i don't believe in LDR.

It really depends on how long is the timeframe we're talking here.

Communication is the major tool that connects and enhance the relationship of the couple. Verbal and image comunication(through 3G and all that) can only do so much. After that phone line is cut off, the feeling of being alone will eventually creep in again.

There are other communicative elements much needed for a healthy relationship thought on its own it's not exclusive like


touch
hugging
affection
kissing
presence
sharing
caring
mild jealousy
encouraging
constructive arguments
etc etc

When you are so far away from your love one say after a year or so,
That longing to be with somebody will come on its own. This is where unfounded freedom will test and strain the said person. Loyalty will be hard tested as the person away could practicaly do anything without the other person knowing.

Humans are imperfect and fall able creatures. Everyone is guilty of something somewhere along his or her life.

All tolerance have limitations. We don't 100% person trust anyone after not seeing each other for so long.

Anyhow this is my personal POV. Don't have to take it as it doesnt neccesary apply to everyone. There are successful LDR too.

oi! is this still about LDR??????????????? or your personal SDR?

You know i wanted to comment something about this thread, but i can't! i just can't do it! Arghhhh! This too much for me to take, my brain hurts.

*Cupid Corner has the ability to derail UW capabilities.
*UW suffers from headaches everytime he visits CC.

How r u lah fren?

break break lah.
someone in LYN ask me this. How & what comes next?

i answer: whatever will be will be. Que sera sera.

cheers alright?

it's gonna be a great day for you man. i'm gonna curse you with too many girls to choose from. Joking