QUOTE(americandream @ Feb 8 2014, 02:37 PM)
I am already facing a lot of stress currently, attending so many co-curricular activities to build up a good profile and also taking every free time I have to study.
Your reply did make think. But I don't think I would want to do A-Levels, because I have checked in the Uni's in the States and they don't really recognize A - Levels. It would just be a reference for them to see how well you do in your studies.
I can't help but feel overwhelmed by all this, plus my parents aren't giving me much help. My mum is asian, and you know how asian mothers get, all worked up about your future. She is constantly asking me to plan now so she can roughly prepare the money for my further education. Yes I do agree with you, narrowing down my options is really risky but this two are just the only uni's that I really want to get into. But I would also apply to other uni around like safety schools and such.
I have to be honest here, I am quite materialistic. Honestly speaking, if I can't get into a good school in the States, I don't think I even want to go there and study anymore. I know it is bad to have such mentality, but I feel if I give my all, get straight A's, feeling tired all the time and I can't get into a good school, I would feel it's not worth it.
I would rather get a full scholarship to study my bachelor locally or somewhere else.
I don't think my decision is premature because this is what I have wanted since I was kid. I am always letting myself lost in the ocean of books and I love writing.
Thank you really for your advice. It really did make me think about what I want and what I need.
But would you recommend if I did ADP? because I kind of want to go on the fast route like US high schoolers who just submit their IB/AP + SAT right after they graduate.
Ya, you're right, your mentality isn't right. Do remember that we don't always get what we want in our lives, and therefore we should brace for alternatives that are less favoured, but still helpful and useful. Not getting into the two Unis perhaps is disappointing, but there are still lots of universities in US that you probably do not know are much better than these two Unis. Keep your options open.
Getting straight A's and not getting what you want does make someone feels like....whatever they've done are down the drain. But like I said, you don't always get what you want, but there is always a solution to that: an alternative that could perhaps proof better.
QUOTE(maximR @ Feb 8 2014, 03:01 PM)
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Firstly, attending so many extra curricular activities will only jeopardise your chances of straight A+s. Your extra curricular marks will not help one bit in your life unless you're planning to enroll in a Malaysian public university. I was only involved in activities which I liked in form one, two, and four. I ditched everything in form five because I knew the marks would bring me no good, they are overrated, their usefulness are constantly perpetuated by ignorant teachers and school authorities.
"Your reply did make think. But I don't think I would want to do A-Levels, because I have checked in the Uni's in the States and they don't really recognize A - Levels. It would just be a reference for them to see how well you do in your studies." Wrong. In proving a fallacious claim, one could disproof it by providing a counterexample. I'd want to do the latter. One great example is Avinash Subramaniam, who did A Level at HELP and is currently studying at Harvard. There are just too many if you talk about A Level. The interesting bit is there are students who did only STPM and have managed to land a spot at Harvard, MIT, CALTECH. You see, as I've said, US unis don't care about your qualifications. They don't really care about your grades. More weight is placed on your personal statement, essays, interviews and stuff. This varies according to institution.
You tell your mum that you have everything sorted out. Then, you think and work on your own without distractions.
"I have to be honest here, I am quite materialistic. Honestly speaking, if I can't get into a good school in the States, I don't think I even want to go there and study anymore."I can relate to that because I was like that in Form Five. I very badly wanted to study Physics at MIT, my dream school since form one and if I can't achieve that, I don't want to study anymore. All I can tell you is that it sounds pretty childish to me now. Life is beautiful and full of uncertainties. If you continue with that mentality you will be constantly miserable. You don't need to get into a top school in order to be somebody successful. Heck, I don't think that NYU/Columbia is a ticket to being a magazine editor. You could study at University Malaya and still be somebody in the future. It's not about where you study but how you think and how you adapt to circumstances. You don't always get what you want in life. But even if you don't, something better awaits you.
"But would you recommend if I did ADP? because I kind of want to go on the fast route like US high schoolers who just submit their IB/AP + SAT right after they graduate."No. In doing that you burden your parents. Do something which you can afford. You WILL have an equal opportunity to attend Columbia/NYU. Where did you get the idea about IB being more favoured in the first place? It's time to widen your horizons.
"I am already facing a lot of stress currently."Just take a break from worrying and relax. Feast on mandarin oranges and cookies or something. Stressing out about your future will not change anything, because it remains to be uncertain. If anything, it will only add to the pressure and there might be a possibility of you burning out during crucial times like Trials or SPM.
I personally think co-curricular activities are quite important, especially since TS is still opening his/her doors for possibility to study locally. A good Ko-K will give you advantages in certain scholarship applications.
To TS,
ADP is not necessary. It sounds to me that you're severely financially constraint, so I'll advise you to go for STPM, complete it with good grades, and then sit for SAT and TOEFL. These two exams are the ones that are compulsory for US university entrance. ADP isn't. Even if you go for ADP, you'll still need to sit for SAT and TOEFL. STPM is recognised and accepted by US universities so why don't you consider it. I won't recommend STPM strongly but considering your current condition, I'll say it's the best option for you.