Jul 7 2015, 04:51 PM
Before starting the I've process, both husband and wife will need to gone thru the blood test and sperm checking, they didn't go thru it in a first place?
QUOTE(Joyful2006 @ Jul 7 2015, 01:31 PM)
Hi,
I am not sure about Dr. Helena's way of treatment and diagnosis, cause i was all the way under Dr.P with lots of hope and trust. Well, on my ER day on wards all my appointments was full of disappointments.
Following situations and considerations made us to move to other centres, mainly cause:
1. My hubby was not properly tested and diagnosed to confirm that his sperm is not suitable to fertilize my frozen eggs. Actually my hubby went thru TESA in KLFC with the hope to get some quality sperm but unfortunately he failed. So immediately decision to make within 10 mins either go for "donor" or "use up hubby's sample". We decided to fertilize 4/10 frozen eggs with watever the embryologist could find....results no good embryo was formed....so no ET was done on me.
2. We were not given sufficient counseling in terms of making us understand what was actually right and wrong about our blood test prior to us starting with the entire IVF program. If we were told earlier that my hubby's sperm was that bad, i don;t think so i will consider to commence the treatment in KLFC.
3. In the effort to save the remaining 6 frozen eggs, we decided to use a donor sperm....but the bad news is.....Dr.P doesn't do with donor sperm anymore, cause he doesn't have the license to do so. Then why in the first place ask us to consider for donor sperm?? Why didn't he test my hubby completely and advice us that IVF will be successful with a donor sperm as a standby?? This made me to walk into sooo many hospitals name it...Metro Klang, TMC Puchong, TMC Kota Damansara, PrinceCourt KL, Alpha FC....just to get a clear understanding of my current situation. what went wrong?? It all boils down to know there is such a huge difference the way other hospitals counsel us compare with KLFC.
4. Thinking about donor, its not an easy thing to find a donor, suitable donor, affordable donor, quality sperm from donor....i was going nuts pass 2 - 3 months looking for a donor. We some how manage to get a donor and wanted to continue with KLFC but was told NO...cause no license to do with a donor?? What the hell!!! So how?? What shall we do next??
5. All the other hospitals listed above, were afraid to give us the assurance that 100% fertilization may take place with frozen eggs as their main reason was:
a. its frozen eggs thus quality will drop over the time
b. due to the stress of transfer from KLFC to their location, quality may drop
c. upon thawing no guarantee the eggs may survive
Oh god! give me a break please.....Dr.P is the only person on the earth that guarantees my frozen eggs quality is not compromised.... the rest centres NO..NO...NO...GUARANTEE. My frustration level has gone to the hike by now.
6. Last resort i consulted Dr.Leong and narrated my entire story...well...he too said the same thing...no assurance given...but i don't have a choice now, coz we are in need of a donor. Finally, agreed to stick with Alpha under Dr.Leong. My treatment is scheduled to start by end of July 2015, hope to gain more and all my lost hope....just for my hubby and future baby...
7. I guess GOD is watching over me and all my hard work in trying to save my eggs. Need more of his blessings....Moral of the story NEVER GIVE UP LADIES!
*P/S: I am not trying to discourage or demotivate any members in this forum. The decision to proceed depends on the level of trust, confidence and comfort of each individual with the consulting doctor. This is just my side of the story. No patients leave the clinic without paying consultation fees (the minimum a doctor earns per day per patients). So please take your time to raise any doubtful questions and leave the clinic with a satisfactory answer. Remember the more you speak the more doctors will listen. Never ever assume that doctors knows the best and we know the least.
I am not sure about Dr. Helena's way of treatment and diagnosis, cause i was all the way under Dr.P with lots of hope and trust. Well, on my ER day on wards all my appointments was full of disappointments.
Following situations and considerations made us to move to other centres, mainly cause:
1. My hubby was not properly tested and diagnosed to confirm that his sperm is not suitable to fertilize my frozen eggs. Actually my hubby went thru TESA in KLFC with the hope to get some quality sperm but unfortunately he failed. So immediately decision to make within 10 mins either go for "donor" or "use up hubby's sample". We decided to fertilize 4/10 frozen eggs with watever the embryologist could find....results no good embryo was formed....so no ET was done on me.
2. We were not given sufficient counseling in terms of making us understand what was actually right and wrong about our blood test prior to us starting with the entire IVF program. If we were told earlier that my hubby's sperm was that bad, i don;t think so i will consider to commence the treatment in KLFC.
3. In the effort to save the remaining 6 frozen eggs, we decided to use a donor sperm....but the bad news is.....Dr.P doesn't do with donor sperm anymore, cause he doesn't have the license to do so. Then why in the first place ask us to consider for donor sperm?? Why didn't he test my hubby completely and advice us that IVF will be successful with a donor sperm as a standby?? This made me to walk into sooo many hospitals name it...Metro Klang, TMC Puchong, TMC Kota Damansara, PrinceCourt KL, Alpha FC....just to get a clear understanding of my current situation. what went wrong?? It all boils down to know there is such a huge difference the way other hospitals counsel us compare with KLFC.
4. Thinking about donor, its not an easy thing to find a donor, suitable donor, affordable donor, quality sperm from donor....i was going nuts pass 2 - 3 months looking for a donor. We some how manage to get a donor and wanted to continue with KLFC but was told NO...cause no license to do with a donor?? What the hell!!! So how?? What shall we do next??
5. All the other hospitals listed above, were afraid to give us the assurance that 100% fertilization may take place with frozen eggs as their main reason was:
a. its frozen eggs thus quality will drop over the time
b. due to the stress of transfer from KLFC to their location, quality may drop
c. upon thawing no guarantee the eggs may survive
Oh god! give me a break please.....Dr.P is the only person on the earth that guarantees my frozen eggs quality is not compromised.... the rest centres NO..NO...NO...GUARANTEE. My frustration level has gone to the hike by now.
6. Last resort i consulted Dr.Leong and narrated my entire story...well...he too said the same thing...no assurance given...but i don't have a choice now, coz we are in need of a donor. Finally, agreed to stick with Alpha under Dr.Leong. My treatment is scheduled to start by end of July 2015, hope to gain more and all my lost hope....just for my hubby and future baby...
7. I guess GOD is watching over me and all my hard work in trying to save my eggs. Need more of his blessings....Moral of the story NEVER GIVE UP LADIES!
*P/S: I am not trying to discourage or demotivate any members in this forum. The decision to proceed depends on the level of trust, confidence and comfort of each individual with the consulting doctor. This is just my side of the story. No patients leave the clinic without paying consultation fees (the minimum a doctor earns per day per patients). So please take your time to raise any doubtful questions and leave the clinic with a satisfactory answer. Remember the more you speak the more doctors will listen. Never ever assume that doctors knows the best and we know the least.
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