...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 2:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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 Jan 17 2007, 03:17 AM
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QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Jan 15 2007, 10:37 PM) Trust is vital^^ Yeah... Gampateh " it takes forever to build trust but it takes only one second to destroy it. " , miyoko said. this is indeed very true~~ ganbatte to all members here~!! NEVER GIVE UP ! Keep the love burning ~    |
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Jan 18 2007, 05:04 PM
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QUOTE(MX510 @ Jan 18 2007, 11:08 AM) LDR better build a custom backup server (my thought ) just in case faith is not going to help and just for playing safe as insurance for backup plan  I hate this kind of guy. Then you are not prepare for a relationship at all. |
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Jan 19 2007, 02:08 PM
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Sigh.... Suddenly, all of the sudden, I have lost quite a lot of faith and ask myself whether do I want to continue to go for this commitment for this relationship. I have already think twice, thrice about the future, to see whether it can work a not. As you guys know, she is 1 year older than me, and of course I need to think a lot about the future. Soon after that, I have made my decision after I get involved in this relationship and decided to take up the commitment till now.
Everything goes smooth until all of the sudden just now she told me that she afraid she couldn't wait for me.  I am totally speechless and I faith in carrying this commitment have just disappear just like. What the point for me to study till degree? All because of her and our future, because she doesn't have any certificate(although she studying for it now) and working in Singapore won't be an easy life for sure.Now, all my thinking is, will I am the one who make her suffer in the end? I am ok with it, but just her. I just don't know what to do... Sigh This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Jan 19 2007, 02:20 PM |
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Jan 22 2007, 03:01 AM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Jan 19 2007, 07:58 PM) there's many girls who think like me out there. however, points to ponder is ---> everyone is unique. it's impossible to actually find another replica of me or you Hehe. Actually I study my degree because of myself, her, and our future.  what suiteng said is true. it seems to me that you do most of the things is just cause of her. this shouldnt be the way. you should think of your own future first, then only both of yours future. it's not your responsibility to think for her future. it's hers. also, you do thinks to improve yourself, for your ownself, not for her. same goes with you studying degree, it's for your ownself, not for her. anyway, whether to give up or not, it's not up to me to decide. you gotta think about it and evaluate it by yourself. if you think you couldnt think about it, leave it for a while, then take out a piece of paper and write out the reasons why you wanna give up and also the reasons why you dont wanna give up. hope this will help you more in guiding you. all the best!  Seriously, I wouldn't dare to take a paper too, I do not want to give up this relationship... Hehe. If you ask me to write why I want to give up, I won't write anything, even it take years, I won't also... If ask me to write why shouldn't I give up, I will write a few pages  QUOTE(littlediana @ Jan 20 2007, 05:02 PM) Anyone knows the link for the Long Distance Relationship version 1??? No longer in cupid corner already. Why? So many pages, you want to read meh?QUOTE(yukikaze @ Jan 20 2007, 07:02 PM) hmm i wonder, Since you have the intention to start a relationship, why PAUSE the intention?me and a girl,knew each other for..around...2 weeks ++ we got feelings for each other and have intention to start a relationship. and..yeah it'll be a LDR unless she's going to college in kl just thought that,will be alot of problems...to start off a LDR. futhermore,days that we knew each other wasn't that long. i suppose it'll end fast..ain't it? Start the relationship, put in lots of effort. Good Luck QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Jan 20 2007, 08:44 PM) Joshua_0718 , study for urself ..Love ur self also ar , take care!! GOOD LUCK TO U , i will pray for u Waahh.. Remember to pray for me o!!! I will remind u 1 o!!!  add oil Ok, gampateh..... QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Jan 21 2007, 01:58 AM) Need your advise miyoko.. I wonder what the reason led to argument just because of want to reformat? Why? What about backup 1st then reformat?I argued with my gf bout some simple thing like computer stuff 2 days before because it couldnt be turned on so i suggested formatting which led to a big argument. During the argument,she ended her call with go F@#k yourself and even said you didnt think i would get scolding(which i dont think she would)from her mom coz i fetched her from KL to Klang after her school.This is because prolly her mom would think she ask me to send her back so its kinda 'mafan'.But when i was in her house,everything was okay. I sent her back because i wanted to spend more time with her and also help her to fix her bro's computer at home.Even just now(12.45AM) i offered to go to Klang to fix the computer as it had problems again.Do you think i am doing too much and people tend to 'ambil ringan' after some time? Pls advise..Anyone can advice too.Thanks. Just be patient, and try talk to her not to use rude word Doing too much??? Effort is uncountable, but I would like to advice you to put in more effort if you really love her. |
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Jan 22 2007, 02:11 PM
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QUOTE(bebee @ Jan 22 2007, 11:48 AM) i dun belif in LDR Why wor? Involve in LDR before? cos its scary QUOTE(dgrebel @ Jan 22 2007, 01:17 PM) LDR caused me a heartache. my heart died last year. Cheer up my friend.... Life is really wonderful.... QUOTE(miyoko @ Jan 22 2007, 01:30 PM) so, if you have decided that you dont wanna breakup, you can still write the reasons in a piece of paper. nevermind if you dont wanna break up, just write down the reasons you think you wanna give up. then look into it and see what's the problem in your relationship, then work out solution together with her. Ooh....?? Okok, will do that 1 day if I am free.. Too busy with my new semester now |
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Jan 26 2007, 01:05 AM
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QUOTE(brewoe_1988 @ Jan 23 2007, 06:12 PM) hw to maintain a good ldr................... Just try your best in everything in most of the couple will do.. Most important is trust... |
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Jan 28 2007, 03:32 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Jan 26 2007, 01:20 PM) Hi everyone. How's life? Life going smooth..... QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jan 26 2007, 01:37 PM) Life is ok for me at the moment.. LDR future is uncertain... My life is uncertain too Haha, same here. Don't know what happen to myself... This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Jan 28 2007, 03:55 PM |
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Jan 30 2007, 01:05 PM
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The rest of shifu here, gone where liao? Too busy???
