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my story begins with a netizen
she response to my thread and we begin to chat via whatsapp
then we come out for movie
she looks very average, but is an MO (Medical Officer, or Doctor in layman's term)
i was newbie in relationship, never hold a girl's hand before
that was first time we met and i made 1st mistake by propose to her
she accepted then she went into my room and begin have sex with me, that was my 2nd mistake
after sweet period, i found out that she have bad temper, PSY disease under medication, and all she want is sex (at least thats what i feel)
she never really care of me, and eventually she also admit she get involved with me might just because i am nice guy
and she not sure if she really loves me
i must admit having an MO gf makes me proud, but i then realize, that shouldn't be the reason she's the right girl
i deeply regret but i couldn't say the words to break up
so i choose to be coward , starts to be cold to her, lesser and lesser phone calls to her
finally she cant take it and asks to break up
she first unfriended me on FB
a week passed
these few days she starts to call me on the phone, and chit chat to me like we were used to be
-oh, i'm so tired , i just arrived home
-hey what are you doing?
-you at home?
-makan already?
...
seriously, i'm heartache feeling unexplained sadness.... even though i realize i must stop our relationship
not a day passed without thinking about my promise to love her forever, my promise to marry her
i took those promise very seriously, i feel bad that i couldn't deliver what i said
so i just speak to her using stranger's tone, more like she Q & i A
i would only "ermm..." , "oh", "ye" "no" on the phone
i would end the conversation in one or two minutes by saying i am tired, i wanna take a bath, i wanna go out
but why she is doing this, keeps calling me?
i prefer not to ask her for now.... so whats your thought on her action?
i hope there is any girl here, to tell me from their point of view
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QUOTE(kopiride @ May 28 2014, 06:13 PM)
Maybe like u said. She wants sex?
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i am not sure, but we broke up...
whats puzzle me is, have you guys ever seen girls behave like this? keep on calling you, and act like you and her are still in relationship?
what they want?
QUOTE(elimi8z @ May 28 2014, 06:46 PM)
Because you ditched her before she ditch you
Keep doing what ya doing,you're doing it right,in the meantime,go look for others
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i will look for others, after i get over all the sadness in my heart
but right now, i feels down, felt i lost everything
i've been putting in all i've got the past 356 days with her
Maybe like u said. She wants sex?
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i am not sure, but we broke up...
whats puzzle me is, have you guys ever seen girls behave like this? keep on calling you, and act like you and her are still in relationship?
what they want?
QUOTE(elimi8z @ May 28 2014, 06:46 PM)
Because you ditched her before she ditch you
Keep doing what ya doing,you're doing it right,in the meantime,go look for others
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i will look for others, after i get over all the sadness in my heart
but right now, i feels down, felt i lost everything
i've been putting in all i've got the past 356 days with her
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forgot to mention
the day i visit her, and i expected break up, that night she had sex with me again
-she kiss me at my neck, and seduce me in shower, hug me and kiss me, flirt me while watching movie on computer
-i am a normal man, i had reaction, i couldn't resist
then i still did not tell her to break up
the next day, we went for movie, like usual, thinking about that , now i really wanna cry, what the f*** is happening
i cant keep thinking that shopping mall was the first place we met
and the very last night before i return to my town, she wants to have sex again
but i turn her down in other way, i pretend to sleep to ignore her
then the next day before i leave, i pass me all my belongings like clothes and toothbrush
i return her house key
thats how we broke up, without saying anything like "this is the end for us" "i want to break up"
no we did not say those
i gave her a hug, and i drive back to town with my broken heart
sorry for my poor english, hope you all understand...
the day i visit her, and i expected break up, that night she had sex with me again
-she kiss me at my neck, and seduce me in shower, hug me and kiss me, flirt me while watching movie on computer
-i am a normal man, i had reaction, i couldn't resist
then i still did not tell her to break up
the next day, we went for movie, like usual, thinking about that , now i really wanna cry, what the f*** is happening
i cant keep thinking that shopping mall was the first place we met
and the very last night before i return to my town, she wants to have sex again
but i turn her down in other way, i pretend to sleep to ignore her
then the next day before i leave, i pass me all my belongings like clothes and toothbrush
i return her house key
thats how we broke up, without saying anything like "this is the end for us" "i want to break up"
no we did not say those
i gave her a hug, and i drive back to town with my broken heart
sorry for my poor english, hope you all understand...
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QUOTE(newbrav3me @ May 28 2014, 08:38 PM)
things went too fast?
marry her?
she is testing u?
she is a b****? she has a powerful sex drive?
is she a virgin?
how old is she?
how old are u?
does she has hiv ? isnt it okay to be abit crazy for girls?
u are a bastrd? u lie her? u cheat her?
u are a play boy?
and etc..
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--> yes, sex on first date
--> at first, yes, i want to be responsible and marry her. three months ago i began felt uncomfortable with our relationship. my mind starts talking. but one fateful sex, she told me she's safe (hey she's Doc) thus i RAW as she requested. didn't knew her period irregular that month, and boom pregnant, so i felt i don't have any choice. then we plan for marriage. but then she miscarried. was that God helping me? i got another chance to rethink again to continue our relationship or not.
