if there have 2nd time, I guess u know how to handle edi. 

haha....i waited for someone( hopefully girl) to comment on my long post....
reli wanted to know what they think....
but nobody commented...

aiyohh....

Just peacefully breakup..........yesterday........................

   

But my heart now already   

Hey all, just wondering, how do you guys cope with the cost of an LDR? I just got my latest phone bill and it gave me a small heart attack 

1) girl likes to test on guys ---> yes, some girls likes to do this. however, i strongly disagree with doing so. i mean, who are we to test on our guy. yes, it's suppose to be "US", not "you & me". we shouldnt test our partner in order to know whether they are the one for us or not. we should work together with our partner to go through obstacles that comes in the way, not test our partner by simply saying breakup or divorce. it's really stressful and emotionally tired when the word breakup/divorce is always brought into the situation, just to test or to seek attention. why is only girls testing guys? let's look at it the other way around, what if guys do that to test their girls? how would girls feel? i myself certainly wouldnt want my guy to test on me like that. it would be so emotinally stressful for me. that is why i dont test my guy in such a way. however, being a girl myself, i was guilty of doing that before. however, realizing that it's really a stupid and silly move, i quit it. it's just not healthy to a relationship by testing it that way.

2) joshua is trying to be reasonable by turning off hp ---> that's not reasonable. that's a bit immature. the way her gf handles it also a bit immature. i mean, if joshua really needs to be alone, why not just tell his girl? turning off handphone just created another one problem, whereby his girl handled it immaturely and using the breakupword to threaten him in order to ask him not to do that again. in this kind of situation, i would always put myself in my partner's shoe and think how i would feel if my partner treats me that way. it certainly dont feel good to call into a voicemail everytime when my partner is not in the mood. what if anything happen to me and i needed to call him urgently to ask for his help and couldnt get him? therefore, joshua's girl certainly have a reason to be mad. however, she used "threatening" as a mean to get joshua not to do that again. which isnt a very proper way, because other than serving as a warning, it also created stress. now, everytime joshua wanted to be alone, he might still think of turning off his hp but he would be afraid that his girl might breakup with him. then he will feel stressful because he cant even get his own time to be alone. so, problem arise. however, if his girl tell him how she feel when joshua turn off his hp, then maybe next time joshua will not do it, because he knows how she feel. anyway, joshua, since you say that things are back to as sweet as ever with your girl, then i'm also happy for you. i wish you good luck, yeah.

i sed Joshua was acting reasonable coz i tot he told his gf he will off his phone...(i assumed she knows and this is not only to stop her from contacting...it is oso to stop other people too.) coz sometimes...guys just need to be alone.

at this moment.....anything discussed will only be worse...nothing good will come out of it.

yeah.....if emergency than it wud be troubling....
but i guess Joshua ald took that into consideration. Only he knows his limits...and i think if he says he needs time alone...then leave him alone.

But thats what i think.
i cud be wrong.

Lately no news from Jdreamer.....wonder whats he doing...

u didnt comment on point 1? no comment ah?

jdreamer is recovering. I knocked some sense into him, i hope.

i used to have one from Singapore...  but..............

to trust someone is to believe in someone without doubt, it's not easy after some damage done to your trust. i guess it take quite some time to give her a full trust again. all the best.

jsut to update she admit after less then 1 days we broke up she has a new guy liau... hmm handal sials

Dun too nervous ya. Just treat it as friends go out drink tea, eat bun.

LOL !!

shows eihter one of u not strong

i think its u

hehehe 2months and what she threw at u , haha u got godzilla hands also cannot catch lar... so big

hahahaha 

just got into a fight with her...or shud i say argument?
but there was no fighting...no arguments...
she made a few mistakes and i cant help it, i am so disappointed it shows on my face...i dont want her to know....

she felt worried and apologized....

anyway, Miyoko.....nice plan....but nope....i wont be spending the weekend with her. im free, but not her. She cant make time for me. She has church on Sunday and youth activities on Saturday.

yeah...always bz.
no time for her bf. 

as if im always here in Msia...
i wonder how its gonna be when we are no longer LDR.

sorry....kinda sad now...
yeah disappointed actually.....

argghhh....f**k it.

i believe trust is important, and in the other hand u have to convince ur partner or i would rather say GAIN thier trust? as in dont do stupid thing like hang out wif the opposite sex. Yea they will say just 'friend' at first, but who knows wat might happen next. just my 2cents though...

dead liau arr all the LDR's??? no body post geh... break up season going around like virus i guess

Hey, i'm kinda new too! me too in LDR, just started few months back. i do agree with you that you need to have TRUST. but there is such thing as TEMPTATION as well...... I feel that, as much as both couple love each other, one of them may still do wrong coz of TEMPTATION of needs marr..... *worried* 

Hmm....i kills me everytime i sent him off..... *cry cry*

jeez... pity u lor.. got 3rd party owez like that.. haiz..

well my fren approach her.. she said she did not PLAN sh*t happen wor so its not her fault.. W*f@#)&*()#&(*$@*()...
well i think she do it until its not her fault, she is living in a fantasy of lies... god better dont wake her up if not she will suffer .. ne way.. still love her but.. haiz

i know .. i din mean something i can buy in mall . something i can do it myself .. any suggestion ? out of idea already

a Q. How bout if a girl, shes been in this relationship with her bf for 3 years. He went back to his hometown to work. Consider long distance as in the girl is in Selangor  and the guy is in JB.Relationship is still pretty strong, but the passion lost its sparks a little. But still very much in love. and the girl got herself into a no string attach kinda relationship(No sex involve). Just spending time together, a little kisses and hugs n hold hands.. the 3rd guy know nothing bout the girl's  bf as she kept it as a secret.

PS: Is this the right thread to post?not too sure where to put it in though

Me too. Heaven and Earth (God & I).

Based on my ex, sometimes it does.