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Jan 30 2007, 07:33 PM
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QUOTE(DevilKia @ Jan 30 2007, 02:15 PM) my LDR still ok till now... 1 yr plus liao ... sigh Why u sigh???   |
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Jan 31 2007, 02:50 AM
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QUOTE(dgrebel @ Jan 30 2007, 11:23 PM) LDR needs patience from both parties. enuff said. i'm an experienced member of LDR. 8 years of relationship ended because of 2 years of LDR. i'm the patient one of course. I dun really understand.  |
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Feb 6 2007, 01:07 PM
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QUOTE(skyflight @ Feb 1 2007, 01:03 PM) LDR seem like not healthy for couple...most of the couples end up during 2nd or 3rd years....agree?? Not really 2nd or 3rd year, is 4th year as what we joke last timeQUOTE(BlueWind @ Feb 1 2007, 11:00 PM) Well.. I would say the possibility of breaking up at that period is there. But I wouldn't say ALL of them will break, maybe one of them can survive till the end. Mm.... Just try to maintain the relationship as possible, never give up...HELLO GUYS!!! Where you guys been to? So quiet this thread...  |
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Feb 7 2007, 12:04 AM
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QUOTE(2kia @ Feb 6 2007, 02:41 PM) everybody took ya advice, trying hard to maintain the r'ship till got no time to post here! Haha.... . QUOTE(miyoko @ Feb 6 2007, 07:07 PM) hello there, miyoko reporting in. i'm very busy with work nowadays. No wonder.wish everyone all the best of luck and Happy Chinese New Year! Happy Chinese New Year to you too... QUOTE(BlueWind @ Feb 6 2007, 07:21 PM) Yeah, certainly will not give up but if my partner doesn't want to continue anymore.. perhaps I should let her go.. Yeah, do not give up.Try to explain what LDR actually is... |
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Feb 7 2007, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(nira_110 @ Feb 7 2007, 01:15 PM) LDR hmm 2 days to reach??? let see, was gf/bf in LDR (2 days driving to reach his place) for 2 years. married him and still LDR (8-12 hours travel to reach his place) for 11 years. anybody got another record? |
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Feb 14 2007, 02:33 AM
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~ HAPPY VALENTINE DAY ~
Enjoy your day. I won't be celebrating today with her. I will be in KL and she will be on the bus going back hometown. |
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Feb 14 2007, 02:07 PM
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This time Valentine Day is the worst valentine day
Broke up with her this morning due to some reason, as I were driving and couldn't reply her msg, as before I driving, quarreled with her  During my driving, receive lots of sms but I couldn't reply her as I need to drive. And she said since I didn't reply her msg, then she know what I mean actually. So, I said since she always think about the 'two words', so let's break. And told her that I didn't reply becoz I were driving. And she ask whether I really want to break? OF COURSE NOT, then we are back together againIf really break up, I think I will always have nightmare during valentine day... SIGH, what a day..... |
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Feb 14 2007, 06:06 PM
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QUOTE(chocolatepallette @ Feb 14 2007, 05:15 PM) sad to say, something is wrong even though you manage to save this relationship Maybe she like to against me? QUOTE(jdreamer @ Feb 14 2007, 05:19 PM) Hey bro.. Sorry, I didn't get to read this earlier. I was taking my nap. Because two days ago, I said I do not want to quarrel or get into any argument before valentine day and cny. And she said she purposely want to argue with me just because I do not want to. Fine, I patiently did not bother her, till she bring up all past stories, I insisted say enough is enough, do not say it enough, and yet she still say and say and say. Then I really pissed off.Hmm, some reasons? About that girl or..? We can't help much since we don't really know the exact reasons though. Well, hmm.. hopefully you're doing okie. If you need a talk, you may pm me in MSN or something. Take care. Next day, I still angry, and she doesn't know at all. 1 whole day were angry with her, and yesterday night on the phone I talk to her say it out everything how I felt. And we closed the phone. After we close the phone, I sms her wish her happy valentine day. This morning, I do not know what happen, I try to control, try not to think so much as today is our day. But still, don't know why she said I make her angry. I didn't say anything and yet she said I make her angry  So, I were rushing to my uni and there goes our story..... |
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Feb 25 2007, 12:29 PM
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HELLO guys.. I am back!!!
Wonderful holidays for me. Meet her everyday for 8 days. Added on February 25, 2007, 12:30 pmForget to wish you guys HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR, GONG XI FA CAI  Added on February 25, 2007, 12:30 pmForget to wish you guys HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR, GONG XI FA CAI This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Feb 25 2007, 12:30 PM |
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Feb 27 2007, 09:53 PM
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Do always have your DC and shoot around lor
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Feb 28 2007, 08:21 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Feb 28 2007, 08:17 PM) Hmm, maybe Joshua will love to go also. My HAND is UP~ I WANT TO GO!!!~~~Location: Sunway. KL won't be a problem for me also. |
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Feb 28 2007, 08:26 PM
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QUOTE(miragers @ Feb 28 2007, 08:22 PM) cAN i come and 7+1 ar...? Most welcome... |
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