Considered beta or alpha ?

I think it's ridiculous one has to resort to cooking to win a woman's heart. It should be the other way round.


If already married then different story, take turns cook but then again, cooking is still primarily a woman's obligation.


Men really shouldn't be doing such things and to do it to win a woman's heart is just plain pathetic, worse than being a beta.

This is ridiculous

Neckbeard opinion on love, ladies and gentleman.

Real men grilled steak for his women, not just a woman...


This post has been edited by KarchKiraly: May 12 2014, 11:20 PM

Did your mother forced you to cook your own food since you were a child?

I remember last time when I was screwing a uni chick, a super-beta loser was trying to win her heart (even before she met me) by cooking for her.


F*cking pathetic, trying to do that even when a the girl isn't interested.

I cannot accept that from a guy's point of view. No man should be cooking for a woman before he marries her. NEVER.


Some things you never do for a woman until you're pretty sure she's your wife.

real man hunt down animals which he then bring back to feed the female.

i baked a cheese cake for my sister birthday last week. im alpha or beta

kalau dia masak saja dah menang, all the self proclaim alpha should just go bang wall

Just put some sleeping pills into the cooking, instant alpha male!

U faggot becoz u kenot even do basic surviving skill..look at all master chef and iron chef in this world..female or male? Batalli..gordon ramsey..jamie oliver..bobby flay..they r master of all..and they make money shit load more u could in ur life..and they cook for the freaking mr.obama okay?..u? Pathetic 2"..im sure u dun even know how to cook rice without rice cooker..and u will shit in ur pants just making omelette..ptuiii

Super-beta loser detected!

Tell that to Hanibal.

you want to skewer her siham you first need to know how to knead her pau ...
if not, she will not even goreng your banana

i cook to her ... and we're best friend now... yeah ... friend ...

cooking only for the sake to impress someone is pathetic

The point is, if you had to cook for her to win her heart, and not the other way round, you lost your bargaining chip in the relationship.
You went way far too much to please a woman, who should be the one to cook for you instead.
This is not a healthy relationship. This should not happen before marriage.

During the courting phase, a man who does this has allowed the woman to be in control instead.


It will only work temporarily until she finds another 'manly' guy whom she would be willing to cook FOR instead.

Ketepatan bro's comment menusuk dalam mindaku!!

Yala, cooking for women is only when she conlanfirm your wife...

Cooking for women to eat tooks loads of sanity, effort and also heart to do it.

I also cook for my waifu, cause me househusband.

Tapi sebelum kahwin daily sushi king yo, mahal gila...

Now sendiri sushi + raw fish + tamago + roes.

Typical mind set of pathetic chauvinistic male who have no idea that women are into hot guys who can cook well...

http://hubpages.com/forum/topic/24011

I think its sweet..

Which was what happened to the girl I was banging during her uni.

cucumber as well

Keywords. Women are into Hot guys. Everything else doesn't really matter.

fark off.

i cook for myself.

yeah .. rite...

Agreed, but having an expensive ride, a posh crib and preparing romantic dinner for two will set you apart from the rest of them...

Your mistake was you were too eager to impress/please using super beta techniques like cooking for a woman.


It will never work. Even a beta male don't do that. It's worst than being beta. No matter how much you like a woman, she's not your wife and you DON'T cook for her.

She should be the one cooking for YOU if she even likes/love you.


Major doormats cook for women to impress them.

you cook she cook makan je la.. itu kan rezeki..

i like right hand on penis people giving relationship advice.

they're omege, Omega-3 they are

i agree with TS

even though i can cook, i consider it my job to eat

although if the lady cannot cook is a really bad thing

dis is gordon ramsey's wife



still think he's beta loser riddlemethat?

Only cook what.easy

i'm just curious of you answer... i did cook for gals... but i'm just defriend her ltr.. when she friendzone me... i'm just curious what will happen ... lol! i'm not desperate .. lol!

Sabarlah Adik.

You've being cooking for someone?

AMBOI SEJUK BANG

Lmfao.
You realize that learning how to cook is definitely more beneficial to yourself than to win over a girl's heart right? Like what everyone else says over here, it's a basic survival skill. What happens when your future wife is gone and you've got kids to take care of? Someone's gotta learn how to do the laundries and cook, no?

Probably that's why you get all the low quality uni chicks lol, or you get the ones that suck the money out of you. And from the sounds of it, you seem to be a very egotistical man. Ego is important to you and it seems like you can't lose any of that. Here's an honest opinion, learn how to cook. Even if you don't wanna cook for the girl now, you can cook for your future wife and let's be honest here, you can cook a good meal for yourself when no one is cooking for you; instead of spending money in a fancy restaurant that serves you expensive food made with cheap ingredients.

If cooking is pathetic, would buying flowers be pathetic too? If your answer is yes, chances are you won't be banging quality chicks either. Girls like guys who show their soft sides, it doesn't mean you need to be all soft, but it's just getting in touch with your feminine, vulnerable side. And I'm speaking of this from a psychological standpoint, it's proven. If a girl can't appreciate that, you're better off looking for one that does, seriously.

Real, genuine girls like sweet guys who do sweet stuff, including cooking so chances are that beta loser had more of her attention than you did yours. And not to boast or something, it's also the reason why girls get along with gay guys and secretly wish their gay friends were straight so they could marry them. And even then, gay guys are on so many levels, manlier than straight guys like you.