--> sometimes i stay for few days, she want sex everyday i visit her, and sometimes at least twice a day.
-->i am virgin until the night i met her. she has five or six Ex
-->28
-->32
--> she is clean. i felt its okay for girls to be crazy for her husband, sex before marriage is not fair for the next man/husband, if she ever breaks up.
--> i never lie to her, i never cheated to her. i practice dating one girl only at one time.
--> no i am not a play boy. but i can't be sure if i would become a playboy after this.
things went too fast?
marry her?
she is testing u?
she is a b****? she has a powerful sex drive?
is she a virgin?
how old is she?
how old are u?
does she has hiv ? isnt it okay to be abit crazy for girls?
u are a bastrd? u lie her? u cheat her?
u are a play boy?
and etc..
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--> yes, sex on first date
--> at first, yes, i want to be responsible and marry her. three months ago i began felt uncomfortable with our relationship. my mind starts talking. but one fateful sex, she told me she's safe (hey she's Doc) thus i RAW as she requested. didn't knew her period irregular that month, and boom pregnant, so i felt i don't have any choice. then we plan for marriage. but then she miscarried. was that God helping me? i got another chance to rethink again to continue our relationship or not.
--> sometimes i stay for few days, she want sex everyday i visit her, and sometimes at least twice a day.
-->i am virgin until the night i met her. she has five or six Ex
-->28
-->32
--> she is clean. i felt its okay for girls to be crazy for her husband, sex before marriage is not fair for the next man/husband, if she ever breaks up.
--> i never lie to her, i never cheated to her. i practice dating one girl only at one time.
--> no i am not a play boy. but i can't be sure if i would become a playboy after this.
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QUOTE(newbrav3me @ May 28 2014, 09:28 PM)
i am 22 yr old sweat.gif i am a kid, too complicated, adult world, can't help, good luck.
btw what had happened? miscarried due to accident? just curious.
i am very naive, so i will say u did lie to her, u promised to marry her.
btw, she is a doc ...=.='' and 28 yr old , well according to what u said..
u are 32 yr old.. ok wat? sad.gif
unless u want go for a big fish... i always knew what i want, so no problems for me.
my Favorited quote, love is not without any intentions.
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the moment we knew she was pregnant
both us doubted, wanted to abort it
but finally we choose to face it and be responsible for that little new life, despite all the pressure we are facing
she had a fight with her parents
her parents think she should abort it cos she is taking medication for depression, which might have bad effect on infant
at 5th weeks, ultrasound not detecting baby's heartbeat
that time we were so worry so sad
6th week, heart beat detected , we were so happy
we bought baby caring books to read, bought mother nutrition, milk poweder etc....
then 7th week, suddenly she woke up bleeding and the baby no more heart beat
till today i dont know what happened to the baby
i suspect two things:
-her parents might had tricked her with some chinese medicine which causing the miscarry... since both of them disagree for the infant to stay.
but i dare not to raise this to her, i dont want her thinking into that way towards her parents
-her depression medication kicks away the baby
i am 22 yr old sweat.gif i am a kid, too complicated, adult world, can't help, good luck.
btw what had happened? miscarried due to accident? just curious.
i am very naive, so i will say u did lie to her, u promised to marry her.
btw, she is a doc ...=.='' and 28 yr old , well according to what u said..
u are 32 yr old.. ok wat? sad.gif
unless u want go for a big fish... i always knew what i want, so no problems for me.
my Favorited quote, love is not without any intentions.
*
the moment we knew she was pregnant
both us doubted, wanted to abort it
but finally we choose to face it and be responsible for that little new life, despite all the pressure we are facing
she had a fight with her parents
her parents think she should abort it cos she is taking medication for depression, which might have bad effect on infant
at 5th weeks, ultrasound not detecting baby's heartbeat
that time we were so worry so sad
6th week, heart beat detected , we were so happy
we bought baby caring books to read, bought mother nutrition, milk poweder etc....
then 7th week, suddenly she woke up bleeding and the baby no more heart beat
till today i dont know what happened to the baby
i suspect two things:
-her parents might had tricked her with some chinese medicine which causing the miscarry... since both of them disagree for the infant to stay.
but i dare not to raise this to her, i dont want her thinking into that way towards her parents
-her depression medication kicks away the baby
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i loved her, love her till i am a fool, till i can't make correct justification & decisions
i quit my high pay job, then couldn't find one at her area, now became unemployed
now i taste what's FUBAR
i quit my high pay job, then couldn't find one at her area, now became unemployed
now i taste what's FUBAR
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QUOTE(Frostlord @ May 29 2014, 03:20 AM)
what does look got anything to do with her being a medical officer? if you're into kinky stuff like doing a doctor/nurse just go buy the costume/uniform
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like newbrav3me said, love is not without any intentions
to be honest, who wouldn't be proud to have a doc as GF?
but nothing to do with uniform on the bed
what does look got anything to do with her being a medical officer? if you're into kinky stuff like doing a doctor/nurse just go buy the costume/uniform
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like newbrav3me said, love is not without any intentions
to be honest, who wouldn't be proud to have a doc as GF?
but nothing to do with uniform on the bed