Hi Spanker,

I've done that and been there before. Used to do all those things until one day I finally said NO and even though they were insisting like mad, I learned to say NO to the right people and taichi it around. If you don't do that then like dreamer said, you would have too much work to handle.

Sometimes being thick skinned is good but of course don't make a bad impression. I usually build a good relationship with the people who complain the most and help them through and teach them to be more independant. Once that is done, problem solved.

Patience is the key sometimes I guess.

regards,
Mavik