To all people,
First of all, i would like to give a brief introduction of myself. I am a Male, 32, and works related with medical field.
The reason i make a reply here is, we been read through many comments from forumers, which i guess ARE TEENAGER BOYS which are lack of MEDICAL KNOWLEDGE and thus, mislead many issues.
The main mistakes and misconcept here is WITHOUT PROTECTION ( hereby refer to condom ), during intercourse is the female will get pregnant. Now, let me emphasize that condom is not just design for preventing pregnancy, alsthough it is one of the most economical way of preventing pregnancy, but, it also play an important role in preventing SEX TRANSMITTED DISEASE, HEPATITIS, AND HIV ( HIV is a condition which lead to AIDS ).
Now, in the morld of medical, the practise of condom is not just to prevent pregnancy, but also to prevent get contacted with unwanted disease.
There are many other ways to prevent pregnancy, such as ORAL CONTRACEPTIVE PILLS, IUD, AND OF COURSE ABSTINANT.
Now, the most crucial discussion is DEADLY DISEASE and STD (SEX TRANSMITTED DISEASE). It is a vice versa condition for male and female. STD, such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, are the most common STD reported and bear in mind that, it does not nescessary gives symptons and the virus might stay in your body for years which eventually will create more health consequences. Other more sever STD are SYPHILIS, HERPES (HSV), HEPATITIS ALSO ARE THE MAIN ISSUES TO BE CONCERN.
Lastly, HIV WHICH LEAD TO AIDS is the most worrying disease, as most people knows that it is a deadly disease.
Remember, HIV VIRUS does not recognise who you are, so play the part to protect your partner, especially female, cause FEMALE AS A RECEPTIVE ARE MORE PRONE TO GET CONTAGIOUS WITH VIRUS COMPARE WITH MALE.
Secondly, regarding the moral issue. Many forumers think that sex after marriage is the best way to do. I personally don't think so. From the science point of view, no matter what, play safe is the most important issue. SEX IS A PLESURE BETWEEN A MALE AND FEMALE, NOT FOR ABUSE.
Lastly NO MATTER IF YOU HAVE SEX BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIED, TO BE SURE OF BOTH THE MALE AND FEMALE ARE FREE OF ANY DISEASES, SUCH AS HIV, try to perform a ELISA TEST ( the most widely use test in detecting hiv virus in the blood ). Remember, ELISA TEST WILL BE MOST ACCURATE AFTER WINDOWS PERIOD OF 12 WEEKS AFTER THE LAST UNPROTECTED INTERCOURSE.
So, to all the youngster forumers here, whom have no ideal what you were talking in this forum, please talk to your GP/DOCTOR/HEALTH PROFFESSION to get more information.
Thank you
You should start educating those on dogs... they do it without condom even on the roadside..