QUOTE(silverhawk @ Apr 16 2014, 11:46 PM)
He never went in to look for her? Call up her friends and family to find out her location? Either the BF is a retard, or the whole story is dubious.
Finish partying at 4am+ means the BF was in the vicinity, how come he didn't go in to find for her or her friends? Hence making this story sound really fake.
Now assuming the story is true, we cannot even determine this is rape. There are a few points which make it very suspicious.
1) Her friends didn't notice she was missing for a period of time?
2) Her friends didn't notice if guys were hitting on her?
3) Raped by multiple men in the toilet and no one in the club noticed?
4) Found her messed up and unconscious and they don't bother to call the BF?
5) Doctor can determine there were "several" men? How? DNA testing is the only known way to prove multiple perpetrators and it definitely takes longer than 8 hours to get results, often takes weeks depending on the DNA lab's workload.
In the end though, the guy's decision to break up with her is right. In the worst case scenario, she was really raped and she got into that situation because of her horrible friends and her own inability to take care of herself. In the best case scenario, she f`cked around and is using rape as an "excuse" for her behavior hoping the BF forgives her.
In either case, she and her friends are toxic. Best to leave such people out of your life.
3) Loophole in stories, loud sound drowning out uhuh sound? Several people marching into toilet without attracting attention?
1) 2) & 4) Not a bunch of great friends, aren't they?
5) Hymen tearing but it is not a great indicator of multiple perpetrators/partners.
Logical enough. It could be herself wanting multiple partners or just unlucky to be gang-banged.
QUOTE(jasonlim @ Apr 17 2014, 01:38 AM)
It could be a drug rape.if so, it was an accident.not something the gal want/expect
But what to do next is up to the guy.if u ask me, I also not sure what to do
It means that her friends aren't really friends at all. It is not an accident if the BF warned her yet she ignore it.
Using rape as excuse - being sly and being a slut.
Date rape drug - her inability to take care of herself by disobeying good advice from BF & lack of sense to take the risk of exposing herself in that environment to be drug raped/gang-banged. Being with 'friends' that doesn't look out for you, aren't worthy of being called friends.