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TSredracer2004
post Apr 16 2014, 02:59 PM, updated 12y ago

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I read this on FB news but forgot where the source came from.

Bf age 29, Gf age 25.

Gf's friend celebrating birthday by clubbing.

All girls party, bf cannot follow.

Gf's close friend so she had to go.

Bf tried to stop her from going but she insisted she can take care of herself.

Bf wanted to pick her up from clubbing at 3am (time she promised to finish) but he waited till 4am and she never appear

Bf went back home worried and angry because he told her not to go.

Next day around 12pm, gf's friend called bf telling him that they finish partying around 4+am and found gf unconscious in the toilet with her clothes messed up.

Called ambulance and doctor said she had intercourse within the past few hours with several men.

Bf heard story and felt very angry.

Left gf because he felt that gf dun sayang herself.

Bf tried stopping her with force but she insisted to go, or else she will have a cold war with him. So this happened, he asked for breakup because it's gf's fault.

Was the bf too harsh or was he right?
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post Apr 16 2014, 03:35 PM

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QUOTE(Domomo @ Apr 16 2014, 03:33 PM)
people  will say that the guy is heartless etc and look like the guy didnt love her that enough,but let me ask u guys 1 thing if the guy advice the girl dont go but the girl still choose to attend her friend party, even knowing the bf is opposing it ,which one is the one that is doesnt care about who. The guy that advice the gf or the gf that ignore the bf plea and got raped.
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And still, some girls are still stupid enough to go clubbing on a 'girls night out only'.

So many cases, still not scared.
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post Apr 16 2014, 03:38 PM

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QUOTE(Domomo @ Apr 16 2014, 03:37 PM)
yeah thats why,but in this society we the guys get blame,for example if outside LYN here this they will say the guy is at fault
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What did the guy do wrong? XD

1. Did guy stop her because it's dangerous? Yes.
2. Did guy try to find her after her stipulated party time? Yes.

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post Apr 16 2014, 03:44 PM

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QUOTE(Zoros3112 @ Apr 16 2014, 03:40 PM)
I would say dump liao la...wanna kena sexually transmitted disease meh ..even worst raise other ppl kids...
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But I wonder what the girl will feel.

Because I dunno why but I always have impression on Clubs and Discos.

At least pubs like Library and all aren't that bad because those are places that nothing much can happen as they are normally in open locations, not like clubs.
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post Apr 16 2014, 05:06 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Apr 16 2014, 04:52 PM)
The focus should be on the assailants not if the gf should listen to the bf.
Oh come on. You guys know very well that if the society caged/put down all the strays dogs, there WILL NEVER be another case of stray dogs attack. The root of the problem is stray dogs.

Apparently, this society allows stray dogs to live as men.  I'm honestly ashamed.
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I can't agree with you.

It's not rape if the girl willingly talks back to other guys who started flirting with her and then they end up getting dirty in the toilet.

Whether or not the assailants used drugs is another issue, but the point is, the girl shouldn't be answering back to conversation (if it did happen) because it will seem that the girl might be interested for a fling.
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post Apr 16 2014, 05:22 PM

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QUOTE(RUI @ Apr 16 2014, 05:18 PM)
Unconscious = no consent to me. No consent is rape. Are you disputing this?

Now it's just a matter of the multiple intercourse before or after she is unconscious. I made assumption it's after, u made assumption it's before. Nonetheless, the mentally challenged description was directed to anyone that equates party = rape.

Right, like I said. Let TS to have it clarified. Btw, did TS happen to mention that she intentionally left the company of her friend? I didn't read that part. If there is, My bad. Else, it's further assumption of yours. Besides, there still no wrong in going clubs and accepting drinks and even up for an orgy or orgies. KEYWORD: consent!

If she is up for an orgy. She will pick a bed. The a pretty logically assumption. And pretty sure you know how disgusting male toilet in a club looks like at 3am.  whistling.gif

I'm just angry with the society to allows dogs to live amongst men. It's not white knighting. It's just not wanting any men including YOU to live in fear just because of some stray dogs. I'm not too sure if me and you or other forumers are on the same page,
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I kinda agree on this but there's nothing we can do. Most people think that if they have money, they can do any s**t.

There was once a news of quite a rich fella's son caught in a club 'raping' a girl.

He was out of trouble because the father just told the girl's family that any amount of $$$ as long as the family shuts up.
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post Apr 17 2014, 11:59 AM

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QUOTE(MishimaZ @ Apr 17 2014, 11:01 AM)
No consent = rape. Agree with this.

Unfortunately, we cannot define rapists as strays as we can identity between strays but not wolves in sheep's clothing. Such is not society's problem anymore when it was the girl who chose to party til wee hours, shoving every bottles into her mouth that in the end allowing wolves to shove their poles into her.

No doubt no girls want to get raped but in most times their actions that can prevent it. In short, she put herself in this situation. Clearly I will never be with a clubbing girl (just me only) because to me they only know how to put themselves into such situation and then play victim on it.
How can a all girl party end up into being a toilet seat? I am damn sure she is asking for it, and deserves it.

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I just read this from FB news, so not sure about the details.

But I can prove that some points about club conditions might depend on which day.

I have a friend (MIA for a long time), he was quite a player guy.

He went to a club with his gang and he saw a quite cute girl going into the toilet.

He followed her in and hugged her from behind (and yes, he's drunk).

The gang noticed a bit late, ran over and tried to stop him.

Girl was screaming for help, the bf came, punched my friend on the face so he got one bruised eye after that.

If the girl was drunk, she might be DEAD MEAT already by my friend.

 

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