After being married for a year, the frequency of being violent has gone to a stage that i have to worry about my safety.

Worst case is she is pregnant(4 months old) and bearing my child. She could not control her temper even her parent is around staying in our house...

Past case: breaking things, throwing things at me, using fingernail scratch my face, put blame and everything on me..., not allowed to even see my own parents and etc.

and then She keep saying she loves me?

I have given many chance and put it up with it and be patient with it, but it has reach to a dangerous stage.

I thought "yandere" girl only happen in anime/manga, in this case, it really happen in real life...

should i ask her to go back and live separately? or continue put up with it?

Mood swings due to hormone imbalance?

for the sake of the baby, find solution not avoiding it by living separately, she need all of your support now.

most prolly cause she jz gave birth? but well; do talk it out with her. no communication = more misunderstanding

it reach to a stage that she can physically hurt and kill me. I was ironing my clothes the other day and i was talking to her mum,

she came over and start roughing up with me physical while she is carrying our baby...

started throwing things at me and thrashing things up apart later after i avoided her grabbing in front of me.

This post has been edited by nickykee: May 2 2014, 02:40 PM

maybe because of the hormone during her pregnancy stage. mood swing etc.. u need to consult someone who expert bout this.

damn. son... you need help. fast.

what is yandere?

meaning mentally unstable/deranged/koo koo/gila/, usually used in anime/manga to describe a charactert

thank you brada

Are you a typical nice guy? It sounds like she wears the pants in the house if you even need permission from her to visit your own parents.

If there's anything one need to learn from Amanda Foong saga, is to get your camera's ready whenever she's in the mood swing. Amanda uses camera to her advantage, you should use it as well.

You need to collect evidence and keep a journal, else she'll might just throw out any excuses that you're abusing her even when most of the pain were self inflicted.

pregnancy making her lose her mind. this sound beyond just mood swings. better take her to the hosp and strap her down.

you need serious help and must be fast type...you do not want your baby born without father...

get an expert opinions bro.
it s dangerous to stay put in this kind of situation.

My suggestion is listen to what she wants for now and don't accelerate her emotions, try to calm her down as quick as possible. When women had pregnancy especially her first birth, mood swing occur sometimes.

Sometimes it goes away after birth, sometimes it doesn't. Is better for both of you to find counselling if things get out of hand. Good luck.

I think this is what malay people call "meroyan".. very dangerous.. send her to doctor a.s.a.p.. or tabib..

I don't even know what positive things to say to you but she was like that in the past and i wonder how the hell she got preggo if she always treated you like this ? Is this child even yours?
This is soooo weird, hormone has to do with some minor thing during pregnancy but as you mentioned she already like that in the past, there isn't
a way to solve this because this has been going on wayyy past during your early marriage? You guys have some unresolved issue way too long

hahaha...kecian

Why marry her in the 1st place

If you knew it earlier, you should have avoid her in the beginning

Personal safety is more crucial then lust