It's not the 13th, it's the 14th D:

Greet again tomorrow XD

well i am greeting again Happy Birthday Sophiera!!!!    

Haaaappppppyyyy birthday to you....

may the good Lord blessss you,

you were born in the z.........

just kidding.

hello all,

i am new here, would like to join this thread too

welcome to the family

mind to intro yourself of where is your church that you are serving?

i do not have a dedicated home church or part of any cell group
sometimes i attend DUMC and sometimes i attend FGA also

nvm as long you are interested to share your thought about Christianity with us all here

Waaah such a nice picture Thank you so much UW! And additional thanks to subimpact even though he got the date wrong

my calendar normally early one day... hahaha so better wish early than never

happy fathers day

if u guys got any events going on in ya church do tell ... so can go visit

Good to know you have your own principles. Be sure to stick to them. There can be times when relying on bible verses and prayers won't be enough, so having your own principles will really help. Remember that "the flesh is weak". My hubby recommends distracting yourself whenever you feel the urge by doing something that will really occupy your mind and requires focus, such as playing an intense game, read a fav book, talk to your parents, call up a close friend and have a meaningful discussion, go for a workout/run, as long as it keeps you focus long enough to rid the urge. Yes, it's the wife replying you this time, he's too busy with work and feels bad he can't reply you directly so I'm doing so on his behalf if you don't mind
So whatever you read here will be his and her opinions, the best of both worlds about a habit that be rather self destructive.

Now, the worst thing about porn is it doesn't affect you presently, but it affects your future. Think about your wife, I assume you are reserving yourself for her, because you already love her even though you haven't met her? Remember, honor your wife. If you love God, love your wife, if you love her, honor her.

Now how does it affect your future? Well, you will probably end up going for physical features when looking for a partner in the future and not emotional/intellectual features. Even if you can coax yourself to go for the latter features, when you're married and it's time to get to "know" her you won't be able to feel the feeling of fulfillment or satisfaction, like as if she is not enough. Why? Because she does not have the body of your ideal pornstar, therefore you find her unattractive. In the long run, this can really run your marriage to the ground especially when there are so many external influencing factors out there.

Secondly, watching porn is sort of like a visual training. The more you watch it, the more you will want to try out the nonsense you see in it. At this rate, you might even break your precious principles and when that's done, there's no going back. Somethings, once lost, is forever gone. FYI, all that stuff you see is fake, think about it. He hasn't even touched her and she's already moaning away. I remember watching it in uni once back with some of my friends (I'm a psychology major, we were doing research and yes, really research, not "research"  ) and the first question I asked myself "Why is she so noisy? The guy didn't even do anything..."  Some people find porn disgusting and disturbing, I find it stupid.

It sets a fake (and incredibly low) standard about how girls react. You try any of that you learned in porn in the future and you're going to have a bad time. You lose your own sense of originality and end up just copying the nonsense you see.

So if you really want to stop, think about your future. Is that 5 minutes of lust satisfaction worth a lifetime of regret? and it wont just be your own, your wife will be affected by it as well. She would feel insecure about her physical appearance and end up doing things that she may regret eventually.

That's about all I have to say, hope it helps. There's a pretty good movie that depicts the life of most men out there and it's called Don Jon. Check it out

u can come to klang? will let you guys know if there any event at my church

hello all,

i am new here, would like to join this thread too

I find that very hard to believe. I am very sure it happens miraculously to other people. One of my elders survived a stage 4 cancer. It's that the recovery seems to elude me.

My boyfriend believes everything of the Bible and Jesus, but is afraid to go to church and/or make an official prayer of salvation. Macam mana?

You pray for Him. 

No choice sophiera, you're going to have exercise your faith.

I'll help you and probably knock some of God's word into your prayer life.

You are going to do it in a PM?

I didn't find out he's not a Christian until late in our relationship. I thought he is because he agree to everything Jesus.