I cook for my mom and wife ..and i receive awesome love in return. Life is good.

Best comment in this thread.

cookin together2 wit wimen is guding
its kinda like teachin wimen to play golf from behind lolz

So after married can cook lohh....?

What if the guy hobby is to cook?? so he want to share his recipe with his girl??

lol whats with you guys imposing self handicap in the game of love. imo use whatever tools you have in your disposal to win it. after all, all is fair and love and war. if you limit yourself with self imposed rules you have nothing to gain. i dont mind getting called pathetic or loser or beta or whatever. all i know is at the end of the day i'm the one who scores the girl.

cooking to show love ma
what you think you so macho you cannot cook?

There is no official law in this world that states one cannot do so even if one wanted to.

riddlemethat is so alpha he made se7en pregnant with this thread

kitchen is no place for real man

fixed for truth

can put whatever u wan in the food.. including..

[double posted]

This post has been edited by styrwr91: May 13 2014, 06:41 AM

A real man overflowing with manliness is not afraid of being anywhere. Their pure testosterone will transform a mundane kitchen into a manifestation of awesomeness (eg. Hell's Kitchen/Kitchen Stadium). Only a man with inadequacies feels insecure and is afraid of being seen in places that doesn't provide cover to hide their lack of manliness.

if a guy can cook his way into a woman's pant, why not? its a gift.
so TS, are you hoping your woman will make you sammich every single day?

long story short

TS actually dont know how to cook

Another stupid statement from a dumb guy.

Cooking is actually a good way to separate good women from bad ones. You don't actually cook to impress her, but to vet her for the qualities she has in herself.

- It's done at your home, so chances of a lay is high. Remember to prepare some aphrodisiac dish that tingles.
- You can test her wifey skills. Girls that offers herself to help around while you cook, or even offer herself to cook a dish or two are still good and can be put in Tier 1.
-Tier 2 women that still can't cook, but is willing enough to learn. You give credits to girls that are still willing to learn.
- Tier 3 women is those that bring gifts. Still keepable to fucuk around. A girl that brings wine to your home wants to be fucuk hard and licked around with her wine.
-Tier 4 belongs to girls that don't bother to help you to do anything, brings nothing value to you while you cook and is fixated to the tv, can be dumped the next day after you fucuk her, remember to serve her a creampie or buck's cake.

Good luck in filtering the women you met.

I don't see what's wrong in cooking for another woman, even if she is just a friend.
If you're cooking just to impress or win her heart then maybe your motives were wrong to begin with, but I wouldn't go so far as to call them pathetic.
But if you're cooking just because you like to cook and you don't mind blessing your female friends once in awhile, I don't see a problem.
Again, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

Your mentality, of confining "cooking" solely for wimen is a turn off for me. Dude, we are not living in the 60's anymore.

True story, i vouch for that from my side.

most great chefs are men..... TS is not one...

i cook becoz i rike to cook. not becoz to win over her heart. problem?

So nxj cook for u then cohab is the beta male then u cook for nxj

Owaitttt

So, he bangga-la

I love cooking. cooking is waaay cheaper than eating out

I spend only RM160-180 per month on groceries, yet i can enjoy chicken/beef BBQ, and the occasional turkey, salmon, and other fish delights.
I could enjoy pasta everyday

And i dont need to pay RM10 for a piece of sheet meal.

Morning



Make more effort.

Dishes.
Chores.
Laundry.

During your off day or when you saw she's exhausted etc.



For me, cleaning the toilet and cleaning baby's poo...I surrender
Other than that, ok



This post has been edited by Raikkonen: May 13 2014, 09:31 AM

Learning to cook is more than just about attempting of spreading the ladies' legs

Who impose the rules of cooking are ladies' obligation?

Learn everything you could in your life, stop with the male-chauvinism mindset, we are not in the 20th century any-more

This post has been edited by Hooidcaster: May 13 2014, 10:01 AM

u r a good brother

wow Tier 4.

I do cook lah and sometimes she would help out a bit and clean all the dishes later.

I find that cooking for women who're not my wife to be highly turn off and desperate, pathetic. Not that I can't cook, but I won't do something that is just not for a guy to do until necessary.

Sorry, i am a proud male chauvinist pig and I will stand by my rule that men who cook to impress women and get into their pants are pathetic and have run out of ideas. *lel*.

ts trying hard not to appear pathetic.

Lucky it's not you whom other guys wants to impress. *lel*

lol, just remind me of a girl i knew recently.

Super spoiled princess that says her brother cooked and cleaned after his wife and the rest of the siblings, just imagine a guy has to do all the housework in a home full of women.

Sadly, I dumped her after 3 months as i find her really useless as a person.

if cooking can get into her pant, then why not?

Cook this for breakfast in bed can help your chances for morning rounds?

diam lah nxj

LOLOLOLOL

TS bodo. Pls stop making threads. Thankiu

Or shall I say real man eat raw but cook for his woman

TS successfully showed there really ARE a lot of beta male in society, at the very least, in /k/

LOL

stop reading at bold part.

Must be 2" dunno how to cook
Just simple dish can oredi mar no need be a chef
Or you can instruct ur amah to do the cooking for GF