QUOTE(CasperTheFriendly @ Aug 10 2019, 09:18 PM)
Hi all Sifus, I have been wanting to buy an engagement ring and have read through more info on diamonds that I can handle but still fell very uncertain.
Decide to try asking here and hope to get some advice on my situation.
Being a complete novice few months back, I just walked into a Tiffany & Co and thought I can get the whole thing done there and then until I saw the price and decided to properly reconsider my options lol.
I don't really have a budget so I told the Tiffany lady around RM30k thinking it should be more than enough to get a decent ring since my friends and relatives all got theirs for around RM10k-RM20k.
The salesperson then showed me a few 0.5-0.6ct diamond rings ranging from RM25k-RM35k, and they look exactly like what I imagine a diamond ring should look like and what I think my girlfriend will go for.
But before committing RM30k (total noob didn't realise RM30k only gets you half a carat at Tiffany's), my rational mind kicked in and I decided it might be smart to survey my options first at other jewellery stores.
For some reason (maybe shop lighting or other retail trickery), Tiffany's diamond and the ring always look much bigger and elegant when compare to same carat sizes at other jewellery stores (Poh Kong, De Gem) with similar 6 prongs setting. Sometimes, it even feels like the Tiffany's 0.6ct diamond ring looks about the same size as some 1ct rings sold by other jeweller. Prices at other jewellery shops are about 2 to 3 times cheaper though.
So here is my question: are Tiffany diamond rings worth the price, if not taking brand name into account.
If no (which I keep reading online), can any Sifu guide me on where to get a diamond ring at better value. Because I am seriously leaning towards Tiffany's at the moment despite what my rational side is telling me.
I came across JannPaul when reading this thread where they emphasize mainly on cutting and the various types of scopes to examine. But them being based in Singapore, don't think I will be able to visit them anytime soon. And I don't think I will know how to see even if jewellers were to show me those scopes images (yes, I've watched a bunch of JannPaul's videos on YouTube but only thing I know now is I still don't know enough to properly evaluate a diamond).
What I know I want is:
- The ring band to be made of platinum since my girlfriend prefers platinum over white gold.
- Sizes should be 0.4ct to 1ct (base what I saw at Tiffany's) or slightly bigger as long as it's still subtle and elegant.
- The other Cs grading are less important to me as all look quite similar unless put side to side. So as long as it's not in the bottom half of the grading scale I'll just consider it as good.
- To see the actual physical ring before purchasing.
Sorry for long text. Any advise will be much appreciated. Thank you!

The salesperson then showed me a few 0.5-0.6ct diamond rings ranging from RM25k-RM35k, and they look exactly like what I imagine a diamond ring should look like and what I think my girlfriend will go for. -> What is the colour and clarity that was shown to you?
For some reason (maybe shop lighting or other retail trickery), Tiffany's diamond and the ring always look much bigger and elegant when compare to same carat sizes at other jewellery stores (Poh Kong, De Gem) with similar 6 prongs setting. Sometimes, it even feels like the Tiffany's 0.6ct diamond ring looks about the same size as some 1ct rings sold by other jeweller. Prices at other jewellery shops are about 2 to 3 times cheaper though. -> a 0.6ct look like a 1ct can be because the 1ct's cut is not as good and the cutter manage to hide alot of weight in the diamond, making it to reach the 1ct mark, when in reality it only looks like 0.6ct. Another reason could be the difference are in terms of milimeters, and you probably need to have both diamonds to comapare side-by-side to really see the size difference.
So here is my question: are Tiffany diamond rings worth the price, if not taking brand name into account. -> Without branding = No, not worth it. With the brand = Probably yes. Branding does bring the feel good factor IMO. It is an iconic brand afterall.
If no (which I keep reading online), can any Sifu guide me on where to get a diamond ring at better value. Because I am seriously leaning towards Tiffany's at the moment despite what my rational side is telling me. => You can either get online from those sites like WhiteFlash, Brian Gavin Diamonds, High Performance Diamonds, Jann Paul, or you can try local chain stores like Wah Chan, Habib, or local smaller jewellers like ZCOVA, Tailored Jewel, iDo Jewellery, The Gem Tribe, Eumayco, etc. All of them will be cheaper than Tiffany.
Take a look at this:
0.825ct D VS1 (affiliate link), costing RM 24146.20. You still have some budget to set it in a platinum ring locally, which is more than enough.
BUT... You have to ask yourself what makes you want a Tiffany? And you seem to feel that your other half will love a Tiffany too. If yes, then why not.
I came across JannPaul when reading this thread where they emphasize mainly on cutting and the various types of scopes to examine. But them being based in Singapore, don't think I will be able to visit them anytime soon. And I don't think I will know how to see even if jewellers were to show me those scopes images (yes, I've watched a bunch of JannPaul's videos on YouTube but only thing I know now is I still don't know enough to properly evaluate a diamond). -> If you have the time to drop by Singapore, then drop by and they can provide you with some good education. I think it is 2 hours.
What I know I want is:
- The ring band to be made of platinum since my girlfriend prefers platinum over white gold.
- Sizes should be 0.4ct to 1ct (base what I saw at Tiffany's) or slightly bigger as long as it's still subtle and elegant.
- The other Cs grading are less important to me as all look quite similar unless put side to side. So as long as it's not in the bottom half of the grading scale I'll just consider it as good.
- To see the actual physical ring before purchasing. -> This is the most important aspect I guess. So I would suggest you to compare the top tier diamonds in all the brick-and-mortar stores. Most store will have their own signature line. If you are at Degem, try to look at their Lazare diamonds, ForeverMark diamonds, etc. Diamond & Platinum is a subsidiary of Degem, so you can find Forvermark there as well, but not Lazare though. The Lazare I saw before does perform well, but it is still more expensive than what I can find personally. But since you are not into online purchasing, it is certainly one of the better options I can think of.
Good luck and all the best.