Hey guys.. As you know.. LDR is a difficult thing.. And because I'm her bf.. I know she has problems with her family.. But then as you all know that long distance can't do anything much.. I really want to help her.. But I just can't... Instead I can only sit down there and listen to her if she wants to tell me.. And I feel like useless you know.. As I could only just sit down there and listen her talk and couldn't give advice to her.. It's like.. I really want to help her out.. I want her to be happy.. I just can't bear to see her always sad because of her family.. Sometimes I just really don't know what to do..

It seems like I can only helplessly sit down.. Doing nothing.. I want to help her.. but I just don't know how.. Whenever I know that she's sad.. My heart aches and worried of her.. Calling her might help a bit.. but then she can't receive my call too often because when I call her then her bills will charged.. And when the bill comes.. she will get scolded by parents.. Well.. I just bought her a microphone.. I don't whether I'm helping her or giving her more problems because her parents will little bit things then scold her.. So like.. even we could talk.. she can't talk with her heart.. She cannot let her mother know..

Hope you guys understand what I'm saying.. Feel free to give some advice for me and to those whose having the same problem as mine.. But if there's no advice then I won't blame it either.. I'm just saying it out.. So if possible just drop an advice..

Thanks for reading and thanks in advance for those who is going to drop an advice

Waah~ I belanja I pokai liao..

Joshua, you know the oversea call thingy when the other party calls then the receiver will gets charged but depending on what country they are in. Mandy, about those IDD cards and stuff.. We did try before, and it seems whenever her mother look at her bills, my gf will get scolded.. Sometimes she's just too busy with her studies and school things. So at the afternoon may seemed just almost impossible for us to talk.. Besides, I will be starting my college soon.. I'm not sure whether I will have enough time nor we both will have time for each other.. I also do think that what she needs now is my caring, but the thing is when she tells me I just don't know how to answer.. It's like she tells me this and that then what I could reply her is only "ooo", "ooh.." As if like I'm not paying attention to her.. She may not think this way but then I certainly don't think that shows caring for her or listening to her.. You get what I mean?

Sudah tua satu tahun lor~

Happy birthday mate

OLD MAN~

.... What you want to see? Her face? Not pretty then don't want to sponsor?

Teh horror!

Anyway yeah it's cool uhh one of you bring laptop and uhh do the broadcast thing. Skype is good add me "gaedious" without quotation marks

If I have time I sure will be online

Lol.. Cool to celebrate birthday with friends around..

Ahh.. suiteng ah, those who is going to be broadcast also considered as attendees?

Whats Miharja/Maluri is all about? O_o

OWWH~~ Cool Cool XD

Also can easily create small problems though..

Hey sky

Your LDR journey really surpises me that you and your partner had some break-ups before and you both are still together.. And my instinct tells me that you both are going to have a wonderful future together

I really believe that though. All the best Sherly

First of all eligible, all the LDR fellow here are loyal to their partner which I personally believe that. We do realised that LDR requires lots of trust. AND also commitment, faith and things like that. Sure there will be lots of doubts between our partner.. But because of trust it keeps us continue to go alone with our partner.

But what if both sides are not able to work it out? Like say, they both are stucked?

Yeah.. Sometimes its not only about loving your partner enough or not.. It's also about coping with each other's lifestyle as well.. Wonder how me and my gf going to cope it.. lol.. But I don't think it's going to break us easily.. So I have confidence in between us.. Hope that helps a lot hehe..

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Mar 12 2007, 04:16 PM

Well, the thing is I myself dare not to be overly confident because sometimes as I experienced before even it wasn't an 'overly confident' attitude I still failed at some point. So yeah, from there I really dare not to have this 'overly confident' attitude. It brings disaster instead of bringing good things to us. Anyway Thanks Sherly

All the best to you too

I smell the number one debate again... STOP IT! Before it's too late..

Yes, Sherly is right. Just as my gf, if she decided to leave me one day I will let her go. Because I realised one thing, to love someone you will always want him/her to be happy. But sure, they cannot always be happy but we sure want them to live happily as much as they could. I wouldn't angry with my gf if one day she has someone else, because no point being angry and even you angry with her and ask her to stay it's meaningless because note that she doesn't have the feeling towards me anymore and no longer have the faith to stay together with me anymore. I wouldn't say that I won't be sad, I will be sad human has feelings so just cry for few nights and just move on. It's easier to said than done, but that's the fact.

jdreamer you should also change your avatar description as well

Just stay strong to tahan lor.. Whatelse can you do lol..

That happens to me also, I mean like because she's too tired that's why she tend to close her eyes and listen to what I'm talking.. Even though I was a bit irritated but then when it comes to thinking I tell myself 'she tired mah.. so nvm lor.. can understand one de..' But then also have to really tolerate la human being cannot be like robot like that one mah..