I used to be in LDR. Dunno if any of you remember me or not.

But then, the wait was long.. and the prospect of being together was rather complicated. She didn't give me signs that she would've liked to come and stay with me. And I also kinda didn't want to go back liao.

Sometimes I think about her.. and recently I dreamt about her. We continued being friends until my gf complained so much and I lied to my gf that I wasn't talking to my ex. Now suddenly, I miss my ex, and in truth, if my ex was around here or has plans to come here, the situation would get really complicated.

Haha. I know... I thought I cleared up liao. But then sometimes when my gf doesn't talk to me or etc, that just makes me go and I start thinking bout the past.

Yeah I think so too. it's been a problem for me.. but it's been better liao. Not feeling so lonely when she leaves me alone..


Yah I learnt that the hard way. But sometimes girls, they will ask about the past! And if you don't tell them, they angry..but if you tell them, they get hurt and angry..

Haha. It's kinda abit too late liao. Now she's pretty angry with me. Not only for that but for not knowing her and for not surprising her and things like that. I only have myself to blame. Even when I am trying to surprise her like right now, I ter-sent an sms to her, thus destroying my surprise. Sighhhh.. Siannn arrrr....

Haha. Thanks. Thanks. But then ppl angry, they won't think about anything else mah right? Sincere or not.

LDR thoughts filling my mind again. I still love her..

But distance was the factor we broke up in the first place. I don't know how she feels about me. She said she might come to my convocation if she has enuff savings. I pray and hope so she does. I miss her.

Happy to see so many ppl in LDR. Keep going my friends! Never give up!

Haha. i wish to..but then see how first la. i'm in Canada..and she's in Subang Jaya.. quite hard. we made it work for 2 yrs plus..but it was not without problems and doubts. I just want her to be happy. But we see how it goes.

wassap, don't worry man. I also gone through it before many times. gf bad mood already then totally dunno what to do. what's worse is that i'm halfway around the world away from her. make it even worse. she night i day. i night she day. then the whole day i will keep on thinking and thinking. just let her be la. still be nice and wish her and everything but try not to irritate her. sometimes girls just want to be surprised.

I called my ex yesterday night. Dunno if I should revive the LDR again or not. She was surprised.. maybe abit excited.. but it wasn't such a great time since she just got home from school to eat lunch and she picked up a few times but I hung up because I thought I got the wrong number. Called and called but I got music playing so I thought something wrong It was nice to talk to her again though.

wah all the talk about webcam. i also want to join.. can broadcast to me too?

I remember you Skysherly. Though you might not remember me. My LDR was like waaay back.

Take care.. Be strong. I know how hard it is. It must be very hard for him too. I know i was heartbroken when I was leaving. Crushed my heart so much.

This post has been edited by Tereno: Mar 9 2007, 09:22 PM

Hey all,

Ok. I am thinking of making a move for this girl that I just met 2 days ago. I'd like to take it slow but then.. she's moving back to her hometown in like 2 plus months. Wondering if anyone have any advice?

She's a year older than me. I don't know if she has a bf or not but on the day that I met her, we were at the mall and we were alone but I felt that we totally hit it off. She gave me her msn at the end and asked me to add her. She said thanks for the company. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me.

However, our MSN conversations haven't gone that well and I've tried calling her 2 times but didn't manage to get her. I smsed her couple of times too but no reply. Dunno how to approach her without being annoying. Any thoughts?

Yeah trying to be friend only. Well just trying to get to know her better..not hoping too much. Kinda looking beyond after she moved back then see how. Maybe I will fly there to visit her.

Right now got no chance to talk to her also. Should I ask her out for a movie? Or a drink? I'd probably need to have a group going or else she might not go but the prob is there's no group.

Thanks man! I definitely going for it. And see how it all plays out. It might be just a crush on my part ..but we shall see. Going to call her maybe tomorrow or day after and just say ask if she interested to go see a movie or something. (Already tried calling, MSNing, smsing and no replies so i don't wanna keep doing it) Maybe have dinner first? Hmmm. I feel like a newbie all over again. She's always on my mind right now. argh!! can't work or do anything properly. i need an outlet.

This post has been edited by Tereno: Mar 19 2007, 10:36 PM

yes yes alright! back to the basics for me. gosh this just sounds so exciting.