it is normal for middle class serfs to attempt to lure you into their wasteful lifestyle.
They do so by
- Pressuring you to get married with beautiful expensive wife
- Pressuring you to buy expensive car
- Pressure you to wear branded clothes
- Pressure you to eat in expensive dining halls
- Pressuring you to go on expensive holidays
- Pressure you to have expensive weddings etc.
They will say you have no life if you dont marry beautiful expensive wife OR do not have exp car OR not using branded clothes OR not going to expensive diners OR not going to expensive holidays OR not having an expensive wedding.
In short, you have no life, unless you live like a middle class serf.
Thats why, majority of malaysians are middle class serf. they have no ability to say no, and hence, they get swept in wasteful lifestyle, and get drowned in debt.
Do whatever you want. Live however you want to live. Do whatever you enjoy. your life is yours. Not theirs.
just live the way u want as long as it makes u happy dont let others dictate how you should live your life. I can afford branded stuffs but I dont splurge on them simply because i cant afford it , nowadays u see many youngsters with minimal income or average income indulge themselves with luxury good that cost more than their salary in order to "elevate" their status.
I dont understand how a few thousand ringgit belts,shoes and handbags can change your life and your status when you struggle to meet months end and live in poverty. Irrational spending will just put u further and further away from your life goals.