simpan duit untuk kawin, taun depan
simpan duit untuk kawin, taun depan
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Apr 18 2014, 12:04 PM
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I'm gonna save RM30K to buy a wife from Vietnam, in case I get bored of still being single
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Apr 18 2014, 12:05 PM
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175 posts Joined: Aug 2011 |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:06 PM
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219 posts Joined: Dec 2011 From: on da ch4ir |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:08 PM
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101 posts Joined: Apr 2012 From: The Utopia |
This is why men are struggling nak kahwin. Kos, hantaran, etc etc. Money is the only thing yang halang. Including me also, saving money for future nikah. haish.
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Apr 18 2014, 12:14 PM
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267 posts Joined: Jan 2007 From: Selangor |
QUOTE(kaizor11 @ Apr 18 2014, 10:02 AM) um currently 26 and getting merid next year yes..you can save that amount. U can try to adjust on the car or petrol. I use bike to work too 1 month aro RM50 only, car is car loan or car maintainance?Monthly income RM3211.25(after EPF and SOCSO) makan2-not fix.i makan whatever i like house rent - 300 car- 400 petrol - 150 (i use bike to work. rarely by car.) parent - 200 aunty - 200(as my aunty is the one who raised me from form 1 to 5) internet and phone - 150 total 1250 without makan2 as i dont fix what amount for makan. let say i wanna save rm1000-1500 per month? can survive with that? this one didnt include entertainment. guess i need to cut entertainment until next year |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:20 PM
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Apr 18 2014, 12:20 PM
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59 posts Joined: Aug 2008 |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:20 PM
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Apr 18 2014, 12:24 PM
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1,711 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Kedah Khap Khoun Khap (4K) |
save rm1k enough bro.
Then, try to cut on food. Maybe beli & then masak kat rumah ka? Jimat lagi. Try not to go dating that frequent sangat with your future wife. Once or twice a month ok kut All the best |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:26 PM
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3,668 posts Joined: Jun 2006 From: Bikini Abyss |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:26 PM
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Apr 18 2014, 12:27 PM
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The key that you hold is duration before kawin - which is a year ahead. You'll have plenty of time to rearrange for finance.
Contrary to most of the faggots here to down you before you even start, I will try to guide you the best I can. As the beginning, you can start by deducting your nett income by RM 1,500 and the rest of the amount after the deduction will be divided into your necessities. Bear in mind that you will need to minimize all the non-essential usage to its lowest level (holiday/new phone/PS4/Steam summer sale etc). Within a year (minus 1 months [RM 1,500] in case of unpreventable emergency), you will have approximately RM 16,500. Using that amount, including the one from your parents willing to provide (grow a ball to ask them), start initiating your final plan to be presented to your family in law. In case they forcing you to stick to their demand and refuse to meet your budget in the middle way, try asking your fiancee to slow-talk to them as last resort. If your last-resort fail, you gotta keep an open mind regarding the future possibilities ahead. You might lose your fiancee, but you still have 16.5k on your hand. This is the major point why Islam ask us to find someone on the same level. They tend to be more understanding with each other and more acceptable. |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:28 PM
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813 posts Joined: Aug 2008 From: KUALA LUMPUR |
try to save rm1k/month
good luck |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:40 PM
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175 posts Joined: Aug 2011 |
QUOTE(Mr.Docter @ Apr 18 2014, 12:27 PM) The key that you hold is duration before kawin - which is a year ahead. You'll have plenty of time to rearrange for finance. yeah..hopefully will be enough after next year. Contrary to most of the faggots here to down you before you even start, I will try to guide you the best I can. As the beginning, you can start by deducting your nett income by RM 1,500 and the rest of the amount after the deduction will be divided into your necessities. Bear in mind that you will need to minimize all the non-essential usage to its lowest level (holiday/new phone/PS4/Steam summer sale etc). Within a year (minus 1 months [RM 1,500] in case of unpreventable emergency), you will have approximately RM 16,500. Using that amount, including the one from your parents willing to provide (grow a ball to ask them), start initiating your final plan to be presented to your family in law. In case they forcing you to stick to their demand and refuse to meet your budget in the middle way, try asking your fiancee to slow-talk to them as last resort. If your last-resort fail, you gotta keep an open mind regarding the future possibilities ahead. You might lose your fiancee, but you still have 16.5k on your hand. This is the major point why Islam ask us to find someone on the same level. They tend to be more understanding with each other and more acceptable. |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:40 PM
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175 posts Joined: Aug 2011 |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:44 PM
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QUOTE(kaizor11 @ Apr 18 2014, 10:02 AM) um currently 26 and getting merid next year Bro, Im earning more than you also scare wanna settle down Monthly income RM3211.25(after EPF and SOCSO) makan2-not fix.i makan whatever i like house rent - 300 car- 400 petrol - 150 (i use bike to work. rarely by car.) parent - 200 aunty - 200(as my aunty is the one who raised me from form 1 to 5) internet and phone - 150 total 1250 without makan2 as i dont fix what amount for makan. let say i wanna save rm1000-1500 per month? can survive with that? this one didnt include entertainment. guess i need to cut entertainment until next year Wonder how you can managed Anyhoo try to settle your car, house and bank loan first before you settle down. It can make world of different. Go for inner beauty rather than outer beauty (Wife material) Best of luck to you bro |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:48 PM
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311 posts Joined: Jun 2010 |
parking for future reference
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Apr 18 2014, 12:48 PM
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87 posts Joined: Nov 2007 |
Boleh bro.. Di mana ada kemahuan di situ ada jalan (Rezeki ada mana2 bro kalau niat anda ikhlas)
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Apr 18 2014, 12:54 PM
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QUOTE(kaizor11 @ Apr 18 2014, 10:02 AM) um currently 26 and getting merid next year nak simpan until when..Monthly income RM3211.25(after EPF and SOCSO) makan2-not fix.i makan whatever i like house rent - 300 car- 400 petrol - 150 (i use bike to work. rarely by car.) parent - 200 aunty - 200(as my aunty is the one who raised me from form 1 to 5) internet and phone - 150 total 1250 without makan2 as i dont fix what amount for makan. let say i wanna save rm1000-1500 per month? can survive with that? this one didnt include entertainment. guess i need to cut entertainment until next year baik use to judi |
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Apr 18 2014, 12:56 PM
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4,063 posts Joined: Apr 2010 From: Kuala Lumpur |
go kawin with ur left hand, hahaha
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