QUOTE(ChAOoz @ Apr 16 2014, 10:57 PM)
There are also many times people try to be smart and argue around conventional wisdom.
Im not drunk i can still drive
Im able to control drug usage
I dont have to take care of my health etc
Theres a fine line at trying to be special / trolling and a genius. You could be either.
What im saying is since donkey years no man want their partner to be a public toilet. If you still think otherwise you might be the few that say the earth was round when it was flat. Kudos to you.
You caught me trolling there, teeheehee.
Regardless, point being that in this age, there's no implicit agreement on how both sexes should act in a relationship and also marriages. Most women want to be empowered and enjoyed their freedom in being a town bike and hence should be encouraged to do so, and see both sexes are in serial monogamy most of the time, I just don't see the benefits of teaching how a woman should act in her adult years, that's her parents responsibility.
Like it or not, most females fumbled throughout their twenties not knowing what they should do in a relationship, and even if her partner tried to restraint her, it will be looked upon as an oppression, and women wants to get to do whatever she wants(which is fun), and there's nothing a man can do to stop her. The man will be looked like an a$$hole in TS case in whatever he does, and at the end of the day nothing he does will benefit him should she hates him for restricting her freedom, and all his teaching will only benefit other man that marries her(should she decides to turn another leaf for another man by being an enlightened virgin), which most white knight will do.
I don't see the point in teaching women in how to be adult, especially in cases whereby the end result doesn't benefit me. Since women want to have fun fun fun, might as well enjoy the fun, then find other women that can be adult should the man wants a marriage. Let those women that wanna have fun be the headache of other white knights that marries her.
If the girl doesn't treat the relationship seriously, why should the man treat her serious? Go find other girls for fun fun fun la, since there are many of them around anyway.