Fully agree. Pre wed I shot RM4k only. Gila pay >10k and complain poor. No family member who attended your wedding ceremony will ask you to show the photos 1 month and onwards after wedding. Lupa sudah.

Only things I can agree is wedding dowry chinese style where it is used to buy pawnable 999 gold. Lots of beautiful and wearable wedding bangle out for sale. Also, 3Ex diamond ring also is good. Give more abit nvm, no rugi. Can use to pay the boatman when Maresia sinks 1 day with DUMNO running it.

Food and banquet please invite what you can afford and never scold people cheapskate. YOU invite them not THEY want to come. What amount they give is from their heart. If you cannot breakeven, who call you nose big? No money don't show off grand table.

Source: own wedding