if we don't know each another. If a known friend ned to give me time to think bout it. If I found out if really we cannot get togather we stil can be good friend lor. If a girl always scold me or say me sth not good and keep complaining me or at behind me saying sth not good bout me infront pretend to good wth me, I will say NO to u coz u hurt me so much already and the time for me to hurt u back.

Do any guys or girls get same sex friend confess ?? I was wondering how ur reply.

I think there is nothing approching the guy you like. Now, guys and gals have equal right. I woulnt mind if a gal confess to me (with the condition i am interested to start a relationship with her), i will accept it. Dont think it will happen tho as i am nothing special (short, not handsome etc). Shyness? Yes, one big factor here. Like me currently, i am so shy till that i dont een dare to ask phone no from the gal i like.

It depends. If you have feelings for her, then the relationship can carry on. If not, friendship can still be maintain but you must tell her that we're just friends. Not more than that. Or not, she'll get this false hope that you might like her.

erm.. for me.. i will try to be his fren first. coz almost every relationship starts with frenz. try to hint him if u get the chance, mayb use some jokes.. if the guy thinks of u whenever he is depressed or sad, then u are 50% succeed

hmm mm, like this, huh? Without wasting any time, just hug her. And telling her that, no problem!

not a polite way... and i discourage tat... unless she likes u and open minded...

spend more time wif her... take note of her favourites and dislikes... share each and every good and bad times wif her... more good times of course... then things will happen naturally...

last time got one gurl approach me but i tolak already.. so stupid me...

Ego or stupidity?

i would say serious stupidity...

tips for you gals on if a guy likes you... :

1) he calls you often... almost every nite?
2) he always look at you... if group go out together...
3) he takes extra care of you...
4) he willling to see you if you ask him to...

then you see if you think he shy to approach you, you can approach him lor... then if he like you... then no problem d... if not.. pm me... haha

in my opinion ah.....if girl take a move....it more higher percentage to be couple

Unfortunately the chances of girls making the 1st move are almost 0%

i did approach him 1st...(now he's already my ex)...i'm the one to call him out first n i'm the one to get to know him 1st... guess i'm kinda lucky..

This post has been edited by aida^146: Oct 11 2006, 12:07 AM

i made the 1st move all the time to the guys i like... coz i'm not pretty n therefore, no one chase me...

trials n errors, now i have a 5yrs relationship...
if i haven't make the move, i wouldn't b with him now...

i guess it's affinity n how much we love each other n wants each other...

if u really like someone, dun wait or else u'll regret - that's my opinion

well,when i see a guy which i like.. i will feel shy la.. my heart start to bee very fast.. face also turn pink colour..

no matter who makes the 1st move there's always a chance to fail and a chance to succeed... u juz gotta take the risk if u really want it... tat's the 1st rule in business... correct me if i'm wrong... not a business student nor businessman...

wah... will u be like tat if u see something else u like leh...? juz treat those guys like the things u like lar... like ur favourite pillow... or something else u have in mind...

i've never approached a guy i like.. but i have approached gurl i like many times already...

aiyoh? u want guys to be treated like things?

i hope u dont treat girls like things oso!!!

A girl once approached me....

I dont know her well...i know she is my schoolmate...her class is next to mine.

She asked a fren to arrange for us to meet.

I met her.

She told me she really likes me.
Wants me to be her bf.
She said she isnt forcing me, im free to make my choice.

I said sorry. I dont think thats possible.
Looking back at it....
I wish i wasnt so cruel and said NO right there.
I shud have taken time to consider...i mean longer time, eventhough i already decided not to be with her, i shud give her time.
After that meeting, i always runaway if she is around or we were walking on the same corridor, i would turn away...I avoid her..Why?
Coz I feel so embarassed.

And for girls...
Dont just tell that guy suddenly if u like him...eventhough ur so damn hot.
Get to know him as frens 1st. He might be not that great when u get to know him.
Anyways, it is better to be more intimate after u get to know someone better.
My case? Im ok if she wanted to be frens...but coz she suddenly said she likes me and wanna be my gf...i was shocked. And like i said...i tried to be frens with her...but cant coz i was so embarassed after that.

Lastly....
To that girl that pour her heart out to me, and all the gurls out there who tell the man they like their feelings, I salute u all.
Seriously, i know it wasnt easy for u guys to do it.
It takes more than just courage.Esp when u are a girl.

I respect u all.
And oso to that particular girl, im sorry if i hurt u by saying NO that time...and avoided seeing u after that. I didnt mean it.

This post has been edited by quiksilver: Oct 12 2006, 03:31 PM

i've been there... relax n take a deep breath...
when u two meet, look into his eyes n smile... say "hi"...
then u'll feel great after that...
who knows, it'll leave an impression...

u're right... chasing someone is like doing business...
just that it doesn't involved transaction...
no pain no gain...
besides u dun wanna regret the rest of ur life thinking y, y, y...

during schooldays, that's how i do it but not that directly...
thru letters n gossips...
i know guys will shy away but i felt i'll regret it if i din try...
like i said, take a deep breath, smile n "hi"
then i feel great...

err, how bout u smile to him then wave back to him if he waved to u when he see u from far......mayb 10-15m

When I was in school, one girl asked me to tutor her. After I'd been tutoring her for a while she said she liked me, but the feeling wasn't mutual, so I said so. I was pretty blunt back then. Probably because of being young.

It seems that I was blunt only when caught by surprise, during schooldays. When I was in uni, one girl was persistent and to this day I regret that I gave in and became her bf. It didn't work out, because it wasn't balanced as far as the love went. I only liked her a lot, anyway.

Yes, it took me a while, but by the time I was working, I'd learnt to say "I'm flattered, but I'm not ready for a relationship right now." And "No, I don't know when I'll be ready." After all, no one truly can, can they?

I hope this helps.

Don't be too concerned about the responses by guys from KL. The guys from KL are usually too young to have learnt to be gentle on a girl's heart.

err... sometimes from far away, sometimes in the school corridor...

i just have to "act" natural... hehehe...

i respect those girls who have the courage to confess to a guy first. although i don't see any cons on that, i still wouldn't confess to a guy first if i like him.. haha ego you might say..maybe and maybe not.

anyway i'm happy now

How bout those vry sociable girls??
How do they react to guyz they like??

Kinda hard to notice it, right??

i'm really reallyyy scared to approach the guy i like...i got cold sweat once i get near him...haha

1. i dont dare!!!
2. if we're really really close to each other and found out that he likes me too,hmm i'll confess..but of cos,hope for him to take the 1st move
3.ALWAYS

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
I've nvr done that before bt if jz to b friends i think i'm fine wt it...

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas...
Haha, i've nvr try this either, sorry cant giv u any tips on tis...n i will nvr try it out...^^

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...
Nope i would never think of myself tat way...i'm sure i hav certain qualities that will someday makes me special to someone...i mean if u r nt confident about urself, hw do u expect guys ard u to b attracted to u...like some of my guy fwens say, they r more attracted to girls who r confidence n sure about themselves...of course each of us hav our own weaknesses bt let us all try to make it up by presentin ourselves as a more positive person who is owiz on the go n tryin to improve to b better...n finally if u r so insecure n feel so small n so darn uncomfortable ard tat guy well then i dun think it's a good choice either...i'd prefer to b ard someone who i'm comfortable wt...^^

haiya... love can start from friendship...
haiya... no need tips 1 lar... u will naturally treat him nicer n nicer then depend on ur luck whether he realise it...
my gf was like tat... hope she doesn't think tat way anymore... cuz i don think i'm any greater than any1...

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